The Manners Maketh Man

This is a gathering place for men to discuss the topics of the day and help each other become better men. Hosted by Ryan Mortimer. A lover of mens health, fitness, fashion, and all things men. This will be a weekly episode.

MMM 47 - The Art of Communication: Calm, Clear, Direct 01/28/2026

MMM 47 - The Art of Communication: Calm, Clear, Direct Most conflict doesn’t come from “big problems” it comes from unclear communication, unchecked emotion, and avoiding the conversation that needs to happen. In this episode, we break down a refined, masculine approach to communication: calm, clear, and direct. Not aggressive. Not passive. Just controlled, respectful leadership—at home, at work, and everywhere in between. You’ll learn: The two broken styles: aggressive vs. passive communication The three rules: Calm is power. Clarity is respect. Direct is kindness. A simple script you can use immediately: Fact → Feeling/Impact → Request The boundary line that shuts down drama without escalating it Weekly Standard: Use Fact, Feeling/Impact, Request one time this week—and have one calm conversation you’ve been avoiding. Keep it simple. Do it on purpose. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/39874585

MMM 46 - Manners Are Strength 01/21/2026

MMM 46 - Manners Are Strength Manners aren’t softness and they’re definitely not fake. Manners are refinement. They’re composure, restraint, and controlled power on display. In this episode, we break down why the refined gentleman still matters, and why the way you carry yourself your presence, your words, your conduct signals strength in a world that rewards loudness and chaos. You’ll learn: Why manners are really self-control in public The difference between refinement and people-pleasing The gentleman’s triangle: Class, Clarity, Backbone Practical examples for disagreement, boundaries, and owning mistakes with dignity Weekly Standard: Do one act of intentional courtesy and have one moment of restraint this week. Keep it simple. Do it on purpose. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/39810625

MMM 45 - The Modern Protector Isn’t Loud 01/14/2026

MMM 45 - The Modern Protector Isn’t Loud The loudest men usually aren’t the strongest — they’re the least in control. In this episode, we’re redefining what it means to be a protector in modern life. Not the performative version. Not the aggressive version. The real one: calm, aware, prepared, and dependable. We’ll break down what protection actually looks like across four lanes: Physical: capability, health, awareness Emotional: stability, presence, restraint Financial: responsibility, planning, reducing risk Moral: integrity, consistency, trust And we’ll cover the five marks of a modern protector — including boundaries, quiet risk reduction, and why calm beats chaos every time. Weekly Standard: Do a quick Protector Audit — pick one lane (physical, emotional, financial, or moral) and take one action this week. Keep it simple. Do it on purpose. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/39723170

MMM 44 - Discipline Without Drama 01/07/2026

MMM 44 - Discipline Without Drama Most people don’t fail because they’re weak — they fail because their life depends on motivation. And motivation disappears the moment things get hard. In this episode, we’re talking about discipline without drama: how to build standards that don’t require hype, perfection, or a whole new personality. Just consistency, self-respect, and a system you can return to when life gets loud. You’ll learn a simple framework to stay on track: The 3-level system: Standard, Minimum, Reset How to create a Minimum Viable Day so you never fall off completely The reset rule that keeps one bad day from turning into a bad month Why calm consistency beats intensity every time Weekly Standard: Define your Minimum Viable Day in one sentence, and pick your reset rule: never miss twice or reset within 24 hours. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/39622820

We’re Back. Here’s the Point. 01/06/2026

We’re Back. Here’s the Point. It’s been about two years since I’ve published an episode of Manners Maketh Man — and I’m coming back with intention. This podcast is about becoming a better man with discipline, dignity, and strength that’s under control. No gimmicks. No noise. Just real standards and practical takeaways you can use in your life, your work, and your relationships. In this short re-intro, I’ll tell you what this show is going to be moving forward, what you can expect each week, and the standard we’re building around here. First new full episode drops Wednesday, January 7: “Discipline Without Drama.” Make sure you’re following on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss it. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/39622765

MMM 43 - Masculinity and Mental Health: Breaking the Silence 10/02/2024

MMM 43 - Masculinity and Mental Health: Breaking the Silence In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, host Ryan takes on a crucial but often overlooked topic—Masculinity and Mental Health. For far too long, men have been conditioned to stay silent about their emotional struggles, but the truth is, mental health affects us all. Join me as I explore the stigma surrounding men and mental health, the cost of staying silent, and how we can redefine strength by embracing vulnerability and seeking help when we need it. With practical advice on how to take care of your mental well-being and support the men in your life, this episode is a powerful reminder that acknowledging mental health is not a weakness—it’s a strength. If you’re ready to break the silence and start talking about mental health, this conversation is for you. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/32956652

MMM 42 - The Art of Communication: Mastering the Skill Every Man Needs 09/25/2024

MMM 42 - The Art of Communication: Mastering the Skill Every Man Needs In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we explore The Art of Communication—a vital skill for every man who wants to lead, connect, and build better relationships. Communication isn’t just about the words we say; it’s about how we listen, express ourselves, and navigate tough conversations with clarity and empathy. Join host Ryan Mortimer as he breaks down the fundamentals of effective communication, from active listening to handling difficult conversations with confidence and grace. Whether you’re looking to improve your personal relationships or lead more effectively at work, this episode offers practical insights on how to become a more thoughtful, powerful communicator. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/32955767

MMM - 41 Emotional Intelligence for Men: The Strength in Understanding Yourself 09/18/2024

MMM - 41 Emotional Intelligence for Men: The Strength in Understanding Yourself In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we’re exploring one of the most undervalued yet powerful aspects of modern masculinity—emotional intelligence. As men, we’re often taught to suppress our feelings, but true strength lies in understanding, managing, and using our emotions wisely. Join me as we dive into the five key components of emotional intelligence—self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills—and why they’re essential for men navigating today’s world. We’ll challenge the outdated stereotypes that emotional intelligence makes you weak and instead reveal how mastering it can make you a stronger partner, leader, and man. Whether you want to build deeper relationships, stay calm under pressure, or lead with empathy, this episode is packed with practical tips and insights that will help you unlock a more thoughtful, emotionally intelligent version of yourself. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/32950787

MMM - 40 The Gentleman’s Code 09/13/2024

MMM - 40 The Gentleman’s Code In this episode of Manners Maketh Man, we take a deep dive into what it truly means to be a gentleman in today’s world. We explore “The Gentleman’s Code,” where honor, integrity, and kindness are not just ideals but guiding principles. We discuss how these values shape modern masculinity and why they’re more relevant than ever. But it’s not just about how we treat others—it’s also about being kind to ourselves. We talk about the importance of self-respect and self-compassion as crucial elements of the code. Join us as we reflect on how these timeless virtues can help us navigate life with dignity and purpose, proving that true masculinity is defined not by strength alone, but by the strength of character. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/32769832

MMM - 39 Traditional vs. Modern Masculinity: Evolving Identities 09/04/2024

MMM - 39 Traditional vs. Modern Masculinity: Evolving Identities In today’s episode of Manners Maketh Man, we’re having a real conversation about how masculinity has changed over the years. We start by looking at what many of us grew up with—the idea that being a man means being strong, stoic, and the provider. But times are changing, and so is what it means to be masculine. Now, qualities like emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and adaptability are becoming just as important. We’re breaking down these shifts and exploring what they mean for all of us today. It’s about understanding where we’ve come from and where we’re headed. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/32769377

MMM - 38 Happy New Years 01/04/2024

MMM - 38 Happy New Years Wishing you all a joyous New Year! I trust each of you had a fantastic time celebrating. In today's episode, we delve into my thoughts on the new year and share some reflections. I'd love to hear your thoughts! Don't forget to rate, subscribe, and stay tuned for more exciting content. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/29333023

MMM - 37 George Washington Rules 1-10 12/27/2023

MMM - 37 George Washington Rules 1-10 Hey there, welcome back to The Manners Maketh Man! In today's episode, we're diving into something really cool – the first 10 rules of civility and decency by none other than the OG founding father, George Washington. Imagine this: George Washington, the guy on the dollar bill, jotting down these rules way back when. We're talking about everything from being humble to how to really listen to others. It's like getting a glimpse into the mind of someone who helped shape the United States. But here's the twist – we're not just going historical on you. Nope, we're bringing these rules into the 21st century and asking the big question: Do these rules still apply today? Join us as we chat about each rule, break it down, and share our thoughts on how we can sprinkle a little bit of George Washington's wisdom into our own lives. Whether you're into history or just curious about how to be a decent human, this episode is for you. So, grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let's talk about the first 10 rules of civility and decency. Because let's face it, who doesn't want to learn some life lessons from the guy who led the charge in the Revolutionary War? It's gonna be a good one! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/29149768

MMM - 36 The In Between 10/04/2023

MMM - 36 The In Between On today’s episode we discuss another book. The In Between by Hadley Vlahos is one that will get you thinking. The author is a young hospice nurse and she discuss what she has learned over the years. This books defiantly made me think about my loved ones that have been in hospice but also what really matters in life. Let me know your thoughts! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/27935973

MMM - 35 Warrior Poet Way 09/27/2023

MMM - 35 Warrior Poet Way On today’s episode we discuss a book I just finished The Warrior Poet Way. This book discusses what it means to be a warrior and a poet. You cannot have one without the other, otherwise you are unbalanced. I once heard it is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war. Would love to know your thoughts on this! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/27935937

MMM - 34 Lead Like a Marine 09/20/2023

MMM - 34 Lead Like a Marine On today’s episode we discuss a book I just finished Lead Like a Marine. This book has quickly become a top favorite of mine and one that I will re read often. I would love to hear what you guys think of this book! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/27935853

MMM - 33 9 Rules of a Gentleman 09/13/2023

MMM - 33 9 Rules of a Gentleman On today’s episode we dive into Alexander Kraft 9 rules for a gentleman. Here is a link to the article: We go over these rules and what my thoughts are one them. Some I agree with and some I do not. Let men now what y’all think. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/27935823

MMM - 32 Beyond the Band of Brothers 09/06/2023

MMM - 32 Beyond the Band of Brothers On today’s episode we dive into one of my favorite books; Beyond the Band of Brothers. This book is written by, in my opinion, one of the greatest leaders our country has ever seen, DicK Winters. This book is written after the Band of Brothers series came out on HBO and gives more details about what happened during that time in World War 2. I hope y’all enjoy. Please let me know what you guys think! Cheers! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/27934980

MMM - 31 Working on a Friends Property 06/21/2023

MMM - 31 Working on a Friends Property Today we talk about my experience of working on one of my good friends/colleagues property he bought in east Texas. He needed some help building a chicken coop and I volunteered. I have never done something like this before, but man oh man, did I enjoy it. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/27035538

MMM - 30 Enough! You are Enough! 06/14/2023

MMM - 30 Enough! You are Enough! ENOUGH! That is the word that we are diving into today. What does that word mean? How is it used in our lives? When people say you are enough, do you believe it? When people ask when is enough, do you know? Do you think you have enough? Do you think you are enough? When will it ever be enough? Those are all things we are going to talk about into todays episode. I hope y’all enjoy. Let me know your thoughts. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/27035517

MMM -29 Do what you want! 06/07/2023

MMM -29 Do what you want! On todays episode we talk about doing what you want to do. Something that I learned is, no matter what you do, someone will be mad or not agree with what you are doing so you might as well just do what you want to do. Let me know your thoughts! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/27035469

MMM - 28 Commitment Vs Loyalty 05/10/2023

MMM - 28 Commitment Vs Loyalty On todays episode we are discussing the difference between Loyalty and Commitment. To me there is a BIG difference. Let me know your thoughts on this. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/26798880

MMM - 27 Pay Attention 05/03/2023

MMM - 27 Pay Attention On today’s episode we are talking about paying attention. Every day as a kid my Dad would ask me “Ryan, are you paying attention?” I didn’t fully understand the importance of paying attention until I was an adult. Being able to pay attention and actually paying attention is one thing that I attribute a lot of my success to. We are going to discuss what paying attention means to me. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/26447034

MMM - 26 My Wife and I Fertility Journey 04/26/2023

MMM - 26 My Wife and I Fertility Journey On today’s episode we are talking about my wife and I’s fertility journey. I am joined by my amazing wife as we discuss why we have been married for more than 10 years but we don’t have kids. Trigger warning on this as we discuss some hard topics that may trigger some people. Please use caution with this one, as it may pull on some heart strings. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/26446980

MMM - 25 Journaling and Reconnection 04/19/2023

MMM - 25 Journaling and Reconnection On today's episode we are going to talk about journaling and reconnecting to oneself. How is this done? How do I do it? What are things that I tried? All of that is discussed in this. Journaling and reconnection to oneself is so important. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/26446953

MMM - 24 What Does It Mean To Be Average? 04/12/2023

MMM - 24 What Does It Mean To Be Average? On today's episode we are going to talk about what it means to be average. What does it mean to you to be average? For me, it means being the best of the worse and worst of the best. Let’s talk about what being average is. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/26446917

MMM - 23 Taylor Swift Concert 04/05/2023

MMM - 23 Taylor Swift Concert On this episode we are talking about Kass and I going to the Taylor Swift concert in Arlington, Texas! She is definitely one of the best entertainers I have ever seen! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/26446872

MMM - 22 Disneyland as an Adult 03/03/2023

MMM - 22 Disneyland as an Adult Hello everyone! On today’s episode we are joined by our amazing friends The Reel Couple. Dallas and Paige Ross. We talked all about our vacation we just had at Disneyland as well as the new Ant Man movie Quantumania. Please be aware there is some colorful language that is said on this episode. You have been warned. This was one of the funniest episodes I have done in quiet a while, I hope you enjoy! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/26117637

MMM - 21 Grief, let's talk about it 02/21/2023

MMM - 21 Grief, let's talk about it On todays episode we are talking all about grief. Being in therapy, I have learned that grief is so much more than grieving those that have left us. We need to grieve dreams, jobs, pets, loved ones, ideas, expectations of ourself, lost opportunities…and so much more. Really anything that meant something to us, when we loose it, we should grieve it. It wasn’t until my current therapist that I have stated to figure out what that means but more importantly what that looks like. So join me on a stream of conciseness all about grief. /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/25994451

MMM - 20 Prove Yourself Right 02/04/2023

MMM - 20 Prove Yourself Right Howdy Everyone. On today's episode we are talking about proving yourself right. Often times we are trying to prove people wrong, but that makes you start out with a negative thought. Let's turn that around and think positively by proving yourself right. Let me know what y’all think! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/25830021

MMM - 19 Motivation vs. Disipline 02/03/2023

MMM - 19 Motivation vs. Disipline Howdy everyone. Today I talked a about the difference in Motivation and Disipline. To me these are two different things. One is a feeling and the other is an action. Let me know what you guys think! Cheers! /episode/index/show/mannersmakethman/id/25817301

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