How to Rewire Your Brain for Joy When You've Been Chasing Achievement
Lessons from a Quitter
In this week’s episode of Lessons from a Quitter, I wrap up our burnout series by tackling one of the most common struggles high-achievers face: how to actually feel joy again. A listener asked, “What if I’ve been so focused on achievement that I don’t even know how to experience joy outside of work?” We dig into how our culture conditions us to seek validation through productivity and how to rewire that programming. I share small, practical steps to reconnect with your body, rebuild curiosity, and rediscover what genuinely lights you up—so you can find joy in everyday life, not...
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Procrastination
Lessons from a Quitter
This week I want to talk to you about procrastination. I have so many people telling me I want to do this thing but I can’t get myself motivated to do it. What I’ve found is that procrastination is not a time management issue, but an emotional management issue. This week I dig into why we procrastinate and how to start overcoming it.
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Getting Rid Of That Inner Critic - Part 2
Lessons from a Quitter
That inner critic you have that drones on and on every day about how bad you are at being a human is NOT your voice. It was put there by society - capitalism, religion, patriarchy, white supremacy, school, religion - in an attempt to control you. And it’s time we undo it. This is Part 2 of a 2-part series that will help you get rid of your inner critic. If you haven’t listened to Part 1, definitely start there because the first step is truly becoming aware of what it is and where it came from and that’s what I’ll cover in this episode. Part 2 will start giving you the rest of the...
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Getting Rid of the Inner Critic - Part 1
Lessons from a Quitter
That Inner Critic you have that drones on and on every day about how bad you are at being a human is NOT your voice. It was put there by society- capitalism, religion, patriarchy, white supremacy, school, religion- in an attempt to control you. And it’s time we undo it. This is Part 1 of a 2-part series that will help you get rid of your inner critic. The first step is truly becoming aware of what it is and where it came from and that’s what I’ll cover in this episode.
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You picked your goal...now what?
Lessons from a Quitter
In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we conclude our series on goal-setting by tackling the often-overlooked yet critical step: what to do after setting your goal. I share actionable tips to break your goal into manageable steps, focus on short-term milestones, and embrace the inevitable challenges along the way. You'll learn why expecting inconsistency is key, how to avoid all-or-nothing thinking, and the importance of weekly evaluations to adapt and improve. If you're ready to build momentum and finally achieve your goals, this episode will provide the tools and mindset shifts you need...
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The side effects of your goals
Lessons from a Quitter
In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we explore the deeper purpose of goal-setting and how it transforms not just your life but those around you. It's not about checking boxes or achieving arbitrary milestones—it's about the ripple effects your growth creates. From setting an example for your family to overcoming fears of judgment, your goals help you become the person you aspire to be. We discuss why embracing challenges is essential for meaningful change and how to choose goals that align with your future self. Join us to redefine success and build a life you truly love.
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REPLAY: Only pick one goal
Lessons from a Quitter
This week on Lessons from a Quitter, we continue our three-part miniseries on redefining goal setting. We break down the pitfalls of traditional approaches to goals and advocate for focusing on just one priority per year. Learn how this strategy builds self-trust, minimizes overwhelm, and creates lasting habits. Whether you're juggling personal and professional ambitions or battling self-doubt, this episode will inspire you to set meaningful goals without sacrificing your well-being. Plus, hear more about the upcoming “Goals That Stick” workshop, a full-day event designed to help you...
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REPLAY: How to Properly Set Goals to Actually Achieve your Dreams
Lessons from a Quitter
If you’re serious about achieving the many dreams you have for your life, you need to start getting serious about goal-setting. I know goal-setting, especially around New Year’s, gets a bad rap. But I always find it laughable that people look down on New Year's resolutions. Because think about the logic: ▪️ People use the New Year as a time to reflect and set new goals. --> ▪️ Most people don't set goals the right way and so they give up on them quickly. --> ▪️ And so everyone has now decided that the only way to solve this problem is to not set goals...
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Reflection on 7 years of podcasting
Lessons from a Quitter
In this deeply personal farewell episode, I reflect on seven years of Lessons from a Quitter as I step into a 2026 sabbatical—unsure what comes next. I share why this podcast was worth starting long before it was “successful,” and how creating something scary reshaped my confidence, career, and life. We unpack letting go of metrics, redefining success, building meaningful community, and why you don’t need to be an expert to begin. This episode is an invitation to honor your curiosity, trust the messy middle, and finally start the thing you can’t stop thinking about.
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Top 10 Lessons From a Quitter
Lessons from a Quitter
In this deeply reflective episode of Lessons from a Quitter, I share the 10 core lessons I wish I could tattoo on your brain before stepping away for my first sabbatical in seven years. This episode is about releasing shame, trusting your humanity, and letting go of the pressure to have life figured out. We talk about why burnout isn’t a personal failure, why growth matters more than outcomes, and how changing your mind is a sign of wisdom—not weakness. If you’re stuck between quitting and staying, this episode invites you to be gentler with yourself and redesign a life that actually...
info_outlineIn this deeply reflective episode of Lessons from a Quitter, I share the 10 core lessons I wish I could tattoo on your brain before stepping away for my first sabbatical in seven years. This episode is about releasing shame, trusting your humanity, and letting go of the pressure to have life figured out. We talk about why burnout isn’t a personal failure, why growth matters more than outcomes, and how changing your mind is a sign of wisdom—not weakness. If you’re stuck between quitting and staying, this episode invites you to be gentler with yourself and redesign a life that actually fits you.