Why You Keep Attracting Build-A-Bears
Love Blocks™
There are a lot of Build-A-Bears in this world. Loud men. Raggedy men. Men who never learned how to stand on their own two feet because they’re still emotionally nursing from their mother. And yet… there are still GOOD men here. Masculine men. Provider men. Men who want to lead, protect, and commit. So why do so many women keep attracting the wrong ones? In this episode, I speak directly to the woman who has been hurt, disappointed, and rejected for so long that she learned how to survive without a man. I understand you. I’ve lived it. But that survival mode is keeping you trapped....
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Top Dating Mistakes Keeping You From a High-Value Man
Love Blocks™
In this episode, I’m breaking down the top dating mistakes that keep powerful, intelligent women stuck in cycles of disappointment instead of in the arms of a high-value man who can truly love their soul. I’m going to lovingly—but directly—call out the patterns that sabotage love, including: Believing a man’s words instead of his actions Moving too fast with the wrong man and skipping proper vetting Dating from insecurity instead of dating for growth Confusing dating with intimacy and giving benefits before commitment Dating is not about hope, potential, or chemistry alone....
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The 3 Categories Men Put Women In (And How to Be the Wife Category)
Love Blocks™
How many of you feel like the clock is ticking? You want marriage. You want a family. You want children. And yet, when you look around at the dating pool, you feel the pressure of time and the frustration of settling for less than you deserve. In this episode, I speak directly to the women who come to me every single day — successful, beautiful, accomplished women who are tired of attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or beneath-their-level men. Women who have tried everything: therapy, retreats, coaching, matchmaking — and still haven’t gotten the result they want. I’m...
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Ma’am, His Sperm Is Reprogramming You
Love Blocks™
Ma’am… we need to have a grown conversation. In this episode, I’m breaking down something most people don’t want to talk about—because it’s not “popular,” it’s not trendy, and it doesn’t sound like the feel-good advice floating around online. But it might be the information that saves you. I’m Shay—your Love Diva. I’m a master’s certified love strategist, and yes, I’m also a woman of science. I graduated pre-med biology, spent over a decade in pharmaceutical sales, and I’ve helped high-value women uplevel their love lives using the science of attraction for over...
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When They Go Quiet: How to Handle the Pull Away Phase
Love Blocks™
Hey my loves, it’s Shay, your Love Diva, and today we’re getting into something real — the Pull Away Phase. You know that moment when everything feels good, the connection is growing, and then boom… they start acting different. Less calls, slower texts, more distance, and you’re sitting there trying not to overthink yourself into a stress nap. In this episode, I’m teaching you what the pull away phase really is, why it happens, and how to respond like a woman (or man) who knows their worth. We’re talking about the biggest mistake people make — chasing — and what to do instead...
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His DNA Didn’t Leave: The Science of S*xual Imprinting
Love Blocks™
In this episode, I’m going to share some science that might surprise you. I break down why your body may not fully “move on” from every man you sleep with, and what research suggests about how past partners could leave biological effects that last longer than we think. I explain: the fly study that brought back the idea of telegony what microchimerism is (male cells staying in a woman’s body for years) the possible ways sp*rm could influence the body even without pregnancy what’s proven, what’s still a theory, and what that means for you This isn’t about shame. It’s...
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The Truth About Feminine Energy, Standards & Elite Men
Love Blocks™
Ladies, listen… in today’s episode, I’m going to break down something that most women feel, but can’t quite put into words. The dating atmosphere has changed — dramatically. Men aren’t showing up in their masculine anymore. A lot of them are operating way too far in their feminine energy, and it is stressing women out. I’m going to tell you exactly why this is happening, how we accidentally helped create the problem, and most importantly, what you must do if you want to attract an elite man — a man with character, values, valor, and real masculine leadership. Not just a man...
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The Science of Why You Keep Choosing the Same Man
Love Blocks™
Hey beautiful Diva, it’s your girl Shay, your Love Diva — and in this episode, I’m breaking down why you keep attracting the same kind of man, the same heartbreak, the same story… even after all the therapy, all the journaling, all the healing work. I’m gonna show you how your brain has been trained—just like a ski path that’s been carved in the snow—causing you to repeat the same patterns over and over again without even realizing it. And more importantly, I’m gonna show you how to rewire that pattern so you can finally attract healthy, high-value love that lasts. I’ll...
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When Butterflies Are Actually Red Flags
Love Blocks™
Let’s be honest, babe — how many times have you said, “I just didn’t feel the connection,” and walked away from someone who could’ve actually been good for you? Today, we’re going to break that pattern — because that “chemistry” you keep chasing? It’s not connection. It’s your trauma calling. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the science and psychology of attraction — what really happens in your body when you feel butterflies, and why those butterflies are often a warning, not a green light. You’ll learn how your subconscious is wired to recognize what’s...
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Understanding the Phases of a Man — From Knight to King
Love Blocks™
In this episode, we dive deep into the masculine journey — from the playful Knight who’s still exploring life, to the Prince who’s building his empire, and finally, the King who’s ready to love and lead with purpose. You’ll learn how to recognize which phase a man is in, why so many women get stuck trying to build with men who aren’t yet ready, and how to align your energy with a partner who’s prepared to meet you at your level. This conversation isn’t about judgment — it’s about awareness. When you understand how men evolve, you stop taking their confusion personally and...
info_outlineI used to believe that once I hit a certain financial milestone—once I made that million dollars in a single month—I’d feel on top of the world. But when I got there, the high never came. Instead, I found myself sitting in a dark, hollow space wondering… what is all of this really for? That moment forced me to reevaluate everything.
Then I received an email from one of my most difficult clients—Deirdre—and her story pulled me straight out of that darkness. She had been living in pain, disconnected from her children, surrounded by clutter, and preparing for death. And through our work together, she didn’t just shift—she transformed. Her body, her home, her relationships, her entire spirit was renewed. That’s when it hit me: this is what I was put here to do.
In this episode, I open up about the moment I reconnected to my real mission. I share what it means to feel your soulmate approaching, how our choices align—or misalign—with our timelines, and what happens when we hesitate instead of choosing ourselves. This isn’t just about love or success—it’s about honoring the divine timing of your life and refusing to let self-sabotage steal your future.
If you’ve ever felt the pull toward more, if you've felt your soulmate before you've seen him, or if you’ve questioned your path even at your highest moment—this is the episode your soul's been waiting for.