Episode 327: Lecture 4 M2025: Building a relationship with God part 1
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[Muharram 2025 Series: Holding On to Faith When the World Falls Apart Lessons in Resilience and Resistance from Imam Hussain [as] and Bibi Zainab[as] M1447/2025] After completing our discussion on distractions on the path towards God, we start our discussion on building our relationship with Allah by looking at His proper name For questions and or comments related to this content, please email [email protected] Please visit for more resources on practical spirituality. Please consider subscribing and leaving a rating & review on Apple Podcasts and Facebook/IG...
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Episode 326: Lecture 3 M2025: Distractions on the path towards God
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[Muharram 2025 Series: Holding On to Faith When the World Falls Apart Lessons in Resilience and Resistance from Imam Hussain [as] and Bibi Zainab[as] M1447/2025] After reflecting on what we can do to build personal resilience, we begin the topic of building our relationship with Allah swt as this is the foundation for Istiqamah. Many of us report feeling disconnected from Allah swt these days. In this lecture, we uncover some of the things in modern life which make it so hard for us to connect to Him. For questions and or comments related to this content, please email...
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Episode 325: Lecture 2 M2025: Building personal resilience
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[Muharram 2025 Series: Holding On to Faith When the World Falls Apart Lessons in Resilience and Resistance from Imam Hussain [as] and Bibi Zainab[as] M1447/2025] In order to have the stance of istiqamah, standing strong, we need to have resilience. In this episode, we explore the meaning of resilience, talk about the purpose of trials in our lives and discuss the secrets of resilient people who are able to withstand the challenges of life and are in fact, stronger because of them For questions and or comments related to this content, please email [email protected]...
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Episode 324: Lecture 1 M2025: Introduction & Verse Theme – Understanding Istiqamah
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In this episode, we reflect on the verse from Sura Fussilat where Allah swt says: [41:30] (As for) those who say: Our Lord is Allah, then continue in the right way, the angels descend upon them, saying: Fear not, nor be grieved, and receive good news of the garden which you were promised. We start exploring the need for idea of resistance as stance towards injustice. We also explore the meaning of Imam Hussain [as] mission and the idea that the mission of Azadari cannot be different than the mission of Imam Hussain [as]. We start exploring the meaning of Istiqamat For...
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Episode 323: Voices of Truth: What Isa (as) Said from the Cradle” Surah Maryam – Part 3
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📌 Episode Summary: This episode continues the narrative of Surah Maryam with the miraculous moment when the newborn Isa (as) speaks from the cradle to defend his mother and declare his prophetic mission. You unpack the meaning and significance of each part of his speech—from affirming his identity as Abdullah (servant of Allah), to describing his mission of prayer, charity, and respect for his mother. From there, the discussion expands into the theological disputes surrounding Isa (as), clarifying the Islamic stance on his nature and role. The Qur’an rebuts both the Jewish rejection of...
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Episode 321: Faith Under Fire: Lessons from the First Hijrah” Surah Maryam – Part 1
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📌 Episode Summary: In this opening episode of the Surah Maryam series, we dive into the historical and spiritual backdrop of Chapter 19 of the Qur’an. You begin by highlighting the virtues of Surah Maryam—its poetic rhythm, spiritual benefits, and relevance for those struggling with anxiety or hardship. The main focus is on the profound story of the first Muslim migration to Abyssinia. Through the lens of this pivotal moment, we explore how Surah Maryam served as a spiritual defense and a tool for bridge-building across faiths. The podcast revisits the powerful exchange between Hazrat...
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Episode 322: The Strength of a Silent Woman: Maryam’s Trial and Triumph” Surah Maryam – Part 2
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📌 Episode Summary: In this powerful and emotionally resonant episode, you delve into the heart of Surah Maryam—the miraculous conception and birth of Prophet Isa (Jesus) through Maryam (as), a paragon of purity, courage, and spiritual strength. Beginning with the backstory from Surah Al-Imran, we learn about Maryam’s early life, her mother’s intention to dedicate her unborn child to God, and the miraculous signs surrounding her upbringing under the care of Prophet Zakariya. The episode then explores Maryam’s spiritual retreat, her encounter with Jibra’il (Gabriel), and the divine...
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Keep Allah central in your life [2:185]
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"…and so that you complete the number and glorify Allah for having guided you, and that you may give thanks." — Surah Al-Baqara (2:185) 🌙 Episode Summary As we approach the end of Ramadan, we reflect on what it means to truly keep Allah at the center of our lives. Ramadan has been a time of spiritual focus, self-discipline, and connection to the Divine. Now, as we prepare to celebrate Eid, we are reminded to exalt Allah’s greatness and express gratitude for His guidance. This is not the end—but a launchpad for the rest of the year. 💡 Key Themes Allahu Akbar as a...
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Count Your Blessings [14:34]
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Count Your Blessings Verse Reflection: “And if you count Allah's favors, you will not be able to number them.” — Surah Ibrahim (14:34) 🌟 Episode Summary In this episode, we reflect on the Qur’anic reminder that Allah’s blessings are infinite—too many to count. From the seen to the unseen, the obvious to the hidden, His favors surround us constantly. True gratitude lies not just in counting our blessings but in recognizing them, reflecting on them deeply, and allowing that awareness to nurture our faith and wellbeing. 🧠 Why We Can’t Count His Blessings They Are...
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Pay it forward [28:77]
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Pay It Forward Qur’anic Verse: “…And do good to others as Allah has done good to you.” – Surah Al-Qasas (28:77) 🌟 Episode Summary This reflection centers around the Quranic command to use our blessings—wealth, knowledge, time, and influence—not just for ourselves, but in service to others. Drawing from the story of Qarun, a man who failed to recognize his blessings as a trust from Allah, we are reminded that our resources are tests, not trophies. Doing good with what we have is how we build our Hereafter and bring light to this world. 💡 Key Themes Blessings...
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Our relationships—whether in family, friendships, marriage, or community—are central to our well-being. Research confirms that healthy relationships lead to lower stress, greater happiness, and increased resilience. Islam beautifully aligns with this, emphasizing that our connection with Allah impacts how we treat others—and vice versa.
In Surah Aal-e-Imran (3:159), Allah (SWT) reminds the Prophet (SAW):
“It is by Allah’s mercy that you deal gently with them. And had you been harsh and hard-hearted, they would have dispersed from around you.”
This verse highlights a key principle for maintaining relationships: gentleness, mercy, and emotional wisdom. Even when people fail us, reacting with kindness instead of harshness strengthens relationships rather than breaking them.
Key Takeaways:
🔹 The Prophet (SAW)’s Leadership in Hardship – After the Battle of Uhud, instead of reprimanding his companions, he led with compassion and wisdom.
🔹 Emotional Maturity in Leadership – Reacting with ego and frustration harms relationships. True leadership—whether in parenting, marriage, or community—requires emotional control.
🔹 The Psychological Impact of Harshness – Criticism triggers emotional flooding, making people defensive rather than reflective.
🔹 Softness Inspires Change – When people feel valued despite their mistakes, they are more likely to correct themselves.
How to Communicate with Gentleness & Wisdom:
✅ Choose the Right Moment – If emotions are high, pause before addressing an issue.
✅ Use Gentle Language – Replace “You always…” with “I feel…” or “I noticed…”
✅ Mind Your Tone & Expression – Sometimes, how we say something matters more than what we say.
✅ Prioritize Connection Over Being Right – Conversations should build relationships, not egos.
✅ Forgive & Seek Forgiveness – When someone reacts negatively, pause and offer reassurance.
Final Reflection:
Are our words and tone inviting connection or pushing people away? The Quran reminds us that true strength lies in softness.
🎧 Tune in now to learn how kindness in speech can transform your relationships!