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775 | No More Layers: Finding Freedom from Perfectionism with Martine Cohen

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

Release Date: 10/31/2024

936 | Your Ceiling Is Your Biggest Thought show art 936 | Your Ceiling Is Your Biggest Thought

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode,  Marsha speaks to the distinction between operating under pressure and embracing a state of internal power.  Marsha introduces the concept of the "ceiling" and "floor" in relation to personal beliefs and aspirations. The ceiling represents the highest thoughts one allows themselves to entertain, while the floor symbolizes the deepest beliefs that anchor an individual. She explains that our lives are constructed within the space between these two points, shaped by subconscious programming rather than mere strategy. Marsha discusses the importance of recognizing and...

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935 | How Light and Sleep Impact Your Energy with Meredith Oke show art 935 | How Light and Sleep Impact Your Energy with Meredith Oke

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In this episode, I am speaking with Meredith Oke.  Meredith is the Co-Founder of the Quantum Biology Collective, a Podcast Host, and a Speaker, and she is passionate about bridging the gap between cutting-edge science and everyday well-being. After facing her own health challenges, Meredith discovered the emerging field of quantum biology—the science of how light, water, and circadian rhythms influence human health at the cellular level. Through her work, she helps people move beyond surface-level health fixes and instead address the “light side” of health—how our environment,...

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934 | If You Spoke Your Thoughts Out Loud show art 934 | If You Spoke Your Thoughts Out Loud

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In this episode, Marsha invites listeners into a deeply personal exploration of the power of thoughts and self-talk. She begins by posing a thought-provoking question: if one were to vocalize their inner thoughts, what would others hear? Would it be a stream of empowering affirmations or a verbal dump of self-doubt and criticism? Marsha emphasizes that our internal dialogue is a powerful broadcast that shapes our reality, and she encourages listeners to reflect on the nature of their own thoughts. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - The Power of Your Thoughts 00:02:00 - Facing Challenges 00:04:30 - The...

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933 | How to Shift from 'Away From' to 'Towards' Your Goals show art 933 | How to Shift from 'Away From' to 'Towards' Your Goals

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In this episode, Marsha discusses the difference between conscious and subconscious values and highlights the frustration that arises when one's conscious goals clash with subconscious beliefs. Throughout the episode, Marsha explains that while conscious values represent only 5% of our mindset, the remaining 95% is governed by the subconscious. She illustrates how this disconnect can manifest in daily life, where individuals may claim to value freedom or health but find themselves trapped in patterns that contradict those values. Marsha emphasizes that true alignment can only be achieved when...

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932 | Heart Wired CEO Recap: Holding the Vision, Trusting the Pause, and Leading from the Heart show art 932 | Heart Wired CEO Recap: Holding the Vision, Trusting the Pause, and Leading from the Heart

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Live from Langdon Hall, Marsha Vanwynsberghe and her Heartwired CEO co-founder, Meghan Weir, reflect on their first-ever Heartwired CEO live event — a transformational experience blending embodiment, leadership, and intuition. They share behind-the-scenes lessons, what it means to lead from the heart instead of the hustle, and how slowing down to integrate can create lasting impact. They also announce what’s next for the Heartwired CEO Mastermind 2026, a deep 12-month container for nervous system regulation, subconscious reprogramming, and authentic business growth. Highlights: [01:05] The...

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931 | Healing Doesn't Have to Be Hard show art 931 | Healing Doesn't Have to Be Hard

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In this episode, I challenge the notion that healing must be a heavy, burdensome experience. Instead, I advocate for a lighter approach, where we can learn to feel our emotions without being overwhelmed by them. Throughout the episode, I discuss the concept of nervous system regulation and how it plays a crucial role in our healing journey. I explain that healing does not necessitate a complete pause in our lives; rather, it involves training our minds to respond differently to triggers and challenges. By embracing emotions and learning to navigate them, we can create a sense of safety and...

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930 | Inspiration Isn’t Enough — Why I’m Here to Activate You show art 930 | Inspiration Isn’t Enough — Why I’m Here to Activate You

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In this episode, Marsha dives into the distinction between inspiration and activation, sharing her personal insights and experiences that have shaped her understanding of these concepts. She begins by expressing her mixed feelings about being labelled "inspiring," revealing that while she appreciates the sentiment, it often feels superficial unless it leads to tangible change in others' lives. She explains how activation reaches beyond the conscious mind, tapping into one's identity and beliefs, ultimately leading to a shift in perspective and behaviour. Marsha passionately advocates for the...

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929 | Improving Brain Health with BrainTap with Dr. Patrick Porter show art 929 | Improving Brain Health with BrainTap with Dr. Patrick Porter

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In this episode, I am speaking with Neuroscience Expert | Inventor of BrainTap® | Brain Fitness Pioneer, Dr​​ Patrick K. Porter. Dr. Porter has spent his life asking a radical question: What if we could train the brain like a muscle and transform lives without pills, struggle, or guesswork? Introduced to the power of mind training by his father at an early age, Dr. Porter’s lifelong passion has been exploring how visualization, brainwave science, and neuroplasticity can unlock human potential. As a pioneer in brainwave entertainment since the 1980s, Dr. Porter saw possibilities where...

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928 | How NLP Helps You to Embody Resilience As An Entrepreneur show art 928 | How NLP Helps You to Embody Resilience As An Entrepreneur

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In this episode, Marsha reframes the narrative around resilience, challenging the notion that it is merely a badge of honour or a sign of strength. Instead, she posits that true resilience is about maintaining emotional regulation and resourcefulness in the face of life's inevitable challenges. Throughout the episode, Marsha shares her insights on how to shift perspectives, using a recent example of a client who expressed self-doubt. By flipping the narrative to highlight the client's belief in herself, Marsha illustrates the power of reframing one's story. She emphasizes that resilience is...

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927 | Learning to Recharge and Reprogram Your Mind show art 927 | Learning to Recharge and Reprogram Your Mind

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In this episode, I am thrilled to share my reflections following the Outspoken Master Practitioner immersion, a transformative six-day experience where we practiced and experienced the tools of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). This was my first time leading such an intensive program, and while it came with its challenges, I emerged with invaluable insights about myself and my coaching practice. I also touch on the subconscious mind's inclination to cling to familiar patterns, even if they lead to exhaustion. I highlight the significance of pausing and integrating our experiences rather than...

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In this episode, we speak with Martine Cohen, the published author and former attorney who recently launched her book No More Layers. Martine grew up in Montreal and attended McGill University, earning degrees in civil law and common law. She has been an attorney for over 25 years and loves everything strategy. She spent the first few years of her career in litigation before entering the corporate world, advising and consulting for growth companies.

Back in 2016, Martine’s world came crashing down after a car accident that left her with a severe concussion. It was a pivotal turning point in her life. That catapulted her onto an extraordinary journey of profound awareness, self-discovery, and freedom. In the process, she gained a deep and unique understanding of the intricacies of the brain, its fears, and protective layers, which ultimately led her to successfully heal herself energetically – from the inside out.

As the Founder of No More Layers, Martine draws on her strategic acumen and transformative approach to guide her clients to become the leaders of their own lives and experience success from the inside out. She works privately with individuals, entrepreneurs, and professionals as an executive leadership consultant, life strategies coach, and mentor.

She is also an inspirational speaker on conscious communication, mindset shifts, and life strategies. Martine holds a teaching diploma and a life coach certification and has trained in various healing and energy modalities.

When she is not writing or speaking, Martine spends time with loved ones, is in nature, volunteers, practices yoga, meditates, and enjoys cappuccinos from around the world. 

HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:23 - Overview of "No More Layers"
00:05:23 - The Concept of Layers
00:06:25 - Personal Journey with Perfectionism
00:08:02 - The Importance of Acknowledging Layers
00:09:46 - The Impact of Childhood Messages
00:11:25 - Martine's Legal Career and Perfectionism
00:12:51 - The Turning Point: A Life-Altering Accident
00:15:12 - Healing and Self-Discovery
00:19:46 - The Gift of a Dysfunctional Brain
00:20:07 - The Call to Share Her Journey
00:25:33 - Understanding Fear Loops
00:30:05 - The Writing Process of the Book
00:34:53 - The Power of Voice and Expression
00:40:16 - Interrupting Fear with Breath
00:41:40 - Curiosity as a Tool Against Fear


Connect with Martine
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nomorelayers/
Website: martine@nomorelayers.com


Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

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