You Don’t Owe Your Life to Who You Used to Be | Ep 265 with Dr. Robin
Leadership Purpose with Dr. Robin
Release Date: 02/04/2026
Leadership Purpose with Dr. Robin
This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from me, Dr. Robin. I say – “There comes a moment in your evolution where who you used to be stops being enough to hold who you are becoming. And it's subtle. It's not dramatic. There isn't a meltdown or a breakdown. It's more like a quiet noticing, a soft discomfort, a sense that you're wearing a version of yourself that no longer fits.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: If you’ve been feeling out of sync with the life or career you’ve worked so hard to build, this episode will help you understand...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from me, Dr. Robin. “You are not at a crossroads because you're confused. You're at a crossroads because you're ready. Readiness often feels like discomfort, not chaos, but restlessness, not panic, but misalignment, not fear, but a gentle insistence that something more true is calling.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: You might be feeling a quiet restlessness, even though everything in your life looks successful — I talk about why that feeling matters. I share what I’ve learned from working with...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from Vikita Poindexter. She says – “My health start to suffer, because I was so focused on everything and everybody else till I was neglecting myself. So my health was suffering, and, I had to have a, a heart to heart conversation with myself to say, okay, you're going to have to do things differently.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: If you’ve been pushing through exhaustion because “other people need you,” this conversation helps you confront what it’s really costing you. You’ll hear what...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from Žana DeVine. She says - “Those questions, when I started to really look at them and actually not care anymore about that, but actually care more about what my heart and my soul is driving me to do, even though it's really scary, this is when it got quieter. And this is when the dream got bigger.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: If you’ve been doing “the right things” on paper but still feel that quiet pull toward something else, you’ll hear a real way to work with fear instead of letting it...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from me. I say — “Success is not the same thing as alignment. And, eventually, the strategies that help you achieve, start blocking you from becoming who you really are. That's the purpose crossroads moment.” In this solo episode, I walk you through what’s really happening when you feel torn at a career crossroads. I name the two inner selves that show up when you’re deciding what’s next, and how each one speaks to you. More importantly, I show you how to tell which voice you’ve been listening to — and how to slow down...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from me, Dr. Robin. I said— “Even when high achieving women are successful on paper, they’re often privately at a career crossroads... They move forward, but end up right back in the same emotional place.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: You’ll learn about the five key checkpoints in what I call the Purpose Crossroads Loop, and why so many high-achieving women unknowingly stay stuck in it for years. I’ll walk you through a simple, reflective exercise to help you figure out exactly where you are...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from Elisha Meek. She says — “That I call my lightning bolt moment. I thought, oh my goodness, my career that I've been tying my whole entire life, my identity to for the past, you know, well over a decade doesn't have to be everything. I didn't wanna quit my career. I loved my job. I loved what I did, but I could have something else.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: If you’ve tied your identity to your career and quietly wonder, is this it?, this conversation will help you name what you’re really...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from Katya Karlova. She says — “It was like one of those moments where you just feel such clarity… I could see my future flash before me. And I was like, if I go back to that same grind, that same hustle, I am going to run my health into the ground.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: If you’ve ever kept pushing through burnout because you thought you had no other choice, Katya’s story will feel deeply familiar—and offer a new way forward. You’ll hear how ignoring your body’s signals can...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from Sara Anderson. She says — “Something that prolonged me taking the steps was for me to be able to make it make sense for everyone else around me. There's a real coming to terms with, like, leaders go first. So there is going to be a gap where people will not understand. It won't make sense. You're giving up a salary. You're giving up all these things for something else, and that may be difficult. There are gonna be people who wanna protect you from that. There's gonna be people who wanna save you, and they're like, the people...
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This week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from Dr. Nina Nola. She says – “I found my purpose really late in life. I'm 64 years old and I'm finally bubbling on all levels. And it's the most wonderful feeling. And I want listeners to know it doesn't matter when you find your purpose. You just need to look inside when it's calling you and do it and follow it because that's what I did.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: If you’ve ever had that subtle, inner nudge telling you something needs to change — even when everything looks “successful”...
info_outlineThis week’s “At her Career Crossroads” insight comes from me, Dr. Robin. I say –
“There comes a moment in your evolution where who you used to be stops being enough to hold who you are becoming. And it's subtle. It's not dramatic. There isn't a meltdown or a breakdown. It's more like a quiet noticing, a soft discomfort, a sense that you're wearing a version of yourself that no longer fits.”
Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode:
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If you’ve been feeling out of sync with the life or career you’ve worked so hard to build, this episode will help you understand why — and why it’s not a sign you’re lost, it’s a sign you’re evolving.
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I talk about the emotional reality of being in between identities — when the version of you that built your success no longer fits, but the new version isn’t fully formed yet.
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You’ll hear a new way to think about success — not as something to chase or perform, but as something to feel. Something that reflects who you are now.
Dr. Robin L. Owens is a professor, speaker, author, coach, and creator of the PurposeMAKER™ philosophy. She helps high-achieving women close the gap between outer success and inner fulfillment, so they can lead with more alignment, clarity, and meaning.
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This episode was produced by Lynda, Podcast Manager for GenX Creative Entrepreneurs at https://www.ljscreativeservices.co.nz