EP201: The Moment Most People Abandon Themselves with Ola Goldsmith
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
Release Date: 04/30/2026
EP201: The Moment Most People Abandon Themselves with Ola Goldsmith
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
On Confessions of an Unapologetic Rebel, Emma is joined by Ola Goldsmith, International Sales Expert and entrepreneur known for building a business on her own terms not the industry’s. In this conversation, Emma and Ola go beyond the highlight reel. They talk about what actually happens when things don’t go to plan… when doors don’t open… and when most people would quietly start adjusting themselves to fit. This isn’t about growth for the sake of it. It’s about the moments where you either stay with yourself or abandon what you know to be true in order to keep things moving. From...
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EP200: Why you don’t perform at your best when it matters (even though you can)
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
You knew what to do… so why didn’t you fully go for it? Not the obvious miss. The subtle one. Where something in you hesitated just enough to change the outcome. The conversation you softened The decision you delayed The moment you walked away thinking… that wasn’t fully me That’s the part most people don’t catch. You don’t lose skill under pressure You lose access to it And it’s not dramatic. It’s micro. Your instinct delays Your timing shifts You start monitoring instead of responding And at this level… that’s everything Because it’s the difference between: the moment...
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EP199 The Next Level Isn’t the Problem - Holding It Is with Remi Gutteridge
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
This episode isn’t about how grew her business. It’s about what she had to become to hold it. After her first event, everything shifted quickly. More visibility. More demand. More opportunity. From the outside, it looked like momentum. But inside, there were parts of her that couldn’t come with her to that next level. In this conversation, Emma and Remi go into what had to be let go of the old patterns, the ways of thinking, and the parts of her identity that no longer matched where she was going. Because growth isn’t just about what you build. It’s about what your system can hold....
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EP198: You Don’t Break in Survival Mode. You Lose Yourself.
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
This episode explores the long term impact of staying in survival mode, not when life is chaotic, but when it quietly becomes your normal. Emma breaks down how survival mode can look productive on the outside, while underneath it creates disconnection from yourself, your emotions, and the people around you. Over time, it shifts how you think, how you feel, and ultimately, who you believe you are. This isn’t about burnout. It’s about losing access to yourself without realising it. 🔑 KEY MOMENTS 1. Survival mode doesn’t break you, it disconnects you The biggest cost isn’t exhaustion....
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Ep197: You Don’t Break in Survival Mode. You Lose Yourself.
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
This episode explores the long-term impact of staying in survival mode, not when things are chaotic, but when it quietly becomes your normal. Emma breaks down how survival mode can look productive on the surface, while underneath it creates disconnection from yourself, your emotions, and the people around you. Over time, this shows up as: emotional flattening, where highs and lows feel muted constant internal tension and difficulty switching off disrupted sleep and a body that never fully settles being present in your life, but not fully available in it The conversation highlights how...
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EP196: Why Overriding Your Body Is Sabotaging Your Success
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
You don’t have a discipline problem. You’re just overriding your system. And you’ve probably been doing it for years. Pushing through. Ignoring the signals. Telling yourself to keep going because that’s what it takes. And it’s worked… to a point. But now? You can feel it catching up with you. The fatigue. The tension. The moments where you know what to do but something in you doesn’t follow through. This episode is about what happens when success is built on override. Because when you ignore your body’s signals, you don’t build capacity. You build pressure. And that pressure...
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Ep we fall to our highest level of preparation
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
There’s a belief that when the moment comes, you’ll rise. You’ll perform. You’ll handle it. You’ll step up because you have to. But that’s not how it works. In this episode, Emma breaks down a truth that shows up again and again in high-pressure environments: You don’t rise to the level of the moment. You fall to the level of your preparation. And most people have only been preparing their mind. They’ve trained their thinking. They’ve worked on mindset. They’ve told themselves they’re ready. But when pressure hits, it’s not your thoughts that take over. It’s your...
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EP195: Retired at 21 with Jayden St Paul
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
In this episode, Emma sits down with Jayden St Paul, a former professional goalkeeper for Norwich City F.C., whose career ended abruptly at just 21 years old due to injury. Just as things were beginning to build, everything stopped. Jayden speaks openly about the physical recovery, the emotional fallout, and the identity shift that follows when the one thing you’ve trained your whole life for is suddenly gone. This conversation moves beyond injury itself and into what happens after the headlines fade the silence, the uncertainty, and the process of rebuilding a life without the structure,...
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EP194: When success works but your system cant hold it
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
This episode explores something that a lot of people experience but rarely talk about. Success happens. The strategy works. The opportunity lands. And yet internally, things start to wobble. You might notice doubt creeping in where confidence used to be. You might feel strangely flat after a win. Or you might start questioning decisions that felt completely obvious just days earlier. In this episode, Emma breaks down what’s actually happening in those moments. When something significant happens a win, a breakthrough, a leap in visibility or responsibility your system has to process that...
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EP193: Building Success Without Abandoning Yourself with Kiki Neag
Confessions Of An Unapologetic Rebel
In this episode, Emma is joined by for an honest conversation about what actually changes when you stop looking outside yourself for permission, safety, or certainty. Kiki shares the quieter truth behind her growth the burnout, the self-doubt, and the moment she stopped trying to make things work through effort alone. What followed wasn’t a new strategy, but a deeper shift in how she trusted herself, listened to her intuition, and allowed her work to move through her without force. The conversation explores what happens when people reach higher levels of visibility and income and...
info_outlineOn Confessions of an Unapologetic Rebel, Emma is joined by Ola Goldsmith, International Sales Expert and entrepreneur known for building a business on her own terms not the industry’s.
In this conversation, Emma and Ola go beyond the highlight reel.
They talk about what actually happens when things don’t go to plan… when doors don’t open… and when most people would quietly start adjusting themselves to fit.
This isn’t about growth for the sake of it.
It’s about the moments where you either stay with yourself or abandon what you know to be true in order to keep things moving.
From navigating the pressure of visibility (including Ola’s experience on Dragon’s Den) to making decisions rooted in freedom rather than expectation, this episode explores what it really takes to build something that actually works for you.
🔥 Off The Record Questions Emma Asks Ola
- What parts of you had to be let go of to hold the level you’ve stepped into?
- When things didn’t go to plan, what stopped you from changing who you were to make it work?
- Where do you see people abandoning themselves the most in business?
- What does freedom actually look like for you beyond the idea of it?
- How do you make decisions when there’s pressure to follow what everyone else is doing?
🎧 This Episode Is a Must Listen If You Are…
- building something that looks good on the outside but doesn’t fully feel like you
- feeling the pull to do things your way… but questioning it under pressure
- navigating growth, visibility, or new opportunities and noticing yourself hesitating
- tired of following industry rules that don’t actually match how you want to live and work
- at a point where you know it’s not about strategy anymore it’s about how you’re showing up
🧠 If You’re Experiencing…
- second-guessing yourself when things start working
- softening your voice or decisions to keep things comfortable
- adapting your business to fit what you think will land, instead of what you actually want
- feeling the tension between “this works” and “this doesn’t feel like me”
This episode will help you see exactly where that shift is happening and what it’s costing you.
🎙️ Hosted by Emma Gibbs-Ng
Emma Gibbs-Ng is a Pressure & Performance Specialist known for the conversations most people don’t have about what’s really happening underneath success.
She has conducted over 400 interviews with leaders, Olympians, gold medallists, seven-figure business owners, and global brands, giving her direct insight into how people actually operate under pressure, not just how it looks from the outside.
Her work focuses on training the human system behind performance, so her clients can hold more, lead at a higher level, and stay connected to themselves as everything expands.
Because pressure doesn’t test your talent.
It tests what you can hold.
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If this episode landed, you already know this isn’t about more information.
It’s about how you show up in the moments that matter.
Inside The Unfair Advantage, we train exactly that.
How to:
- hold pressure without tightening
- stay with yourself under demand
- and access what you’re capable of when it counts
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