The Hardest Part of Getting Sober
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
Release Date: 05/15/2024
The Meaning of Going "All In" On Living Alcohol-Free
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
The Mantras: I am my inspiration. I’m all in on me. I matter more than any sip of alcohol. Let me help you make living alcohol-free in midlife a better experience! 📩Join my community to stay connected to the podcast and tips, insights, and inspiration to help you stay alcohol-free. 🧰Download a trusted companion that helps you stay focused on being alcohol-free today. Not forever. 🩷Go and stay alcohol-free with lifetime access to practical solutions, resources just for midlife gals, and LIVE weekly coaching in my “only for midlife...
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The Compound Effect: Trust Your Process
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
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Thoughts on Alcohol and Leaving it in 2024
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
Episode 312 I got behind the mic this week to reflect openly on alcohol to encourage you to leave it in 2024 if you're tired of what alcohol brings into your life. As we wrap up 2024, I want you to know that if you're living alcohol-free, I'm celebrating with you. If you're working on freeing yourself from alcohol, I'm inspired by your perseverance. And if you're at that crossroads wondering which way to turn, just know that questioning your relationship with alcohol is the first step to change. You can do this. I'm with you. Thank you for allowing me to be part of your...
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Hypnotherapy as a Tool During Dry January
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
When you are ready to take a drink break, you should explore different tools to see what works for you. I appreciate innovative approaches to lifestyle changes, which is why I invited Silvia Subirana, today's guest, to share her expertise. As a clinical psychologist and Head of Content Development at Silvia brings a unique perspective to transforming our relationship with alcohol. During her university years in Spain, unlike many of her peers who were embracing the typical college party culture, Silvia made the conscious decision to quit drinking. This early experience gave her valuable...
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What Are You Waiting For? A Compassionate Approach
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
Episode 310 What Are You Waiting For? A question and episode that comes with a compassionate approach and encouragement to help you get a clear understanding of what is holding you back from going alcohol-free. Asking this question isn’t about the urgency to hurry things up and stop drinking. It’s about being honest with yourself and easing your mind if you’re worried about your drinking and pressuring yourself to quit. I share what I was waiting for: a “normal” relationship with alcohol. When I realized this didn’t exist, I chose to stop drinking. It’s not an easy choice...
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The Alcohol-Free Lifestyle with Lindsay Sutherland Boal
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
Episode 309 Is living alcohol-free for you? My guest in episode 309 is Lindsay Sutherland Boal, a trailblazer in the sobriety community who shares insights into the meaning of an alcohol-free lifestyle and what it takes and doesn’t take to create a lifestyle that alcohol can’t touch. You will love this episode if you are on the fence about going alcohol-free. Lindsay Sutherland Boal is the visionary founder of The Uncovery App, a groundbreaking platform that redefines how women approach changing their relationship with alcohol. Unlike traditional sobriety...
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You Deserve to Stay Alcohol-Free This Holiday
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
In this episode, I share a heartfelt message on staying alcohol-free during the holidays. I know it's not an easy thing to do, which makes you a bada** in my eyes. From my personal experience of quitting drinking in 2013, I discuss how to handle holiday triggers, create new associations, and honor your choice to stay alcohol-free. Whether this is your first sober holiday or you're beyond that, you'll learn practical strategies to navigate celebrations while staying true to yourself. Key topics covered: Understanding and preparing for holiday triggers Creating a simple plan to...
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Break Free From People Pleasing with Karen Ehman
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
Episode 307 As a lifelong people pleaser who frequently works with many women—many of whom also tend to please others and drink as a way to cope with their feelings—I reached out to Karen after discovering her insightful book, Karen Ehman is a New York Times bestselling author, a Proverbs 31 Ministries speaker, a contributing writer for Encouragement for Today online devotions, and a teacher in the First 5 Bible study app which has over 2 million daily users. She has written 19 books and Bible studies, including Keep It Shut: What to Say, How to Say It, and When to Say Nothing at...
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Navigating Why Aren't You Drinking?
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
Episode 306 Hello there. I'm happy you're here. I'm cheering for you always. In this episode, I help you navigate the often dreaded question: Why aren't you drinking? Here are some key points to help you handle this situation with confidence: Recognize and validate your fear or discomfort about being asked this question. Stay focused on your reasons for not drinking. Your why-power is stronger than any awkwardness you might feel. Before attending an event, consider if it aligns with your values and if you truly want to go. Practice your response: Prepare a simple, honest...
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Escaping Without Drinking Alcohol
To 50 and Beyond - Sobriety for Midlife Women
Episode 305 Hello friend! I'm so happy you're here. Thank you for listening to To 50 and Beyond. Do you remember the from the 1970s? In it, the gal was stressed at the end of her day and said, "Calgon, take me away!" This episode is about our desire to escape from daily life stressors. It's a natural human experience. If we don't practice escaping, we let our stressors fester, which can lead to drinking alcohol. In this episode, I share my thoughts on "creating a life you don't need to escape" and why it's essential to have an "escape plan" that helps you...
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Episode 290
If you are a gal in midlife who is questioning her drinking and having a hard time getting sober, I’m with you.
In this episode, I answer a client's question: What was the hardest part of getting sober for you?
After she asked me this question, I didn’t hesitate. The hardest part for me was deciding to stop drinking.
I spent two years feeling stuck in decision fatigue and putting in lots of effort to make alcohol work. On August 11, 2013, I decided to go all in on what I wanted more than drinking alcohol.
In this episode, you will hear:
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How and why I decided to stop drinking
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My take on what it means to “get sober”
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Why it’s difficult to decide to quit drinking (spoiler alert: it’s not you, it’s alcohol)
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The fears that I faced in going alcohol-free, which are shared among many women in midlife
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What it takes to go “all-in” on freeing yourself from alcohol
My message to you…
If you are having difficulty deciding right now, take a walk with yourself and map out a plan. Maybe now isn’t the time to take this on, and that’s okay - you can’t force yourself to get sober - you will figure it out, and you're on your way. I
If you’re ready to go all in, you can do it. I believe in you. Be kind and patient with yourself and take it day to day.
Thank you for listening!
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