Being True to Yourself in a World That Judges!
The Openlove101 Show
In this powerful episode, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about the challenges of living authentically in a world that often stigmatizes non-traditional relationships. Reflecting on their experiences in the swinger and open relationship community, they address the pressures to hide one's identity due to societal norms, family expectations, and professional consequences. They draw thoughtful parallels to other visibility movements, like LGBTQ+ rights, and advocate for education, empathy, and the freedom to live without shame. Whether you’re exploring a different path or simply...
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7 Lessons from Watching Your Partner with Others
The Openlove101 Show
In this intimate and revealing episode of the Open Love 101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi discuss a pivotal milestone in consensual non-monogamy relationships: the moment of realizing you're comfortable seeing your partner with someone else. Jackie shares her surprising journey from traditional monogamy to embracing open relationships, including her unexpected reaction to first seeing John with another person through a video he shared early in their relationship. Jackie reveals how watching John with someone else wasn't the jealousy-inducing experience she expected but instead created...
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The Hard Parts of Swinging (And Why They’re Not Actually Bad)
The Openlove101 Show
In this candid episode, John and Jackie shift the conversation to something couples don’t always talk about openly: the challenges of swinging and open relationships. While many episodes highlight the benefits, this one explores the obstacles—and why those same challenges often become powerful opportunities for growth, connection, and self-awareness. John and Jackie dive into real-world issues couples face when exploring the lifestyle, starting with time management. Swinging can be exciting, but without intention, it can easily crowd out family time, work responsibilities, or...
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The Truth About Swinging: It's Not What You Think!
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi of OpenLove101 as they discuss how they've broken traditional boundaries in non-monogamous relationships! In this candid episode, they share their experiences being "out and proud" about their lifestyle, how openness creates unexpected connections, and why their approach to relationships with play partners differs from typical swinger dynamics. 🎙️ Episode Highlights: • 00:00 - Intro to the Open Love 101 podcast with John and Jackie Melfi • 00:40 - John and Jackie welcome viewers to their new studio setup • 01:25 - Introduction to the episode's...
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How to Handle Fear & Jealousy in Swinging Relationships
The Openlove101 Show
Fear and jealousy are natural—but how you handle them can make or break your relationship. In this heartfelt video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com explore the emotional challenges that can arise in the swinging lifestyle and how honest communication and vulnerability can turn those moments into opportunities for deeper trust and connection. Drawing from personal stories, they show how facing insecurities together strengthens their bond and helps build a supportive, judgment-free relationship. If you're navigating non-monogamy or simply looking to grow closer to your partner, this...
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How to Unlock Non-Sexual Benefits in Open Relationships
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they explore the often overlooked non-sexual benefits of consensual non-monogamous relationships! After receiving feedback that a previous video focused too much on the sexual aspects, they dedicate this episode to discussing how open relationships have strengthened their bond beyond the bedroom. Discover how open communication, deep trust, and radical honesty have created a foundation for their 13-year relationship. John and Jackie share personal experiences about how their relationship model has allowed them to discuss topics that might be taboo in...
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Setting Boundaries in the Swinger Lifestyle
The Openlove101 Show
How do you set healthy boundaries in a swinger or open relationship? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share practical advice for navigating boundaries—especially for newcomers exploring the lifestyle. They discuss why observing before participating can be helpful, how boundaries should evolve over time, and the importance of not using them to control your partner. With a focus on open communication, mutual respect, and gradual exploration, this episode is a must-watch for anyone wanting to build trust and intimacy while keeping the experience fun and fulfilling. 💬...
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How to Balance Feelings and Fun in Non-monogamy
The Openlove101 Show
In this enlightening episode of the OpenLove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi address a thought-provoking question from a viewer about managing emotions as an external play partner in an open relationship. With their 20+ years of combined experience in open relationships, they offer valuable insights on maintaining boundaries while acknowledging natural human emotions. The hosts discuss the challenges of a play partner who has been in a relationship for 1.5 years with strict rules about emotional involvement, and explore whether it's truly possible to maintain a purely physical...
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How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional Connection
The Openlove101 Show
How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional Connection | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Can swinging lead to more emotional intimacy? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share how their open relationship has created a deeper sense of honesty, trust, and personal growth. Unlike traditional monogamous relationships where conversations about outside attraction are often avoided, John and Jackie embrace openness—creating a safe space for vulnerability, acceptance, and unconditional love. They discuss how this emotional freedom has transformed their connection and...
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10 Myths About Swinging Debunked Pt. 2
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind Colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog OpenLove101.com, as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie tackle the judgmental statements and questions they hear repeatedly. In this episode, they address myths like "that is disgusting," explore jealousy in open relationships, discuss how they handle conversations with their children, and much more. Whether you're curious about alternative...
info_outlineJoin hosts John and Jackie Melfi from openlove101.com as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy and the stigmas they face as a swinger couple. In this enlightening conversation, they address the funny and sometimes frustrating questions they receive from "vanilla" friends, from concerns about hitting on partners to fears of association.
The Melfis share their experiences of educating curious strangers, dealing with people who avoid them due to their lifestyle choices, and their mission to demystify consensual non-monogamy. They emphasize that non-monogamous couples are remarkably similar to monogamous ones - they just follow a different relationship model.
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00:00 - Introduction to Open Love 101 Podcast
00:47 - Common misconceptions from vanilla friends
01:48 - Breaking down stigmas about swinger relationships
03:04 - The reality of consensual non-monogamy vs. stereotypes
05:07 - Educating others about open relationship models
06:31 - Dealing with people who avoid association
07:43 - Understanding societal subgroups and identity
09:06 - Challenges of morality clauses in workplaces
10:25 - Standing up against backlash and judgment
Are you curious about alternative relationship models or looking to better understand the swinger lifestyle? The Melfis offer a judgment-free zone where all questions are welcome.
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