308: Self-Worth and the Undefined Heart: Breaking the Cycle
Release Date: 02/18/2025
The Live FAB Life Podcast
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info_outlineIf you’ve ever felt like you had to prove your worth, work harder to deserve success, or constantly seek validation, your Undefined Heart Center might be at play.
The Undefined Heart Center is one of the most conditioned areas in Human Design, leaving many of us stuck in overworking, over-promising, and over-proving. But what if your worthiness wasn’t something you had to prove—but something you simply owned?
In this episode, we’re breaking down:
- How the Undefined Heart Center impacts self-worth and validation
- The sneaky ways it shows up in career, relationships, and daily life
- How to stop the cycle of proving yourself and start trusting your natural value
If you’ve ever thought “I just need to work harder” or “I’ll feel worthy when…”, this episode is for you.