MMM 47 - The Art of Communication: Calm, Clear, Direct
The Manners Maketh Man
Most conflict doesn’t come from “big problems” it comes from unclear communication, unchecked emotion, and avoiding the conversation that needs to happen. In this episode, we break down a refined, masculine approach to communication: calm, clear, and direct. Not aggressive. Not passive. Just controlled, respectful leadership—at home, at work, and everywhere in between. You’ll learn: The two broken styles: aggressive vs. passive communication The three rules: Calm is power. Clarity is respect. Direct is kindness. A simple script you can use immediately: Fact →...
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MMM 46 - Manners Are Strength
The Manners Maketh Man
Manners aren’t softness and they’re definitely not fake. Manners are refinement. They’re composure, restraint, and controlled power on display. In this episode, we break down why the refined gentleman still matters, and why the way you carry yourself your presence, your words, your conduct signals strength in a world that rewards loudness and chaos. You’ll learn: Why manners are really self-control in public The difference between refinement and people-pleasing The gentleman’s triangle: Class, Clarity, Backbone Practical examples for disagreement, boundaries, and owning...
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MMM 45 - The Modern Protector Isn’t Loud
The Manners Maketh Man
The loudest men usually aren’t the strongest — they’re the least in control. In this episode, we’re redefining what it means to be a protector in modern life. Not the performative version. Not the aggressive version. The real one: calm, aware, prepared, and dependable. We’ll break down what protection actually looks like across four lanes: Physical: capability, health, awareness Emotional: stability, presence, restraint Financial: responsibility, planning, reducing risk Moral: integrity, consistency, trust And we’ll cover the five marks of a modern protector — including...
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MMM 44 - Discipline Without Drama
The Manners Maketh Man
Most people don’t fail because they’re weak — they fail because their life depends on motivation. And motivation disappears the moment things get hard. In this episode, we’re talking about discipline without drama: how to build standards that don’t require hype, perfection, or a whole new personality. Just consistency, self-respect, and a system you can return to when life gets loud. You’ll learn a simple framework to stay on track: The 3-level system: Standard, Minimum, Reset How to create a Minimum Viable Day so you never fall off completely The reset...
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We’re Back. Here’s the Point.
The Manners Maketh Man
It’s been about two years since I’ve published an episode of Manners Maketh Man — and I’m coming back with intention. This podcast is about becoming a better man with discipline, dignity, and strength that’s under control. No gimmicks. No noise. Just real standards and practical takeaways you can use in your life, your work, and your relationships. In this short re-intro, I’ll tell you what this show is going to be moving forward, what you can expect each week, and the standard we’re building around here. First new full episode drops Wednesday, January 7:...
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MMM 43 - Masculinity and Mental Health: Breaking the Silence
The Manners Maketh Man
In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, host Ryan takes on a crucial but often overlooked topic—Masculinity and Mental Health. For far too long, men have been conditioned to stay silent about their emotional struggles, but the truth is, mental health affects us all. Join me as I explore the stigma surrounding men and mental health, the cost of staying silent, and how we can redefine strength by embracing vulnerability and seeking help when we need it. With practical advice on how to take care of your mental well-being and support the men in your life, this episode is a powerful reminder that...
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MMM 42 - The Art of Communication: Mastering the Skill Every Man Needs
The Manners Maketh Man
In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we explore The Art of Communication—a vital skill for every man who wants to lead, connect, and build better relationships. Communication isn’t just about the words we say; it’s about how we listen, express ourselves, and navigate tough conversations with clarity and empathy. Join host Ryan Mortimer as he breaks down the fundamentals of effective communication, from active listening to handling difficult conversations with confidence and grace. Whether you’re looking to improve your personal relationships or lead more effectively at work,...
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MMM - 41 Emotional Intelligence for Men: The Strength in Understanding Yourself
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In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we’re exploring one of the most undervalued yet powerful aspects of modern masculinity—emotional intelligence. As men, we’re often taught to suppress our feelings, but true strength lies in understanding, managing, and using our emotions wisely. Join me as we dive into the five key components of emotional intelligence—self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills—and why they’re essential for men navigating today’s world. We’ll challenge the outdated stereotypes that emotional intelligence makes you weak and...
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MMM - 40 The Gentleman’s Code
The Manners Maketh Man
In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we take a deep dive into what it truly means to be a gentleman in today’s world. We explore “The Gentleman’s Code,” where honor, integrity, and kindness are not just ideals but guiding principles. We discuss how these values shape modern masculinity and why they’re more relevant than ever. But it’s not just about how we treat others—it’s also about being kind to ourselves. We talk about the importance of self-respect and self-compassion as crucial elements of the code. Join us as we reflect on how these timeless virtues can help us...
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MMM - 39 Traditional vs. Modern Masculinity: Evolving Identities
The Manners Maketh Man
In today’s episode of Manners Maketh Man, we’re having a real conversation about how masculinity has changed over the years. We start by looking at what many of us grew up with—the idea that being a man means being strong, stoic, and the provider. But times are changing, and so is what it means to be masculine. Now, qualities like emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and adaptability are becoming just as important. We’re breaking down these shifts and exploring what they mean for all of us today. It’s about understanding where we’ve come from and where we’re headed.
info_outlineToday we talk about my experience of working on one of my good friends/colleagues property he bought in east Texas. He needed some help building a chicken coop and I volunteered. I have never done something like this before, but man oh man, did I enjoy it.