The Initiation of Birth, Death, and Sex in Motherhood with Londin Angel Winters
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
Release Date: 06/21/2023
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
What if relationship numbness, loss of desire, or feeling like roommates instead of lovers aren’t signs your relationship is broken… but signals that Eros quietly slipped out the back door and is waiting to be invited home? After years of working with couples - and living this myself through partnership and parenthood - I’ve seen how amazing people slowly trade aliveness for logistics. In this episode, I answer questions from the community about relationships that still “work” but no longer feel alive. You’ll get language for what’s actually happening, relief from...
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What if period pain, shame about your body, and feminine grief weren’t problems to fix… but messages from your body asking to be witnessed, honored, and turned into art? This cycle, I painted with my menstrual blood for the first time - holding grief, longing, and devotion in my hands - and something softened in me at a cellular level. Menstrual art is more than expression - it’s a nervous-system-regulating, somatic practice that helps repair period shame and restore trust in the body. In this episode, I interview Jasmine Alicia Carter on how working directly with menstrual blood...
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What if confusion about masculinity, emotional distance, or “I don’t know how to be a man anymore” aren’t failures… but signs that the old scripts are dissolving and a more grounded, relational masculinity is trying to emerge? I recorded this episode with my husband, James, after years of watching good men feel lost, defensive, or exhausted by impossible standards. We talk honestly about what helped us - not theories, not dominance, not perfection, but presence. This episode is for any man who wants to know how to have hotter attraction and deeper love - without...
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What if burnout, numbness, or quiet dissatisfaction aren’t personal failures… but signs that your soul - and the Earth itself - are asking for a deeper way of living? In this first episode of Eros & Earth, I’m sharing why this season of my life - and this cultural moment - feels like a cocoon: messy, liminal, and sacred. After motherhood, building an eco-sanctuary in Bali, and years of impact work, I stopped asking “What’s my niche?” and started listening for what makes me feel alive instead. Trusting this aliveness is a game-changer; it re-orients your compass and can...
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Sensuality. Feminine Power. Earth Awakening. Wild Love. This is the place where desire roots down into the soil, where nature seduces you awake, and where soul and body braid themselves into something too alive to ignore. Where sensuality becomes a form of activism. Where Earth devotion becomes erotic. Where intimacy becomes a catalyst for culture. Where the way we love each other reshapes the world we inherit. Here, we explore how our bodies, our relationships, and our Earth reflect one another — one living organism pulsing between collapse and regeneration. Each episode drops you...
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What is your relationship to anger like? Have you experienced more anger since becoming a mother? If you have, you aren’t alone. There is a unique flavor of anger I call “mother rage” that pops up while tending to little ones. It has important insights for us - if we are willing to listen. Anger can be scary, but it is also a valuable teacher, pointing out our deepest values and tenderest places. We get angry about issues that matter to us, areas that need to change. For that reason, anger is one of my favorite emotions - and a potent force for transformation. ...
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What was becoming a mother like for our mothers? For our grandmothers? How can the wisdom from women who have come before guide us newer mamas in this journey? What can we learn from our mothers, grandmothers, wise women? In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with my own mom to unravel and discover my female lineage, learning about my mama’s motherhood journey as well as my grandmother’s. My mother — a mama to 3 children — shares her experience of becoming a mama in her 20s, divorcing in her 30s, and then becoming a mama again in her 40s. She reflects...
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In this captivating, intimate episode of the Eros Mama podcast, I welcome Alexandra Roxo, best-selling author of "Fuck Like a Goddess" and mother to a 10-month-old girl. Alexandra shares her transformative journey to motherhood, discussing the challenges of finding the right partner and balancing her career with her desire for a child. Alexandra opens up about her transition from a successful career in film and TV to a spiritual and healing path, and how this shift ultimately led her to motherhood. She candidly discusses the societal pressures she faced, her experiences...
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Have you ever trusted your intuition, even amidst the noise of other people’s opinions? Such a powerful and needed skill of a mama. In this episode, I share about taking my daughter out of school after noticing her upset when being dropped off. I talk about navigating conflicting voices in my head - am I coddling her? Aren’t I supposed to “send my kids to school” - vs. ultimately trusting the quiet whispers of my body telling me this wasn’t right. I’ve also been exploring the concept of “unschooling” which focuses on child-led learning without an...
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In this episode, my husband James and I share our intimate, powerful home birth story of our second baby, Latham. It was such a wild and empowering journey! Here I weave the tale of each step of the journey, plus what we did to prepare for the birth. I am so passionate about rewriting the narrative around birth. I believe birth can be the portal to a woman’s deepest feminine power, a blueprint that lasts her whole life (and the baby’s!). This is a great listen for anyone who is pregnant or considering a home birth. 0:00 - Who we are and why we chose...
info_outlineWe’re backkk! The first episode with Londin Angel Winters was so powerful (listen to it here), that we immediately recorded a follow-up episode - this time centered on motherhood.
If you don’t yet know Londin, she is an expert on the path of sacred devotional intimacy, having taught about sexuality, masculine / feminine dynamics, and the art of surrender for over 12 years. She is a true role model in this field and my former relationship mentor.
In this episode, she shares about the pain of multiple miscarriages and how she (unexpectedly!) conceived at 47 years old, and had a successful home birth at 48 years old.
We explore the profoundly spiritual aspects of giving birth, and what pregnancy and birth taught us about surrender, the power of the female body, and trusting the divine. We explore the intricate connections between birth, death, and sexuality.
She shares about breaking the chains of old ways of parenting, and letting your child be your greatest spiritual teacher.
We dive into intimacy and sex after baby - why so many moms lose interest in sex - and how postpartum actually represents a profound initiation into sacred sexuality and intimate depth, if both people are willing to uplevel together.
Lastly, we end by talking about the purpose of motherhood - to give love in a way you never received - and how anchoring into that purpose can provide meaning, even in challenging motherhood moments.
Key Topics:
- Finding acceptance through the pain of multiple miscarriages [01:33]
- Becoming pregnant with a miracle baby at 47 years old [3:41]
- Surrendering to the uncertainty of past pregnancies and [7:38]
- Going to the gates of life and death to receive her daughter [14:53]
- The annihilation of self and total surrender [16:55]
- Positive discipline as a blueprint for your child to discover themselves [24:21]
- Making room for the messiest parts of ourselves when we’re feeling fragmented[32:05]
- Breaking the chains of the old ways of parenting [38:45]
- Parenthood can be the initiation for deeper intimacy if you make space for it [47:20]
- What kind of love would you love your child to experience that you never received? [1:04:55]
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