Full Circle Motherhood: A Conversation with My Daughter
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
Release Date: 04/29/2025
Messy but Magical Mornings (encore)
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
For a lot of us school is back in session or about to be and mornings can be… A LOT! We’re bringing back a favorite to share with you today. This episode,“Good Mornings for YOU!”, is exactly the kind of real talk we all need to hear. We're talking about those mornings when your kid is hunting for the cleanest dirty shirt, scrambling to throw together a sack lunch, and then you can’t find the car keys. Oh have we been there! I originally recorded this episode 6 years ago with my younger sister Leah , who also has 7 kids and our babies are all so muhc more grown up now. But...
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Parenting Without Losing Your Cool with Mary Van Geffen (encore)
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
Vanessa chats with "Spicy Ones" coach Mary Van Geffen for a conversation about what it really takes to parent strong-willed, defiant kids. Mary shares how her own journey—from being a spicy child herself to raising one—led her to become a gentle parenting coach. They swap tips on how to stay calm, kind, and firm even on the days your child pushes all your buttons. You'll hear why separating your worth from your child’s behavior is one of the most important things you can do as a mom, and how choosing to love your child unconditionally—even when they are hard to love—is actually...
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Redefining Adult Friendships with Laura Tremaine (encore)
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
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You’re Not a Bad Mom—You’re Just Overwhelmed
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
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Embracing Change with Chatbooks CMO Karen Peterson
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
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The Power Pause: Redefining Ambition in Motherhood with Neha Ruch
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
When Neha Ruch left her high-powered career to become a stay-at-home mom, she didn’t see it as stepping back—she saw it as stepping into something deeper. In this episode, Neha, founder of The Power Pause and author of the book by the same name, shares how embracing a career pause led her to a more grounded, intentional version of ambition. She talks candidly about identity shifts in motherhood, the surprising ways her family has grown from her presence at home, and how we can all challenge hustle culture in favor of something more meaningful. This is a conversation for anyone navigating...
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Enter the Chat: Less Guilt, More Play with Myriam Sandler of @mothercould
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
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Full Circle Motherhood: A Conversation with My Daughter
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
Today’s episode is extra special—it’s our Mother’s Day episode, and I’ve got my oldest daughter, Laken, in the studio with me! I’ve been wanting to have her on the podcast for a long time, and since she was in town this past week, I finally convinced her to sit down and chat about motherhood. If you don’t already know her, you’re going to love her. She’s the most amazing mom to my granddaughter, Mauve, and she’s been a huge part of this podcast since the very beginning—six seasons ago! She actually wrote and recorded our theme song and has been our audio engineer ever...
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Enter the Chat: Misconceptions of Mental Health with Capacity Expert RaQuel Hopkins
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
If you haven’t come across RaQuel yet—aka The Capacity Expert—that’s about to change. With bold, truth-telling videos that are equal parts empowering and uncomfortable, RaQuel is shaking up the mental health conversation in all the best ways. Instead of prescribing prevalent self care solutions like bubble baths and spa days, RaQuel invites us into deeper work—work that involves honesty, self-responsibility, and a better understanding of what we’re actually capable of. I brought questions straight from our MomForce community to this conversation, and RaQuel delivered. You're...
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Dare to Dream: From Choir Girl to Chatbooker in Chief
The MomForce Podcast Hosted by Chatbooks
Today's episode is a special one that is close to my heart. I am sharing my unexpected journey from dreaming of Broadway to becoming the co-founder of Chatbooks. Growing up in a family of 12, I learned the power of big dreams and resilience, I was especially inspired by strong women in her life. I pursued vocal performance in college, but after getting married young and starting a family, my path shifted. Years later, overwhelmed with mom life, a simple moment with my youngest child sparked the idea for Chatbooks—proving that sometimes, our biggest opportunities come from unexpected places....
info_outlineToday’s episode is extra special—it’s our Mother’s Day episode, and I’ve got my oldest daughter, Laken, in the studio with me! I’ve been wanting to have her on the podcast for a long time, and since she was in town this past week, I finally convinced her to sit down and chat about motherhood.
If you don’t already know her, you’re going to love her. She’s the most amazing mom to my granddaughter, Mauve, and she’s been a huge part of this podcast since the very beginning—six seasons ago! She actually wrote and recorded our theme song and has been our audio engineer ever since. I’m seriously so lucky to work alongside her... and even luckier to be her mom.
In this episode, we swap stories, laugh a lot, and share a few lessons we’ve learned along the way as a mother and daughter. It's a little peek into the beautiful (and sometimes messy) reality of family life—from both sides of the generation gap. Think of it as a celebration of the little moments that make it all worth it—and a reminder of why we do what we do at Chatbooks.
We also know that Mother’s Day can bring up all kinds of emotions. For some, it’s a day full of joy. For others, it might feel bittersweet or even heavy. However you’re feeling this year, please know we see you, we’re thinking of you, and we’re sending you so much love.
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4:30 Expectations on your first Mother's Day as a new mom
8:30 What it is like to see your daughter become a mother
15:00 "Family Fandangos!"
21:15 Moments in your parenting journey when you have to step into the role of mother
23:20 The drawbacks of parenting in the age of social media
29:01 Why Monthbooks are the greatest gift for a grandma
33:00 Behind the Scenes of the newest top secret project at Chatbooks
40:00 The ups and downs of parenting through the teen years
44:00 The different seasons of life and motherhood that you can lean into as an artist
47:08 Mom as a camp counselor/daughter as a camper dilemma
50:00 "I hope you will do better than we did"