How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship
Release Date: 07/29/2025
How to Handle Fear & Jealousy in Swinging Relationships
The Openlove101 Show
Fear and jealousy are natural—but how you handle them can make or break your relationship. In this heartfelt video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com explore the emotional challenges that can arise in the swinging lifestyle and how honest communication and vulnerability can turn those moments into opportunities for deeper trust and connection. Drawing from personal stories, they show how facing insecurities together strengthens their bond and helps build a supportive, judgment-free relationship. If you're navigating non-monogamy or simply looking to grow closer to your partner, this...
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How to Unlock Non-Sexual Benefits in Open Relationships
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they explore the often overlooked non-sexual benefits of consensual non-monogamous relationships! After receiving feedback that a previous video focused too much on the sexual aspects, they dedicate this episode to discussing how open relationships have strengthened their bond beyond the bedroom. Discover how open communication, deep trust, and radical honesty have created a foundation for their 13-year relationship. John and Jackie share personal experiences about how their relationship model has allowed them to discuss topics that might be taboo in...
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Setting Boundaries in the Swinger Lifestyle
The Openlove101 Show
How do you set healthy boundaries in a swinger or open relationship? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share practical advice for navigating boundaries—especially for newcomers exploring the lifestyle. They discuss why observing before participating can be helpful, how boundaries should evolve over time, and the importance of not using them to control your partner. With a focus on open communication, mutual respect, and gradual exploration, this episode is a must-watch for anyone wanting to build trust and intimacy while keeping the experience fun and fulfilling. 💬...
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How to Balance Feelings and Fun in Non-monogamy
The Openlove101 Show
In this enlightening episode of the OpenLove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi address a thought-provoking question from a viewer about managing emotions as an external play partner in an open relationship. With their 20+ years of combined experience in open relationships, they offer valuable insights on maintaining boundaries while acknowledging natural human emotions. The hosts discuss the challenges of a play partner who has been in a relationship for 1.5 years with strict rules about emotional involvement, and explore whether it's truly possible to maintain a purely physical...
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How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional Connection
The Openlove101 Show
How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional Connection | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Can swinging lead to more emotional intimacy? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share how their open relationship has created a deeper sense of honesty, trust, and personal growth. Unlike traditional monogamous relationships where conversations about outside attraction are often avoided, John and Jackie embrace openness—creating a safe space for vulnerability, acceptance, and unconditional love. They discuss how this emotional freedom has transformed their connection and...
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10 Myths About Swinging Debunked Pt. 2
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind Colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog OpenLove101.com, as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie tackle the judgmental statements and questions they hear repeatedly. In this episode, they address myths like "that is disgusting," explore jealousy in open relationships, discuss how they handle conversations with their children, and much more. Whether you're curious about alternative...
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Consent in the Swinger Lifestyle: Why It Always Matters
The Openlove101 Show
Being in the lifestyle doesn’t mean consent is automatic. In this important video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive deep into the vital role of consent within the swinging community—especially in environments like swinger clubs and parties. They address common misconceptions, share real experiences, and emphasize that clear communication, mutual respect, and the ability to say “no” at any time are essential. From using safe words to navigating alcohol responsibly, this conversation is a must-watch for anyone seeking to explore ethically and confidently. 🔑 Consent is an...
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10 Surprising Misconceptions About Nonmonogamy PT.1
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi from openlove101.com as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy and the stigmas they face as a swinger couple. In this enlightening conversation, they address the funny and sometimes frustrating questions they receive from "vanilla" friends, from concerns about hitting on partners to fears of association. The Melfis share their experiences of educating curious strangers, dealing with people who avoid them due to their lifestyle choices, and their mission to demystify consensual non-monogamy. They emphasize that non-monogamous...
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Love & Swinging Lifestyle: Not Always Traditional
The Openlove101 Show
Can emotional connections exist without threatening your primary relationship? In this thought-provoking video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com explore the emotional side of swinging—and how trust, communication, and an open mindset can make all the difference. They share personal experiences, debunk common fears, and discuss how societal norms around monogamy shape our views on love, attachment, and fidelity. Whether you swing strictly for fun or are curious about deeper connections, this conversation invites you to rethink what emotional security really means in a non-traditional...
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Fantasy Roleplay in Consensual Non-Monogamy Relationships
The Openlove101 Show
In this playful and eye-opening episode, John and Jackie dive into the world of fantasy roleplay — a powerful tool for connection, communication, and confidence within relationships. Whether you’re new to consensual non-monogamy or simply looking to spice up your intimacy, roleplay offers a safe, creative space to explore fantasies together. From costumes and card games to themed nights at clubs like colette, John and Jackie reveal how fantasy roleplay can break routine, build trust, and help couples express their desires without judgment. They share real-life stories, tips for easing into...
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In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about how embracing the swinger lifestyle has reshaped their views on sex, love, and connection. Jackie shares her personal journey from monogamy to empowerment through sexual exploration, while John reflects on how swinging has brought more honesty, freedom, and trust into their relationship.
Together, they explore how non-monogamy has helped them grow individually and as a couple—challenging societal norms, reframing jealousy, and redefining intimacy. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or already part of it, this video offers heartfelt insights into how swinging can deepen connection and personal fulfillment.
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