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EP 517: How to Know Your Next Step with Christina

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Release Date: 10/15/2025

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Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Struggling with money stress even when you’re being responsible? In this episode, I explore how your relationship with money is shaped by subconscious beliefs, nervous system regulation, and childhood conditioning—and how shifting these patterns can lead to more ease, alignment, and financial freedom.   Join Kate Northrup’s free Good with Money workshop here:

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EP 532: When Grief and Loss Become Your Norm—and You Don’t Know How to Live Again with Tiffany (Part 1) show art EP 532: When Grief and Loss Become Your Norm—and You Don’t Know How to Live Again with Tiffany (Part 1)

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

What happens when loss isn’t just one event—but becomes your entire reality? In this deeply emotional and raw coaching session, Christine works with Tiffany, who has experienced an overwhelming series of losses in a short period of time—losing her father, her longtime partner, her beloved pet, her home, and a major part of her physical body through surgery. When grief stacks like this, it doesn’t just feel heavy—it can begin to feel like your new normal. Tiffany shares how she feels untethered, disconnected, and unsure how to move forward. Even with a background in personal growth...

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CC: Get Good with Money: It’s Not What You Think with Kate Northrup show art CC: Get Good with Money: It’s Not What You Think with Kate Northrup

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Kate Northrup for a conversation about why more money doesn’t always create the sense of security we think it will. We talk about the deeper patterns that drive how we earn, spend, and relate to money—and how our nervous system plays a much bigger role than most people realize. Because if you’ve been doing all the “right” things but still don’t feel the way you expected to, you’re not alone. Kate shares how real change comes from creating internal steadiness first, so that growth actually feels sustainable—not stressful. She’s...

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EP 531: I’ve Done the Work—So Why Does My Nervous System Still Feel Rattled? with Kate show art EP 531: I’ve Done the Work—So Why Does My Nervous System Still Feel Rattled? with Kate

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

You’ve done the therapy. You’ve learned the tools. You’ve processed your past. So why does your nervous system still feel like it’s on edge? In this relatable and validating coaching session, Christine works with Kate, who has spent over a decade deeply committed to her healing journey. Despite major progress—healthy relationships, career growth, and emotional awareness—she still experiences intense nervous system reactions like anxiety, overwhelm, and shutdown. If you’ve ever felt like “I’ve done so much work… so why am I still triggered?”—this episode is for you....

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EP 530: When Life Feels Colorless and You're Not Sure What to Do with Amber show art EP 530: When Life Feels Colorless and You're Not Sure What to Do with Amber

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Have you ever done the work to leave situations that no longer serve you—only to find that life still feels strangely flat? In this deeply honest coaching session, Christine works with Amber, who has spent the past five years navigating major life changes including a divorce, a difficult relationship that activated childhood wounds, and the grief that followed. Even though she has maintained friendships, hobbies, and healthy routines, something still feels missing. The joy she once felt has faded, and life feels muted—almost like she’s going through the motions. Through their...

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Why You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns (And How to Finally Rewire Them) show art Why You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns (And How to Finally Rewire Them)

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Today’s episode is a little different from my usual format. I’m going to start by sharing why inner child work matters so much, why so many people struggle to change patterns even after years of insight and therapy, and what actually needs to shift at the subconscious level for real transformation to happen. And then after that, I’m going to play a recording from a live Q&A and alumni panel that I hosted about my program, Rewired. In this conversation you’ll hear people who have actually gone through the work talk about their experience — what changed for them, what surprised...

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EP 529: How to Re-Parent the Inner Child with Amanda show art EP 529: How to Re-Parent the Inner Child with Amanda

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Why do we keep repeating relationship patterns even when we know better? In this honest and insightful coaching session, Christine works with Amanda, who recognizes a long-standing pattern of choosing partners with narcissistic traits, emotional avoidance, or chaotic lifestyles. Despite strong intuition warning her early on, she finds herself staying in these relationships until they reach a painful breaking point. Christine helps Amanda uncover the deeper root of the pattern: the inner child seeking to recreate familiar dynamics from childhood in hopes of finally receiving the love,...

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EP 528: When the Answer Is “I Don’t Know” with Yasmine show art EP 528: When the Answer Is “I Don’t Know” with Yasmine

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

What if the most honest answer right now is… I don’t know? In this thoughtful and vulnerable coaching session, Christine works with Yasmine, who is navigating uncertainty in her relationship. She deeply values the emotional connection she shares with her partner, yet finds herself triggered by his financial instability and questioning whether this is a deal breaker. Christine helps Yasmine explore something deeper than “Should I stay or should I go?” Instead of rushing toward certainty, they unpack the childhood programming around independence, financial security, and self-reliance...

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Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

In this episode, I’m on the other side of the mic. I was interviewed by coach and podcast host Andy Hoffer about inner child work — not as a theory, but as the deep patterning that continues to shape our relationships, decisions, and self-trust as adults. We talk about why so many people can be successful, self-aware, and still feel stuck… how childhood survival strategies quietly show up under stress… and what it actually takes to untangle these patterns in a way that creates real change. If you’ve done a lot of personal growth work but notice the same reactions, habits, or...

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EP 527: Why Forgiveness Isn't Always the Anwser with Sylvie show art EP 527: Why Forgiveness Isn't Always the Anwser with Sylvie

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

What if forgiveness isn’t the next step? In this deeply honest coaching session, Christine works with Sylvie, who has been trying for years to reach forgiveness after a profound betrayal involving her ex-husband and a longtime friend. Despite therapy, spiritual work, and understanding that “forgiveness is for you,” she finds herself stuck. Christine helps Sylvie uncover something powerful: sometimes forgiveness isn’t blocked because we’re not spiritual enough — it’s blocked because we’ve skipped a step. When betrayal runs deep, especially when it touches childhood wounds of not...

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In this soulful and courageous session, Christine coaches Christina—a woman in her mid-40s navigating a season of heartbreak, transformation, and rediscovery. After years of deep personal work, Christina finds herself between two worlds: the part that longs to repair a relationship marked by betrayal and the part that knows it may be time to let go.

Through their conversation, Christine helps Christina uncover how childhood patterns of betrayal and instability shaped her adult relationships—and how her current challenge is an invitation to reclaim trust, safety, and self-worth from within. Together, they explore how to discern between intuition and fear, how to release self-judgment, and how compassion—not perfection—is the key to healing.

If you’ve ever questioned whether to stay or move on, struggled to trust yourself, or felt stuck between awareness and action, this episode will remind you that every moment of confusion can be a sacred initiation into deeper self-trust and freedom.

 

Consider/Ask Yourself

  • Do you know what’s next for you—or do you feel caught between awareness and action?
  • Are you replaying familiar childhood dynamics in your adult relationships?
  • Do you struggle to trust yourself or feel safe in your own choices?
  • Can you offer compassion to the parts of you that are still learning and healing?

 

Key Insights and A-HAs

  • Our deepest relationship struggles often mirror early attachment wounds.
  • Trust is both a decision and a feeling—it begins by creating safety within.
  • Compassion, not criticism, is what allows transformation to take root.
  • Healing is not linear; we revisit old patterns to integrate new awareness.
  • Sometimes our life “stalls” because our soul is prioritizing foundational healing.

 

How to Deepen the Work

  • Reflect on moments where you’ve outsourced safety or validation to others—then gently reclaim that power.
  • When confusion arises, pause and ask: “Is this my adult self speaking, or my inner child seeking reassurance?”
  • Write a letter to your younger self affirming that you can now provide the safety and love she needed.
  • Practice compassion daily—especially when the inner critic says you “should be further along.”
  • Trust that healing developmental wounds is not a distraction from your purpose; it is the path to your purpose.

 

Upcoming Program

Emergence: A Live Coaching Container with Christine
Launching this November, Emergence is a transformative group experience designed for women who have “done the work” but still feel stuck in one key area of life. This live coaching journey helps you move from awareness to embodied change—on the subconscious and nervous system levels.

  • Start Date: November 2025
  • Format: Live coaching (not pre-recorded)
  • Learn More: christinehassler.com

 

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