348: Successful Co-parenting
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Release Date: 01/30/2026
363: How Did We Get Here
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
** Disclaimer: This episode includes discussion of addiction, overdosing, and alleged inappropriate touching between a stepparent and stepchild ** In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with longtime friend Tabatha Hartman to discuss her challenging journey through grief, blending families, addiction, and parental alienation. Tabatha shares how her life changed after the loss of her ex-husband, the struggles her daughter endured, and the tough choices she faced as a mother and stepmom. The conversation delves into issues such as therapy for grieving children, navigating...
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362: Comparison Will Make You Miserable
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Comparisons are the Thief of Joy—But What About in Blended Families? In episode NKP362 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive deep into the pitfalls of comparison, especially when it comes to blended families, kids, and relationships. Listeners will hear personal stories from Lori about her son Jackson's academic achievements and the emotions that arise when comparing him to David's children. Together, Lori and David candidly discuss how easy it is to compare kids, relationships, and even possessions, leading to unnecessary feelings of inadequacy and frustration. They reveal their...
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361: Keep The Target Off Your Back
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
In this episode, Lori and David dig into real-life stepfamily scenarios from handling dinnertime food drama with stepkids, to discovering vapes hidden in a teenager’s room. They discuss the importance of keeping the “target off your back” as a stepparent, sharing strategies for maintaining household harmony and reducing stress, like letting dad handle his child’s plate or calmly informing the bio parent about the contraband instead of taking action yourself. The hosts get candid about how small moments can trigger deeper frustrations and how most conflicts fade with time. In this...
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360: Stepmom Becomes Only Legal Parent to Stepdaughter
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
In this heartfelt episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Valerie Mills shares her remarkable story of becoming a stepmom who ultimately adopted her stepdaughter, overcoming immense obstacles and heartbreak along the way. Listeners will journey with Valerie Mills as she details the emotional and legal complexities of her family’s story, from rescuing her stepdaughter from a difficult home environment at age 7, to navigating the revolving door of foster care, facing her own battle with cancer, and overcoming domestic abuse. Hear how Valerie Mills fought for custody, the surprising ease of the...
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359: Building a Custody Case Against Narcissistic and Abusive Co-Parents
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Challenging custody battles, high-conflict co-parents, and courtroom chaos, this episode dives deep into the realities protective parents face, with real strategies for fighting for your child's best interests. Join Renee Rodriguez and her expert guest for a powerful and practical conversation. In this insightful episode, Renee Rodriguez welcomes a seasoned custody consultant, the creator of The Custody Blueprint, to discuss the complex and emotionally charged world of family court. Listeners will gain clear, actionable guidance on navigating custody disputes with high-conflict or abusive...
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358: Mother's Day Doesn't Have to Suck
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Mother’s Day is almost here, and stepmoms everywhere are bracing for the rollercoaster of emotions that this Hallmark holiday can bring. In this honest, lighthearted episode, Lori & David break down the myths, expectations, and real stories behind recognition, or lack thereof, on Mother’s Day and Stepmother’s Day in blended families. In this episode: Why communication about expectations is crucial (hint: don’t assume your partner or stepkids know what you want!) How to navigate feelings of disappointment or being overlooked, and practical tips to prevent “getting butt hurt...
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357: Estate Planning In Stepfamilies
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Discover crucial insights into estate planning, divorce mediation, and the complexities of blended families in this heartfelt episode featuring attorney Tamara Arnold. Learn why preparing legal documents for life’s unexpected turns is one of the greatest gifts you can give your family. Listeners will hear Tamara’s powerful personal story that led her to a career in estate planning, from her mother’s tragedy to her mission of helping families ensure their voices and wishes are honored. She delves into why healthcare directives matter, how trusts work (especially for stepfamilies), and the...
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356: Who Pays For College In A Stepfamily
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Curious how blended families navigate the tricky question of paying for college? Lori and David tackle financial planning, family dynamics, and the reality of college costs in stepfamilies with honesty and humor. In this episode, you’ll hear candid discussions about college expenses, scholarships, military paths, and what happens when one parent or stepparent has set aside funds for their child. Lori and David share their own experiences, like how military service and scholarships shaped their children's education, and what tough conversations arise if only one child has college savings....
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355: Family Court Don'ts ~ Whitney Antoniono Family Law Attorney
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Struggling with family court drama or high-conflict co-parenting? In this eye-opening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, host Lori sits down with seasoned family law attorney Whitney Antoniono to reveal the common mistakes people make in family court, and how to avoid them. What to Expect: You’ll learn the crucial dos and don’ts of communicating with your co-parent, why documenting everything (with more than just your phone!) matters, and how emotional responses can sabotage your case. Whitney Antoniano shares real-world stories from inside and outside the courtroom, highlighting how...
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354: Stepkids Don't Disappear at 18
The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Ready for some laughs, real-life blended family moments, and practical advice? In Episode NKP354 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David go deep on navigating relationships with adult stepkids - messy bathrooms, emptied fridges, and all! Tune in to hear Lori recount a jaw-dropping real-life story from a Nacho Kids Academy member who returned home to a ransacked kitchen and disaster-zone bathrooms after leaving her adult stepkids in charge. David and Lori unpack what to do (and NOT do) when your adult stepkids act more like kids than adults, and how applying Nacho parenting strategies can...
info_outlineIn this powerful and deeply honest episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with Jon Bassford, author of The Co-Parenting Secret: It’s Not About You, to talk about what healthy co-parenting really looks like, and why most families are unknowingly doing it wrong.
Jon shares his personal journey as a child of divorce, a father navigating two households, and a co-parent who intentionally chose cooperation over conflict. Together, they explore the realities of dual parenting vs. true co-parenting, the emotional toll high-conflict dynamics place on children, and how ego, resentment, and unresolved hurt often derail what’s best for kids.
This conversation covers:
• Why “co-parenting” often isn’t co-parenting at all
• The difference between parallel parenting and collaborative parenting
• How childhood divorce experiences shape adult parenting decisions
• Why keeping the focus on the child changes everything
• The power of accountability instead of blame
• How healthy communication models emotional intelligence for kids
• Creating a functional “village” even after divorce
• Why showing up matters more than perfection
• How to reduce transitions, meltdowns, and emotional overload for children
Jon also explains how he and his ex-wife rebuilt their post-divorce relationship with intentionality, including maintaining respectful communication, consistent parenting standards across households, and involving extended family as part of a unified support system.
This episode is a must-listen for:
✔ Stepparents feeling overwhelmed or sidelined
✔ Divorced parents struggling with communication
✔ Parents navigating 50/50 custody schedules
✔ High-conflict co-parenting situations
✔ Anyone wanting to protect their child’s emotional health
If you’ve ever wondered whether peaceful co-parenting is truly possible, this episode proves that it is.
Because when parenting becomes about the child instead of the adults…
everything changes.
🔗 Resources Mentioned:
• The Co-Parenting Secret: It’s Not About You — Jon Bassford
• Website: jonbassford.com
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