190: The "Silent Crisis with David McLain & Jamal Jones
Release Date: 01/16/2026
The Modern Man Podcast
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Are you allowing a “Stagnation Tax” to define your future based on your past failures? Eric Kennedy (Founder of Recovery Vow) reveals the clinical truth about reclaiming masculine identity and rebuilding a marriage after 15 years of addiction. This isn't a motivational talk; it is an identity audit for the modern man. In this episode of The Modern Man, we deconstruct the 15-year trajectory of Eric Kennedy—from biological rock bottom to the architect of a global recovery movement. We explore the "Worst Day Logic" and why your current operational bottlenecks may be symptoms of a deeper...
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Are you winning at work but losing at home? In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, Ted Phaeton (The Corporate Leadership Forecaster) and naturopathic expert Doc Jacque expose the "Silent Storm" of burnout, metabolic failure, and low testosterone hitting men earning $150k–$300k. Doc Jacque shares his visceral journey from a fractured skull and paralysis to becoming a "Hybrid Athlete," revealing the scientific truth about why "looking fit" doesn't mean you're healthy. We deconstruct the 7 Big Lies about medication, the hidden danger of mold in 50% of buildings, and the exact protocol to...
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Discover why "winning at work" is causing most high-performing men to secretly fail at home. World-leading leadership psychologist Dr. Michael Brabant reveals the "Trustable Leadership" protocol to end burnout and fix the "internal slippage" destroying your focus and relationships. Are you working 60 hours for 40 hours of output? Many high-performers operating in high-stakes environments like banking, energy, and tech are trapped in "Execution Freeze"—a neurophysiological state of overextension. In this episode, we deconstruct the "Success Trap" and identify the "Kingpin" moves required to...
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info_outlineThe unspoken reality of being a widower, a single father, and a man trying to find love again.
In this episode, I sit down with David McClain and Jamal Jones, hosts of the powerful podcast Getting Back Up. Both men lost their wives to cancer and were left to raise their children alone. They reveal the brutal truths about grief that most men are too afraid to admit—from the anger you feel at your late spouse for leaving you, to the guilt of removing their furniture to reclaim your home.
If you are struggling with loss, navigating single fatherhood, or feeling guilty about moving on, this conversation is the permission slip you didn’t know you needed.
Topics Discussed:
- Why "staying strong" is actually a weakness in disguise.
- The "Dad's House, Dad's Rules" moment: Changing the environment to survive.
- How to date again without feeling like you are cheating on your late wife.
- The concept of "Post-Traumatic Growth" and how to harden like an egg, not soften like a carrot.
Chapters:
0:00 - Intro: The Widower's Dilemma
01:44 - The "Playdate" That Saved My Life
04:51 - What Male Grief Actually Looks Like (It’s Not What You Think)
09:07 - Single Dad Survival Mode: "Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner"
13:50 - The Hard Truth: "You Can't Live In The Grave"
20:41 - The Taboo Emotion: Being Angry At Your Dead Wife
27:15 - Post-Traumatic Growth: The Egg vs. The Carrot
31:48 - How To Stop Passing Trauma To Your Children
36:31 - Finding Love After Loss: Navigating The Guilt
39:41 - "Dad's Rules": Why I Changed The Furniture
47:09 - Why Me? vs. Why Not Me?
McLain's & Jones's Links
Amazon Podcast: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding
Apple Podcast: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding
iHeart: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding
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