Learning to Love After Trauma
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
In this Mailbag episode, Dr. Raquel Martin explains how to build love and connection after growing up unseen, unheard, or unloved, and why self-compassion is the first step.
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Grief Isn’t Something You Get Over
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Grief isn’t linear, and it’s not something you just “get over.” Dr. Martin discusses the long arc of grief in Black communities, from personal loss to generational trauma, and how we can make space for its full expression.
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The Danger of Pray It Away Culture
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When religious beliefs are used to silence pain, it’s called spiritual bypassing. Dr. Martin discusses how Black faith spaces can hold both healing and harm, and why therapy and faith can coexist.
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Black Kids Are Not Little Adults
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From schools to home life, Black children are often denied the innocence and support others receive. Dr. Martin explores how adultification harms mental health and how reparenting can start the healing process.
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Burnout From Performing Blackness
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What happens when being "Black enough" becomes a performance? Dr. Martin unpacks the mental health cost of masking, code-switching, and respectability politics, and why reclaiming your identity is an act of liberation.
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Why Respect Beats Obedience in Parenting
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Many Black families parent from a place of fear, shaped by generations of trauma. Dr. Martin explores how shifting from obedience to respect-based parenting can break harmful cycles and nurture emotional resilience in kids.
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Black Youth Suicide Crisis
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
Black youth suicide rates have surged over 50% in recent years. In this episode, Dr. Raquel Martin debunks the myth that Black people don’t die by suicide and explores the impact of racial trauma, stigma, and silence in families and schools.
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Healing Trauma, ADHD & Hormones, and Boundaries
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
From trauma healing to ADHD and hormonal changes, Dr. Raquel Martin breaks down listener questions and explains why strong boundaries protect your mental health.
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Navigating the Complexities of Couples Therapy ft Kristen Feemster
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
In this conversation, Kristen and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the intricacies of couples therapy, the challenges of organizing group therapy, and the importance of understanding the roles and boundaries of therapists. They explore misconceptions that clients may have about therapy, the significance of individual therapy alongside couples work, and the dynamics of family therapy. The discussion emphasizes the need for clear communication and the therapist's role in navigating complex relationship issues. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Kristen explore the complexities of...
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Authenticity and Legacy In Business Ft Fawn Weaver
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
In this engaging conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin interviews Fawn Weaver, exploring her journey as an entrepreneur, the impact of her book, and her unique perspective on introversion and community. They delve into the significance of Fawn's work with Uncle Nearest, the misconceptions surrounding imposter syndrome, and the importance of self-education. Fawn shares her experiences with isolation, leadership, and the power of storytelling in preserving history. In this engaging conversation, Fawn Weaver and Dr. Raquel Martin explore the themes of purpose, resilience, and authenticity in...
info_outlineThis week we're joined by Trell Thomas. During the episode he discusses the inspiration behind the Black Excellence Brunch, which was inspired by the Sunday dinners of his childhood in South Carolina. He emphasizes the power of food and connection in creating a sense of love and community. Trell also highlights the importance of creating a luxurious and inclusive experience for attendees, providing a space where black people can be celebrated, discussed, and pampered. He advises individuals to give themselves grace and surround themselves with supportive people. Trell shares his evolving definition of success, which focuses on how he feels and the freedom to be himself. He aims to provide a space where individuals can take off their masks and be authentic.
Takeaways
- Creating a space where people can unmask and be their authentic selves is crucial for mental health.
- Balancing the celebration of high-profile achievements with everyday black excellence is important for inclusivity.
- The Black Excellence Brunch serves as a healing space, providing affirmation and love.
- Acknowledging and celebrating individuals' contributions contributes to mental wellbeing.
- The Black Excellence Brunch is building a legacy and has upcoming projects to continue its impact.
Guest Bio:
Trell Thomas, the visionary behind the Black Excellence Brunch, seamlessly transitioned from a promising career in broadcast journalism, where he played a pivotal role in the Obama campaign, to celebrating Black culture and entrepreneurship. Inspired by the communal spirit of his South Carolina upbringing, Trell has elevated the tradition of Sunday dinners into an international platform that honors and uplifts Black excellence. His events, from intimate local gatherings to grand international celebrations, have become a cherished space for community, recognition, and pride within the Black community. A staunch advocate for Black-owned businesses, Trell's initiatives, including the innovative Black Excellence Boxes, underscore his commitment to elevating and supporting Black entrepreneurs, showcasing his profound impact on fostering a supportive ecosystem for Black excellence. You can find Trell on Instagram
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