815 | Moving Through Emotions with Powerful Questions
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
Release Date: 02/10/2025
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I am sharing five judgments, particularly in the context of building a business rooted in authenticity. As entrepreneurs, we are bound to face judgment when we put ourselves and our messages out into the world. I emphasize that while we cannot control how others perceive us, we can choose how we respond to their opinions. These are common judgments that many of my clients and I have encountered on our journeys, and I share reframes to help you see these judgments differently. The opinions, criticisms and judgments are a sign that your message is being heard, seen, and you’re...
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In this episode, I discuss a question: What if being delusional is your best strategy? I explore the idea that to be an entrepreneur, you often need to hold beliefs that may not align with current reality. This "delusional" mindset allows you to envision possibilities that others may not see, which is crucial when you're building a business, writing a book, or creating something new. Throughout the episode, I emphasize that not everyone is meant to understand your vision, and that's perfectly okay. I encourage listeners to gather evidence of their past successes and to shift their definitions...
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In this episode, I am speaking with Stephanie Crassweller. Stephanie is a Coach who helps women reclaim their health, hormones, and confidence through midlife and beyond. Stephanie is a leading expert in women’s hormones and metabolism, founder of VitalityOET, and host of the Top 1% ranked Metabolism and Menopause Podcast. With a Bachelor’s and Master’s in Kinesiology and over a decade of clinical and coaching experience, she’s helped thousands of women worldwide reclaim their energy, health, and vitality through perimenopause and beyond. A recognized speaker who’s shared...
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In this episode, I share thoughts on how our confidence can sometimes trigger the insecurities of those around us, leading them to shrink back instead of celebrating our growth. This dynamic is rooted in our individual beliefs and past experiences, which shape how we perceive the world. If our confidence makes someone else shrink, they were never truly cheering for us in the first place. Bless and release and thank them for the role they have played in your life. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - The Fear of Judgment 00:01:05 - Personal Story: The Book Incident 00:03:35 - Embracing Imperfection 00:05:14...
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In this episode, I speak into the often-overlooked connection between subconscious writing blocks and the process of writing a book. I open up about my own vulnerabilities and the misconceptions that many aspiring writers face when they struggle to put pen to paper. I start by addressing a common sentiment among writers: the confusion about how subconscious rewiring relates to the writing process. Many people have invested in strategy programs, only to find themselves stuck and questioning their abilities. I explain that our subconscious mind is a powerful force, controlling 95% of our...
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In this episode, we are speaking with Entrepreneur, Investor, Author, and Public Speaker, Jeremy Delk. Jeremy’s story is all about taking ownership of his failures, his wild successes, and every lesson in between. From jumping into entrepreneurship as a teenager to walking away from a half-billion-dollar exit, Jeremy has never shied away from bold decisions. He embodies the idea of creating your own path, embracing failure, and taking unbound action to live life on your terms. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction and Early Entrepreneurial Pursuits 00:02:30 - Lessons from Early Failures...
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In this episode, I am sharing the process of embracing big visions and the fears that often accompany them. I start by sharing a personal anecdote from 2016 when I first received the idea to write my solo book. The initial excitement was quickly overshadowed by fear and skepticism from those around me, which led me to caution against sharing my ideas too freely. I reflect on my experience with launching my NLP coaching certification, Outspoken, where I had to build everything from scratch without any proof of concept. A mentor pointed out the difference between that experience and my current...
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In this episode, I address a common question: how do we shift our thinking? I emphasize that while the concept may be simple, the execution is often challenging. I share my personal experience of being in a crisis and how it forced me to reevaluate my choices and control over my life. I encourage listeners to consider how they want to show up in their lives, especially as we approach the end of the year. I discuss the importance of setting realistic goals and focusing on what we want rather than what we don’t want. Many people struggle to articulate their desires, often fixating on their...
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In this episode, I am speaking with Best-Selling Author, Inspirational Speaker, Mental Health Advocate, Valerie J. Walsh. Valerie is a best-selling author, inspirational speaker, and transformational leader known for turning pain into purpose. After losing her mother to suicide, surviving cancer twice, and overcoming addiction, Valerie made the bold decision not just to heal—but to serve. Her story is one of deep resilience, raw honesty, and a powerful commitment to helping others rise from their own darkest moments. Through her books Shattered to the Core and COREAGEOUS, she delivers...
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In this episode, I want to reflect on the core message that has been a guiding principle throughout my life and this podcast: you always have a choice. No matter your age or stage in life, you possess the power to make choices that shape your reality. I understand that it can often feel like circumstances are beyond our control, but I assure you that we can always choose how we respond to those circumstances. At 55 years old and navigating the complexities of the sandwich generation, caring for aging parents while managing a business that feels ever-evolving, I find myself constantly reminded...
info_outlineIn this episode, I am sharing a coaching experience that will resonate with many of you, especially those grappling with procrastination and self-doubt. While this episode isn't solely about procrastination, it offers valuable questions and insights that can help shift your mindset and energy away from anything that isn't serving you.
Here are the four key questions to help you shift your mindset:
1. Is it possible to do and good to have done?
2. What decision would my future self make?
3. How can I do one thing that moves me toward where I'm going today?
4. How can I micro and macro stack my wins?
HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:00 - Introduction and Overview of Procrastination
00:01:15 - Question 1: Is It Possible to Do and Good to Have Done?
00:03:01 - Question 2: What Decision Would My Future Self Make?
00:04:37 - Question 3: What One Thing Can I Do Today?
00:06:03 - Building and Stacking Habits
00:07:09 - Macro and Micro Wins
00:08:13 - Understanding and Processing Emotions
00:09:36 - Setting Weekly Intentions
00:10:50 - Conclusion and Encouragement
Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
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