159 | Stop Performing Your Life: Unbecoming the Perfect Wife and Mom with Dr. Merry Lin, PhD
Release Date: 08/19/2025
170 | The 4 Silent Killers of Marriage (and How to Avoid Divorce)
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My book, Don’t Burn Your Own House Down: Prioritizing Your Marriage, Your Spouse, and Yourself for a Deeper Connection, will be here in ONE WEEK. (AHHH!!!) Please pre-order today!!! Barnes & Noble: ! (Preferred <3) Target: ! (Preferred <3) Amazon: Did you know that 41% of first marriages and 60% of second marriages end in divorce? And even higher numbers are reportedly completely dissatisfied in their marriages. In today’s episode, I’m diving into the four silent killers that quietly lead couples toward disconnection, resentment, and ultimately divorce. These issues...
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169 | You, Me, and Anxiety: Understanding and Walking With Anxious Children with Dr. Robyn Graham
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Friends! My new book, is ALMOST HERE! Countdown: 13 DAYS! (ahhh!) If you haven't already , now is the time!!! THANK YOU so much for your support! I love you guys! In this episode of the Living Easy Podcast, Lindsey Maestas sits down with Robyn Graham, author of You, Me, and Anxiety, to talk about anxiety in children, emotional regulation, and how parents can support anxious kids without unintentionally making things worse. Together, they explore why so many parents feel overwhelmed and hopeless when navigating childhood anxiety, why children often struggle to emotionally regulate,...
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168 | A Conversation with My 10-Year-Old: Morning Disciplines, Our Home Life, Sharing the Gospel with Friends, and Homeschooling
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In this episode, I sit down with my 10-year-old son for a simple, honest conversation about our mornings, our home life, and the rhythms we’re still learning as a family. We talk about what self-discipline looks like for him in the mornings. He shares the areas in which he hopes our family can still grow this year. We also touch on homeschooling, how we talk about faith in our home, and what sharing the gospel looks like as a kid. If you’re a parent navigating discipline, routines, faith, or simply wondering what your children are absorbing from your home, I hope this conversation...
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167 | You Don’t Need a "New Year, New You", You Need a Faithful Start: God Is More Interested in Your Obedience Than Your Reinvention
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As the year winds down, the noise of the past year gets louder. We see what we failed at and all that we've achieved. And then as January approaches, the world shouts at us to set our New Year resolutions, to chase fresh starts, to reinvent ourselves, to do more, be better, and try harder. But what if what your soul actually needs isn’t a fresh start, but rest and obedience? Jesus doesn't heal through pressure, He heals through presence. In this episode, Lindsey Maestas shares a gentle, Jesus-centered reflection for the holiday season and end of the year. She challenges herself, and...
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166 | If “2024 Me” Knew What I Know Now: 8 Growth-Oriented Lessons I’ve Learned in 2025
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This year stretched me in ways I never expected. My heart ached throughout so much of 2025, but I also grew in ways I never thought I could. In this episode, I share the most meaningful lessons I learned about emotional healing, personal growth, faith, relationships, and learning to sit with discomfort instead of running from it. We talk about the difference between processing and obsessing, why seeking peace through information and understanding eventually falls short, and how Scripture points us toward a peace that doesn’t rely on clarity or control. I also unpack how loneliness isn’t...
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165 | Don't Fake Orgasms, Foreplay Begins Outside of the Bedroom, and More Tips on Intimacy
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In this episode of The Living Easy Podcast, Lindsey Maestas opens a biblical and deeply practical conversation about intimacy in marriage—because God makes all things new, even in the bedroom. (Watch this recording and subscribe!) Sex may not really matter to you, but it does matter to your marriage. See the FULL curriculum for: Lindsey unpacks how physical connection is both a spiritual and emotional act of service, not just a physical one. She discusses the dangers of pornography and limerence (infatuation during affairs), how these habits alter neural pathways, and how to create a sex...
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164 | Is It ADHD or Just Being a Kid?: Dopamine, Boredom & Why Your Child May Be Frustrated with Sara Hartley
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Do you ever look at your child and wonder: Is this ADHD? Or is this just childhood? Today, I’m joined by Sara Hartley, author of The Purposefully Me Series, to talk about ADHD in children from a realistic, compassionate, and research-based lens. Together, we break down: The most overlooked signs and symptoms of ADHD in kids What’s actually happening in the brain when children whine, complain, melt down, or seek constant stimulation Why some kids chase dopamine — screens, snacks, danger, noise Parenting a neurodivergent vs neurotypical child (and why your strategies...
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163 | How to Handle Your Money Like It Actually Belongs to God with Bob and Linda Lotich
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In this episode, Lindsey and Jesse Maestas sit down with Bob and Linda Lotich, authors of Simple Money, Rich Life, to talk about what it truly means to see your money as God’s money—and how that perspective can completely change the way you live, give, and plan for the future. Bob and Linda share how they started as a couple earning minimum wage and dreamed of giving away millions of dollars—and how God helped them make that happen. Together, they unpack the power of generosity, the pitfalls of “YOLO” spending, and how to build a life that reflects eternal impact over...
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162 | Charlie Kirk: Cultural Hypocrisy, Forsaking Casual Christianity, & God's View on Division in a World That's Tearing Itself Apart
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In this episode, Lindsey Maestas tackles the outrage and confusion surrounding Charlie Kirk’s death with a bold Christian perspective. Why casual Christianity is no longer acceptable — lukewarm faith won’t survive in a world that mocks conviction. Why celebrating murder is pure evil — and how Christians must reject a culture that cheers for death. The weaponization of memory & “martyr” narratives — how both sides twist a man’s life and death for political gain. The silencing of dissent and free discourse — why cancel culture threatens both faith and freedom....
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161 | HUGE ANNOUNCEMENT!!!: A 5-Minute Episode
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I am SO THRILLED to announce that....(drumroll)... My new book: is available for pre-order TODAY!!!! And I'm asking for your HELP to please PRE-ORDER today!! I know it can be easier to wait for the launch, but it makes a huge difference to Amazon and to my publishers to have pre-orders if you wouldn't mind!! THANK YOU SO MUCH! Your marriage doesn't need to be perfect. It just needs two people willing to start again . . . together. This book is for newly engaged couples, newlyweds, and couples who have been married for anywhere from 5-50 years. DBYOHD is the most vulnerable thing...
info_outlineSo many women know what it feels like to live for other people’s approval. Whether it’s in our marriages, motherhood, friendships, or even our faith communities. We project the “perfect” version of ourselves: kind, put-together, selfless, always smiling… but most of us are just freaking exhausted.
In today’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Merry Lin, clinical psychologist, speaker, and author of The Fully Lived Life and The Great Unbecoming. Dr. Lin shares her personal story of growing up as the only Asian family in her community, and how she tried to become the “whitest, kindest, most Christian” version of herself just to be accepted.
She opens up about what it means to live out of our shadow self—the insecure, performative part of us that craves belonging—and how that can keep us stuck in unhealthy cycles of performance and people-pleasing.
Together, we also wrestle with a powerful tension many women feel: believing that living in their flesh is living in their essential, selfish self, and therefore sinful. But our essential self is not selfish. The Bible says we are created in the image of God, and the word for “image” means essence. That means who we really are—our true, God-breathed self—is a reflection of His glory. Every woman reflects a different aspect of that glory.
In today's episode, we talk about:
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Why so many women feel like they must project a polished version of themselves (and how it’s draining their souls).
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The difference between living out of the shadow self vs. the essential, God-breathed self.
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How compassion and grace for ourselves unlocks healing.
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Why unbecoming the false self is actually the only way to truly become who God made us to be.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing your life instead of actually living it, this conversation will remind you that freedom begins with unbecoming who you thought you had to be and resting in the truth of who God already says you are.
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Order REBECOMING today!