Ep. 110 How to Raise Kids Without Losing Your Mind (or Yourself) with Dr. Chelsey Hauge-Zaveleta
Release Date: 11/04/2025
Ep. 124 Guided Chakra Meditation to Clear Energy, Build Better Habits & Trust Yourself
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In this month's Chakra Clear Out, I invite you to explore the relationship between structure, habits, and self-trust. We often think of structure as something external—our schedules, routines, work, or commitments—but our internal structures shape our lives just as profoundly. In this guided meditation, I'll lead you through each of the seven chakras, helping you release inherited beliefs, outdated patterns, and energetic habits that no longer support who you're becoming. As we move through each energy center, you'll reconnect with your own energy, strengthen your intuition, and reflect on...
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Ep. 123 Guided Meditation for Beginners: Managing Anxiety, Overthinking & Gaining Perspective
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If you’re new to meditation, or finding yourself caught in cycles of anxiety, stress, or overthinking, this guided practice offers a place to begin. In this Chakra Clear Out from my Anarchist Medicine series, I guide a simple meditation designed to help you create internal space, ground in your body, and reconnect with perspective. Rather than trying to stop thoughts or force calm, this practice explores neutrality—the ability to observe what is happening inside you without immediately reacting to it. Together, we work with grounding, visualization, and attention practices that support...
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Ep. 122 What Is Meditation? How to Start a Meditation Practice (Even If You’ve Never Meditated)
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What is meditation and how do you start? Charna shares a gentle, beginner friendly introduction to meditation, mindfulness, and practice. Have you ever wondered what meditation actually is... and whether you're doing it "right"? In this special introductory episode, I'm stepping away from interviews to talk directly about meditation: how I found it, why it became foundational to my healing journey, and how you can begin a meditation practice without pressure, perfection, or needing to clear your mind. Drawing from decades of experience in somatic work, mindfulness, embodiment practices, and my...
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Ep. 121 Cut Energetic Cords & Reclaim Your Power | Guided Chakra Clearing Meditation
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Are you carrying energy that doesn’t belong to you? This guided chakra clearing and cord cutting meditation is designed to help you release energetic attachments, reclaim your energy, and clear emotional residue from past relationships, family systems, creative partnerships, religious conditioning, and other draining connections. In this meditation, you’ll learn how to: • Call your energy back to yourself • Release energetic cords and attachments • Clear emotional and psychic overwhelm • Strengthen energetic boundaries • Ground your nervous system • Restore clarity, intuition,...
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Ep. 120 Ancient Wisdom for Modern Bodies: Josh Schrei of The Emerald
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What if your trauma isn't something to extract, but something that has shaped you the way weather shapes an ancient tree? In this episode I sit down with Josh Schrei, creator and host of the beloved Emerald Podcast, for one of the most expansive and nourishing conversations I've had on this show. Josh brings the wisdom of animist and mythic traditions to the very modern problem of living in a fractured, overstimulated world, and what emerges is a roadmap for healing that goes far beyond talk therapy. We explore why ritual is actually trauma work, how the cycles of nature are mirrored inside...
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Ep. 119 The Pattern You Can’t Break Might Be Part Of Your Soul Contract with Gellyahnah
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Ep. 118 Everybody’s A Little Bit Psychic: Developing Psi Ability Using Social RV App with Chase McCarty
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If you've ever wondered if anyone can really develop their psychic abilities? This episode is for you. I sit down with Chase McCarty, the creator of Social RV, an app that gamifies remote viewing, intuition, and all the weird little psychic skills you didn’t think you could train. We talk about psi abilities like remote viewing and intuitive perception. Chase shares how he went from a skeptic to someone who built a digital space to help people train their intuition and perceptual capacities in a structured, measurable, and safe way. We talk about what psi really means, not as...
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Ep 117 Spiritual Resilience for Uncertain Times featuring Gabrielle Felder
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Ep. 116 Mayan Astrology, Cacao, and the Relief of Finally Understanding Yourself with Christine Olivia Hernandez
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In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I sit down with Mayan astrologer, cacao ceremonialist, and author Christine Olivia Hernandez to talk about ritual, gratitude, discernment, and how to live in alignment with your natural rhythm. Christine shares how Mayan astrology and the Sacred Calendar can help you understand who you are and how your energy is meant to move, rather than forcing yourself into systems that lead to burnout and self doubt. We explore gratitude as an embodied, devotional practice, not a bypass, and how daily ritual can support nervous system regulation during uncertain times....
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Ep. 115 The Alchemy of Collapse and Using It as a Gateway to Awakening with Taylor Perkins
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In this episode of the LaidOPEN Podcast, host Charna Cassell sits down with content creator Taylor Perkins, better known on social media as Cult Daddy, for a deep conversation about spirituality, embodiment, trauma, and reclaiming personal truth after high control religion. Taylor shares his journey growing up Mormon, achieving financial success, losing everything, and experiencing a profound spiritual awakening that reshaped how he understands consciousness, meaning, and self expression. Together they explore psychedelics as one possible tool for unlearning indoctrination while emphasizing...
info_outlineIn this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, Charna talks with Dr. Chelsey Hague-Zavaleta, an expert in applied educational neuroscience and social–emotional learning. Together, they explore what it really means to raise calm, connected kids — and how to do it without losing your mind (or yourself) in the process.
They unpack the science of co-regulation, discuss the difference between gentle and authoritative parenting, and share practical tools for managing stress behaviors and creating family balance.
Dr. Chelsey offers compassionate insights for parents, teachers, and caregivers looking to build calmer, more cooperative relationships with children, and with themselves. Charna also introduces her upcoming group program designed to help parents and individuals deepen their self-regulation and embodiment practices.
“When we learn to regulate ourselves, our children learn safety through us.” — Dr. Chelsey Hague-Zavaleta
Show Notes:
00:00 Introduction and Personal Wish for Parenting
00:53 Introducing Dr. Chelsey and Her Expertise
02:41 Chelsey’s Journey and Parenting Course
05:13 Parenting Challenges and Co-Regulation
07:45 Gentle Parenting vs. Authoritative Approach
15:54 Tone and Nonverbal Communication in Parenting
20:54 Handling Parental Preferences and Boundaries
30:17 The Ineffectiveness of Negative Commands
30:51 Positive Framing in Parenting
32:38 Intervening Before Explosions
34:04 Handling Stress Behaviors
35:21 Challenges of Co-Parenting and Transitions
37:57 Adoptive and Foster Parenting
45:09 Embodiment and Raising Self-Aware Children
53:22 The Power of Praise and Positive Reinforcement
56:11 Conclusion and Resources
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