270: When Your Boss Doesn’t Listen: How to Shift from Frustrated to Heard
Release Date: 09/30/2025
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info_outlineYour boss isn’t listening. You’re delivering results, showing up in meetings, and sharing smart insights — but somehow, it feels like your voice never lands.
In this episode of Leading Women in Tech, we’re diving into the deeper reasons why high-performing women are overlooked, unheard, or dismissed — and what to do about it.
We’ll explore how to shift perception, develop executive presence, and lead with influence (without becoming someone you’re not). You’ll learn:
✅ The hidden dynamics that cause leaders to tune you out
✅ The performance vs. perception trap (and how to escape it)
✅ Why strategic communication — not more effort — is the answer
✅ Real client stories of turning it around
✅ 5 leadership tools to speak up and be taken seriously
✅ How to self-coach your mindset and energy to be heard
If you’ve ever said, “my boss doesn’t listen to me” — this episode is for you.
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