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Surrender vs Giving Up

Speak, Easy with Kristine Fernandez

Release Date: 03/18/2025

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What if the difference between manifesting our desires and feeling stuck comes down to one simple shift—are we surrendering, or are we giving up? In this episode of Speak, Easy, we’re breaking down the fine line between these two mindsets and how they shape the way we navigate personal growth, challenges, and manifestation.

Through our own experiences, we’ve experimented with both surrender and giving up, revealing how each one impacts the speed, ease, and quality of what we call into our lives. We reflect on moments of business failures, the pressures of job searching, and how our approach influenced the outcomes. We explore the role of frequency, subconscious beliefs, and energetics in shaping reality—plus how practices like kinesiology and Regenerating Images in Memory (RIM) can help us align with our highest self.

Key takeaways include:
✨ The key differences between surrendering and giving up—and why one feels lighter while the other feels heavier
✨ How our subconscious beliefs shape the speed and ease of manifestation
✨ Why both surrender and giving up can lead to desired outcomes (depending on our overall energy)
✨ The role of faith, alignment, and detachment in calling in what we truly want
✨ Real-life experiences with kinesiology and RIM—and how they can shift everything

This episode is for us if we’ve ever felt torn between holding on and letting go, or if we’re curious about how to navigate life’s uncertainties with more ease, trust, and alignment.

Resources mentioned in this episode:
🤍 Netflix Series about Family Constallation (Anscestral Healing) https://www.netflix.com/au/title/81380432?s=i&trkid=260453186&vlang=en

🤍 Goop (Sex, Love & Goop) - Episode 5 https://www.netflix.com/au/title/81459349s=i&trkid=258593161&vlang=en

🤍 [Book] The Dip by Seth Godin

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction to Surrender vs. Giving Up
00:26 Personal Reflections and Discoveries
02:35 Exploring the Concepts of Surrender and Giving Up
04:28 Personal Experiences and Analogies
14:47 The Impact of Surrender and Giving Up on Manifestations
21:00 Subconscious Beliefs and Life Experiences
28:10 Practical Steps to Embrace Surrender
29:59 Back to Basics: Rediscovering Gratitude
31:46 The Power of Choice: Embracing Our Human Ability
32:57 Surrender vs. Giving Up: A New Perspective
33:14 Kinesiology Insights: Personal Experiences and Reflections
34:07 Journal Entry: Abundance and Misunderstanding
35:54 Making Peace with Being Misunderstood
39:52 Integrating New Concepts: Beyond Logic
42:00 Comparing Modalities: RIM vs. Kinesiology
48:32 Real-Life Benefits: Conversations and Income Streams
57:02 Kinesiology and Allergies: A Friend's Testimony
01:02:01 Conclusion: Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts

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