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637 | Trust That Failure Is Your Friend

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

Release Date: 12/04/2023

672 | Resiliency Is Never Fun In The Moment show art 672 | Resiliency Is Never Fun In The Moment

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, we talk about resiliency and how it is never a fun lesson to learn in the moment.  “Resilience is the process and outcome of successfully adapting to difficult or challenging life experiences, especially through mental, emotional, and behavioral flexibility and adjustment to external and internal demands.”  In this episode, we discuss:  1) Resiliency is never fun in the moment and you don’t realize what you are building until later, until you come across another situation, maybe a similar one and you recognize that you are acting or responding...

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671 | There’s So Much More To My Story with Kristof Morrow show art 671 | There’s So Much More To My Story with Kristof Morrow

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, we are speaking with Author Kristof Morrow. Kristof is a Navy veteran, author, and award-winning journalist from Texas. Surviving a hellish upbringing of addiction and abuse, he joined the military as a corpsman immediately after high school. After serving for a year, he manifested Tourette's and the severity of his condition incurs great injury to himself, even now. Kristof made several attempts to attend a university and even won the highest awards at two different schools for their annual creative writing contests, but ultimately decided to continue self-teaching. Then, in...

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670 | What Would Your Future Self Say? show art 670 | What Would Your Future Self Say?

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, we talk about what your future self would say. Let’s play a fun game, and look at one year from today, February 2025, and what would your future self say to you? How would you look back with pride for how you showed up for yourself, what you said yes and no to, the boundaries you put into place, how you honoured your energy and joy, and how you showed up for yourself?  In this episode, we discuss:  1) The idea for this episode came from the sharing of recent episodes, if you don’t take the time to enjoy the steps, actions, and mundane steps in between you will...

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669 | Be Willing To Choose Your Future Self show art 669 | Be Willing To Choose Your Future Self

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, we talk about making choices from the energy of your future self and where you are going and not where you have been.  I am sharing an experience that I witnessed firsthand with clients and I was so damn proud of them and wanted to share it with you. In this episode, we discuss:  1) Action trumps fear and consistent action steps will be the building blocks to create the shift in you that is available. 2) Your future dream or vision requires you to show up for yourself, do the uncomfortable thing, choose growth, believe in yourself a little bit more, and know that...

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668 | Living With A Service-Based Mindset with Chance Burles show art 668 | Living With A Service-Based Mindset with Chance Burles

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, we are speaking with Content Creator, Chance Burles. Chance grew up all over southern Alberta Canada. Wanting to be in the military from a young age, he served in the Canadian Forces for 8 years including an 8-month tour in Afghanistan. Upon release from the military, he struggled with PTSD, depression, and anxiety. Over a decade later he is a veteran advocate, Podcaster, Jiujitsu enthusiast, a husband to an amazing woman, and father of two awesome boys. In this episode, we discuss: 1) After Chance got out of the military, he struggled with PTSD, MDD, and chronic pain while...

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667 | The Art & Skill of Coaching - Coach Series with Jess DeMarchis show art 667 | The Art & Skill of Coaching - Coach Series with Jess DeMarchis

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, I am resharing an interview with Jess DeMarchis on the Art and Skill of Coaching Podcast.  We dove into the conversation of why NLP, and why the coaching industry requires more standardization, especially when dealing with people’s traumatic stories and experiences.  Jess went deep into my story that led me to NLP, why I felt called to it, and why I knew building a certification program was my next step even when it didn’t make logical sense. In this episode, we discuss:  1) That you can do ‘the work’, but if you’re lacking results, you might not be...

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666 | Put Your Freakin Blinders On show art 666 | Put Your Freakin Blinders On

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, I want to talk about blinders and how a lot in your life can change when you put your freaking blinders on.  Comparison is a very slippery slope, it will take you off your game, and block you from using your gifts. There are people who will expand us and allow us to grow and other people that will trigger us and block us from moving.  In this episode, we discuss:  1) I continue to have conversations with clients and people who are constantly stuck in a spiral of comparison. 2) Shifting comparison starts with practicing gratitude for what you already have,...

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665 | GutPersonal - For the Health and Wealth of Women with Bridgitte Mallinson show art 665 | GutPersonal - For the Health and Wealth of Women with Bridgitte Mallinson

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, we are speaking with CEO & founder, and business coach, Bridgitte Mallinson. Bridgitte is a functional medicine dietitian, business mentor & the founder and CEO of GutPersonal, a supplement company that empowers everyone to eliminate gut issues FOR GOOD through a personalized approach. After healing a lifelong struggle with her gut, Bridgitte has spent a decade studying functional medicine and nutrition as a registered functional dietitian. She became wildly interested in building and scaling her businesses in the pandemic and succeeded in building not one- but TWO...

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664 | It Takes More Than Writing Your Gratitudes show art 664 | It Takes More Than Writing Your Gratitudes

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, I want to share a quick continuation of what changed in January of 2024 and how I decided to stop writing my gratitude and feel it.  Sounds woo-woo doesn’t it, yet it has been a huge shift for me and I knew I was being called to share it with you.  In this episode, we discuss:  1) Focusing on your gratitude is more than checking a box, doing the thing, and “saying you are committed to your personal growth.”  If you are only concerned with checking a box, then you are in the process of doing more and not experiencing it. 2) A tool we learn in NLP is...

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663 | What Changed In January 2024 – Part 2 show art 663 | What Changed In January 2024 – Part 2

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, I want to share part 2 of a personal story that has been tough to share and how I almost threw in the towel on my business on December 31st, 2023.  In this episode, we discuss:  1) 2023 brought incredible challenges that were not easy to navigate and brought up a ton of doubts, lack of belief, and imposter syndrome. 2) I found myself putting the wall up/armor because it wasn’t safe to share yet, and feeling lost and lack of belief in myself.  3) Getting clear on the vision I wanted, I cleaned up the energy leaks, focused on how I wanted my life and business...

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In this episode, I am sharing an answer to a question I was asked as a recent podcast guest on my friend Fallon’s podcast, Prosperity By Design, and she asked me a question that had me reflecting.  She was a guest on my show back in 2021, a little over 400 episodes ago, crazy I know, and she said she was listening to a few recent episodes and wanted to share how much my confidence, and certainty in my voice have changed. She wanted to know what I had done differently.  I wanted to share my thoughts and answers.

In today’s episode, we discuss:
1)  I actually think I have failed way more than people would realize, more programs and ideas haven’t worked, collaborations that didn’t continue, projects I started and stopped, and that left me with a lot of doubt and frustration, yet failure can be your friend.  It is required, it will teach you more than you can imagine. “Failure is not the opposite of success, it is part of success.” ~ Unknown

2)  The work of NLP, aka OUTSPOKEN has definitely had an effect on my confidence, also because subconscious reprogramming has helped me to recognize my blind spots, to see those old stories pop up, to not make them mean anything about me, and to know that with every NO that I am closer to the yes’.  The no’s have taught me a lot these past three years; pivot is an understatement. It has been a non-stop pivot journey but instead of throwing tons of spaghetti on the wall, I go inward first, quiet the noise, listen to what lights me up, say yes to that more, and allow myself to fail and get back up again. 



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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”.  She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse that tore her family unit apart. Marsha has been published 7xs, most recently with her co-platform, Every Body Holds A Story, and she is on a mission to continue to help women and men to speak, share and publish their stories. 

Through her tools, OUTSPOKEN NLP certification, programs, coaching, and podcast, Marsha teaches the power of Radical Responsibility and Owning Your Choices in your own life.  She empowers people how to heal and own their stories, be conscious leaders and build platform businesses that create massive impact.