Blanket of Peace
Catholic Mom Calm
I said it kind of offhandedly on a coaching call. "I want to be a blanket of peace in my home." And the moms would not let it go, so I have been sitting with it ever since. Here is what I mean. You have the ability to take your own emotional state and blanket a whole room with it. You already do it. Sometimes what you are laying over the kitchen is frustration or stress or that sharp voice, and sometimes it is calm. The part I want you to hear is that it is yours to choose. This episode is me asking you to stop settling for awareness of your thinking and actually reach for the peace. I walk...
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How to Reach For Peace Faster
Catholic Mom Calm
Anxiety never comes from the Lord. So the second I feel that tightness show up in my chest, I already know something true about myself. I am thinking about my life in a way that God does not want me to think about it. Period. Because if I were thinking about it the way He wants me to, I would be at peace. This episode is one question I want you to start asking faster than you are asking it right now. Not "Lord, take this away," but "Lord, what do you want me to know about this?" About this toddler. About my husband. About my body. About this house. I asked Him something this morning and He...
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Planning From Woundedness
Catholic Mom Calm
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Transitioning from Summer to Fall
Catholic Mom Calm
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Managing Your Thoughts About School So You Don't Lose Your Mind
Catholic Mom Calm
Almost everything you believe about your kids' schooling is an opinion, not a fact — and most of those opinions are quietly manufacturing stress in your body. In this episode, I walk you through why your feelings about school come from your thinking, how I choose school for my six kids with detachment (we're doing three different things this year), and the one trick I use to stop emotionally processing problems that haven't happened yet. Whether you've got toddlers, a struggling nine-year-old, or a high schooler who bit off more than she can chew, I want you to notice how you're...
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How I Use AI (And How My Company Does)
Catholic Mom Calm
The internet is very loud about AI right now, so I want to tell you exactly where I stand in July of 2026, both personally and as a company, so you can start forming your own opinion. For the most part I'm team AI. I also think it's going to create some genuinely scary things in our society, the same way the internet and smartphones did. Both can be true. My favorite thing about it? It cuts through the noise. Instead of clicking through twenty websites full of pop-ups and people trying to sell me something, I can ask a question and get a clear answer, then ask for the counterarguments too. ...
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'90s Seattle, Grunge, and the New Elle Woods Show
Catholic Mom Calm
It's Friday night, I'm home alone, and I'm recording a completely ridiculous episode. No coaching, no reframe, just me wanting to talk to someone about episode one of the new Elle Woods show on Amazon Prime. My husband took the kids to the beach, I opened Prime, and this little show whisked me right back to being a '90s Seattle grunge girl. Fair warning: this one is pure nostalgia. If you grew up in the '90s, went to concerts, lived anywhere near the Pacific Northwest, or ever dyed a strip in your hair and thought it was the coolest thing ever (it was not, but it was to me), come sit with me...
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Enjoying Your Daily Life (No Matter What Season You're In)
Catholic Mom Calm
I just got back from driving six kids and two dogs (including an eight-week-old puppy) from northern Idaho to northern Wisconsin, and the trip left me with a takeaway I didn't expect. I am so in love with my ordinary, day-to-day life. Watching cousins become friends and swimming and puppy chaos was wonderful, and it made me more grateful than ever for the life I've built at home. So in this episode I'm going to make the case, hard, that you can enjoy your day-to-day life too. I take on the obvious objection head-on ("sure, Sterling, but you're in an easier phase now") and explain why it isn't...
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Why Your Window of Tolerance Shrinks in Summer
Catholic Mom Calm
It usually hits right about now. You started summer with high hopes, pushed through the chaotic first couple of weeks, and now you're yelling more, feeling stressed, and wondering what happened to the magical season you pictured. Sterling Jaquith says it's not because you lack a plan. It's your window of tolerance, and summer quietly shrinks it. Drawing on a concept from her book Catholic Mom Calm, Sterling breaks down the two kinds of tolerance: your capacity for one specific stressor (hello, putting sunscreen on unwilling children), and your overall capacity for everything stacked on your...
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Summer Jealousy
Catholic Mom Calm
Sterling Jaquith caught herself feeling a very particular brand of summer jealousy. Friends whose parents are stable enough, healthy enough, and trusted enough to take the grandkids for a week or two. And watching that feeling rise was a perfect window into something we all do: we never question why we feel good, but the moment a negative feeling shows up, we start poking at it, and the poking spins into a storm. In this episode Sterling slows the whole thing down so you can see the difference between prayerfully feeling your feelings and indulging in what a friend called "tornado thinking."...
info_outlineI said it kind of offhandedly on a coaching call. "I want to be a blanket of peace in my home." And the moms would not let it go, so I have been sitting with it ever since. Here is what I mean. You have the ability to take your own emotional state and blanket a whole room with it. You already do it. Sometimes what you are laying over the kitchen is frustration or stress or that sharp voice, and sometimes it is calm. The part I want you to hear is that it is yours to choose.
This episode is me asking you to stop settling for awareness of your thinking and actually reach for the peace. I walk you through a chaotic Tuesday morning, two kids off to farm school, two girls off to co-op, a thirteen year old presenting in front of the entire community, and what happened when I decided ahead of time that I was going to be so calm that everyone around me calmed down. We talk about Mother Teresa and how far her peaceful light went into a room, why this kind of power is the power women actually want, and how to say "hey, we are not going to do that in this room, okay, love you" instead of the version you are doing now. Plus two announcements I am so excited about.
WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE:
- What a blanket of peace actually is, and why your emotional state is the thing filling the room whether you picked it or not
- Humans catch each other's states both directions. Anxiety spreads, and so does calm, grounded and steady
- Awareness of your thinking is not the finish line. Reaching for peace on purpose is the next level
- Deciding before the hard morning starts, so that when they walk in frantic you meet them with the voice instead of matching them
- Why being at peace takes fewer words and less energy, and why it works so much better than snapping
- The power men chase out in the world, and the very different power a woman has to set the tone of a space
- Mother Teresa changed the energy of every room she walked into. How far did that light reach, and can mine do that
- Your mission this week: pick one time of day, one room, one situation where you have been tolerating chaos, and be the calm in it
EPISODE TIMELINE:
- [00:00] – Happy fall girl, sweaters and tea, and the phrase the moms would not let go of
- [05:00] – Blanketing the room with your emotional state, and taking hearts that are troubled and making them feel safe
- [10:00] – The co-op morning, the thirteen year old presenting, and speaking to them in the grounded voice
- [15:00] – Forest bear and "hey, we are not going to do that in this room, okay, love you." Dropping the excuses
- [20:00] – Mother Teresa's golden light, the wins call, and what Catholic Mom Calm is really about
- [25:00] – Announcement one: the One Million Rosaries Challenge for the month of October
- [30:00] – Announcement two: the Catholic Mom Calm app is almost here, plus France and a request for prayers
LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- One Million Rosaries Challenge (free, all of October, sign up and start a group): https://onemillionrosaries.com
- Calm Catholic Kids app (free, and you can track your rosaries in it): https://calmcatholickids.com
CONNECT WITH STERLING JAQUITH:
- Website: https://catholicmomcalm.com
- Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catholicmomcalm