290. 2 Things Getting In the Way of Connecting with Your Spouse
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Hey there! Before we dive into today's podcast, let me give you a sneak peek into my chaotic life as a mom wrangling kids for dinner and soccer practice. But hey, this won't be a long episode. I'm thrilled to share that come January, I'm launching a new course, and if you're on the email list, you'll be the first to know, with some exclusive offers coming your way. Today, I'm delving into a topic close to my heart—relationships. I've been thinking about two major hurdles we often face: firstly, not seeing people from the heart, reacting instead of understanding; and secondly, the reluctance...
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289. 10 Things To Heal Your Marriage Now
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In this podcast episode, I share the transformative journey of healing my marriage, marked by infidelity, addiction, and a pursuit of thriving. Outlining ten crucial steps, I stress the significance of seeking external support, individual and collective growth, honest communication about needs, and facing the fear of divorce. Personal accounts include breaking harmful patterns, releasing resentment, and transforming body language. The narrative concludes with the power of seeing one's partner with fresh eyes. I invite listeners to explore additional resources, including the full marriage story...
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288. 7 Steps to Resolving Conflict In Your Marriage
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Hey there, it's Joy Harrington, and I'm thrilled to have you on the show today. We're tackling a topic close to many hearts – the connection between resentment and libido. On my Instagram, I often dive into how these two aspects, especially for women, are intertwined. Resentment can be a significant barrier to emotional and physical intimacy, often rooted in communication breakdowns. Today, let's focus on practical communication strategies to break down those barriers. From practicing active listening to choosing the right time and place, these steps can make a real difference. Remember,...
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287. 2 Things You are Doing That Are Making You Feel Alone In Marriage
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In this podcast episode, I open up about the pervasive issue of feeling alone within marriages and share my journey in flipping this narrative. Drawing from recent coaching experiences and personal reflections, I explore the common thread of women feeling overwhelmed by the belief that everything is solely their responsibility. I delve into the root causes, pinpointing childhood influences and the impact of societal expectations, particularly the pitfalls of control and perfectionism. Sharing a poignant personal story about a pivotal moment in my own marriage, I stress the significance of...
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286. When Doubt and Fear Hit and You feel like a CRAZY person, DO THIS instead.
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In this episode, I, Joy Harrington, find myself driving to an appointment, lost in thought about that inner narrative we all grapple with – that voice telling us we're messing things up, that we're not good enough, that we've made a mistake. I've realized that this critical voice often emerges when I take a chance on something new, something I truly want, and that's a sign I need to confront deep-seated beliefs holding me back. It's an uncomfortable battle within, where I've learned that retreating or backtracking only keeps me in the same old loop. The key, I've discovered, is to lean into...
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285. Getting what you NEED in relationship
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In this episode, I delve into the crucial topic of asking for what you need in your marriage. I begin by sharing a personal story of someone seeking advice on feeling unheard and unfulfilled in their relationship. It's a common struggle, and I stress the importance of open communication to avoid resentment and unhappiness. I highlight the link between self-alignment and personal responsibility, underlining that we have the power to change our circumstances by being true to our desires. Making wise decisions, facing fears, and taking control of our lives are key themes discussed. I also...
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284. 5 Things to Flip Resentment in your Marriage TODAY
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In this episode, I dive into what I've discovered as the primary cause of divorce in today's marriages – resentment. I explain how resentment accumulates as stored negative emotions within our bodies over time, often stemming from unaddressed issues or suppressed feelings. As a result, it can lead to communication breakdown, unresolved conflicts, emotional disconnection, and a lack of forgiveness. These factors impact intimacy, trust, and equality within relationships. I offer five actionable steps to tackle resentment head-on, including identifying, owning, and processing it both physically...
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283. 7 Steps To Create Freedom From Resentment NOW
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In this episode, I'm excited to share a transformative seven-step forgiveness process that has had a profound impact on my life and relationships. I learned this powerful method from my coach, who inherited it from her coach, and it's been a game-changer. This process helps you release resentment by addressing the stories and lenses that shape your perceptions. I'll guide you through each step, from listing your complaints as personal stories to identifying the lenses through which you view them. We'll explore empathy, the recognition of unspoken agreements, and the importance of focusing on...
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282. My husband became my safe place when....diving into this viral reel and giving you THE HOW to help you switch this in your marriage.
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In this podcast episode, I reflect on the pivotal moments when I realized my husband had become my safe place and share insights on fostering a strong, intimate relationship. I discuss the importance of shifting perspective, separating facts from interpretations, and the power of empathy through the seven-step forgiveness process. I emphasize the need to avoid diving into logistics upon a partner's return home, advocating for creating genuine connections instead. I delve into releasing resentment through emotional processing and physical practices, acknowledging the role of body language in...
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281. Are you tired of results you don't love? It's time for the next level you to DIRECT your life
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In this episode, I delve into the significance of being the director of my own life rather than constantly outsourcing vital decisions. I illustrate this idea with relatable examples, like my visits to the nail salon, where I often grapple with whether to speak up or accept results I don't like. I discuss the adverse effects of continuous outsourcing, such as feeling lost and building up resentment. I stress the value of having a clear vision for different aspects of my life and making swift decisions while trusting my instincts. Additionally, I emphasize the importance of...
info_outlineIn this episode, I will explore unique ways to reignite the spark in your marriage. Instead of conventional advice, I focus on challenging negative stories we tell ourselves about our relationship and replacing them with positive narratives. I will also discuss the impact of our surroundings and the people we surround ourselves with, as well as the importance of the music we listen to. Visualization plays a key role, helping us create a mental movie of our ideal marriage. Additionally, I emphasize the power of gratitude and praise, training our minds to focus on the positives in our partners. Join me in lighting up our marriages and sharing this episode with friends who seek to do the same!
“When we have a story, when we have something going on inside of us, we're like, I just don't feel this way or whatever. We put on a lens that blocks us from seeing anything else. So it's not that the other stuff isn't there. It's just that you're not seeing it.”
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Check your surroundings and your circles
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Create a vision visualization playlist
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Look for the good in your spouse
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How to start building a new lens?
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