Co-Designing the Rhythms and Rituals of Your Relationship
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
Release Date: 11/08/2023
When Love Goes Quiet (And How to Bring It Back)
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
What if relationship numbness, loss of desire, or feeling like roommates instead of lovers aren’t signs your relationship is broken… but signals that Eros quietly slipped out the back door and is waiting to be invited home? After years of working with couples - and living this myself through partnership and parenthood - I’ve seen how amazing people slowly trade aliveness for logistics. In this episode, I answer questions from the community about relationships that still “work” but no longer feel alive. You’ll get language for what’s actually happening, relief from...
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Blood as Prayer: Menstrual Art, Body Shame Repair & the Sacred Feminine with Jasmine Alicia Carter
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
What if period pain, shame about your body, and feminine grief weren’t problems to fix… but messages from your body asking to be witnessed, honored, and turned into art? This cycle, I painted with my menstrual blood for the first time - holding grief, longing, and devotion in my hands - and something softened in me at a cellular level. Menstrual art is more than expression - it’s a nervous-system-regulating, somatic practice that helps repair period shame and restore trust in the body. In this episode, I interview Jasmine Alicia Carter on how working directly with menstrual blood...
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WTF is Modern Masculinity? – Honest Polarity for These Times
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
What if confusion about masculinity, emotional distance, or “I don’t know how to be a man anymore” aren’t failures… but signs that the old scripts are dissolving and a more grounded, relational masculinity is trying to emerge? I recorded this episode with my husband, James, after years of watching good men feel lost, defensive, or exhausted by impossible standards. We talk honestly about what helped us - not theories, not dominance, not perfection, but presence. This episode is for any man who wants to know how to have hotter attraction and deeper love - without...
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Permission to Evolve: Returning to Eros & Earth
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
What if burnout, numbness, or quiet dissatisfaction aren’t personal failures… but signs that your soul - and the Earth itself - are asking for a deeper way of living? In this first episode of Eros & Earth, I’m sharing why this season of my life - and this cultural moment - feels like a cocoon: messy, liminal, and sacred. After motherhood, building an eco-sanctuary in Bali, and years of impact work, I stopped asking “What’s my niche?” and started listening for what makes me feel alive instead. Trusting this aliveness is a game-changer; it re-orients your compass and can...
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Welcome to Eros & Earth
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
Sensuality. Feminine Power. Earth Awakening. Wild Love. This is the place where desire roots down into the soil, where nature seduces you awake, and where soul and body braid themselves into something too alive to ignore. Where sensuality becomes a form of activism. Where Earth devotion becomes erotic. Where intimacy becomes a catalyst for culture. Where the way we love each other reshapes the world we inherit. Here, we explore how our bodies, our relationships, and our Earth reflect one another — one living organism pulsing between collapse and regeneration. Each episode drops you...
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Mother Rage is Important Wisdom
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
What is your relationship to anger like? Have you experienced more anger since becoming a mother? If you have, you aren’t alone. There is a unique flavor of anger I call “mother rage” that pops up while tending to little ones. It has important insights for us - if we are willing to listen. Anger can be scary, but it is also a valuable teacher, pointing out our deepest values and tenderest places. We get angry about issues that matter to us, areas that need to change. For that reason, anger is one of my favorite emotions - and a potent force for transformation. ...
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My Mama Lineage - What Generations Before Can Teach Us About Motherhood
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
What was becoming a mother like for our mothers? For our grandmothers? How can the wisdom from women who have come before guide us newer mamas in this journey? What can we learn from our mothers, grandmothers, wise women? In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with my own mom to unravel and discover my female lineage, learning about my mama’s motherhood journey as well as my grandmother’s. My mother — a mama to 3 children — shares her experience of becoming a mama in her 20s, divorcing in her 30s, and then becoming a mama again in her 40s. She reflects...
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Embracing Sensual Motherhood with Alexandra Roxo
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
In this captivating, intimate episode of the Eros Mama podcast, I welcome Alexandra Roxo, best-selling author of "Fuck Like a Goddess" and mother to a 10-month-old girl. Alexandra shares her transformative journey to motherhood, discussing the challenges of finding the right partner and balancing her career with her desire for a child. Alexandra opens up about her transition from a successful career in film and TV to a spiritual and healing path, and how this shift ultimately led her to motherhood. She candidly discusses the societal pressures she faced, her experiences...
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My Kid is a Pre-School Drop-out - Adventures in Unschooling
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
Have you ever trusted your intuition, even amidst the noise of other people’s opinions? Such a powerful and needed skill of a mama. In this episode, I share about taking my daughter out of school after noticing her upset when being dropped off. I talk about navigating conflicting voices in my head - am I coddling her? Aren’t I supposed to “send my kids to school” - vs. ultimately trusting the quiet whispers of my body telling me this wasn’t right. I’ve also been exploring the concept of “unschooling” which focuses on child-led learning without an...
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Our Empowering Homebirth Story
Eros & Earth with Megan Lambert
In this episode, my husband James and I share our intimate, powerful home birth story of our second baby, Latham. It was such a wild and empowering journey! Here I weave the tale of each step of the journey, plus what we did to prepare for the birth. I am so passionate about rewriting the narrative around birth. I believe birth can be the portal to a woman’s deepest feminine power, a blueprint that lasts her whole life (and the baby’s!). This is a great listen for anyone who is pregnant or considering a home birth. 0:00 - Who we are and why we chose...
info_outlineOne of the least talked about — but most important — aspects of a relationship is how you structure your daily lives together. What are the rhythms and rituals you live by? What is the flow of your days?
Often couples fall into unconscious patterns, without having a clear conversation on the rhythms they want to create together. Nor do they talk about their implicit expectations and baseline standards - which can breed resentment and hurt feelings.
By having an open and honest conversation about these areas, you two can consciously design a more beautiful and fulfilling life together.
In this episode, I share with you two powerful sets of questions to talk about with your partner to help you set your baseline standards and design your daily rhythms. This is potent work! May it create more flow and harmony in your relationship.
Key Topics:
- What are rhythms and rituals in partnership? [1:06]
- Why are they important?
- Rhythms and rituals questions [2:50]
- What do you do in the morning and before going to bed together?
- How often and when do you make love?
- How often do you have date nights?
- Traveling and taking trips together or separately
- Relationship check-ins
- How do you play and have fun together?
- How do you receive relationship support?
- Baseline standards questions [8:29]
- What behaviors are not acceptable in fights?
- What will you do when a standard is broken?
- What is the standard of loyalty and honesty?
- How long do you go without having sex?
- How long do you harbor resentments?
- How do you deal with substances, addictions, and/or vices?
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