914 | The Journey to Coming Home with Carly Ottaway
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
Release Date: 10/01/2025
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I challenge the notion that healing must be a heavy, burdensome experience. Instead, I advocate for a lighter approach, where we can learn to feel our emotions without being overwhelmed by them. Throughout the episode, I discuss the concept of nervous system regulation and how it plays a crucial role in our healing journey. I explain that healing does not necessitate a complete pause in our lives; rather, it involves training our minds to respond differently to triggers and challenges. By embracing emotions and learning to navigate them, we can create a sense of safety and...
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In this episode, Marsha dives into the distinction between inspiration and activation, sharing her personal insights and experiences that have shaped her understanding of these concepts. She begins by expressing her mixed feelings about being labelled "inspiring," revealing that while she appreciates the sentiment, it often feels superficial unless it leads to tangible change in others' lives. She explains how activation reaches beyond the conscious mind, tapping into one's identity and beliefs, ultimately leading to a shift in perspective and behaviour. Marsha passionately advocates for the...
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In this episode, I am speaking with Neuroscience Expert | Inventor of BrainTap® | Brain Fitness Pioneer, Dr Patrick K. Porter. Dr. Porter has spent his life asking a radical question: What if we could train the brain like a muscle and transform lives without pills, struggle, or guesswork? Introduced to the power of mind training by his father at an early age, Dr. Porter’s lifelong passion has been exploring how visualization, brainwave science, and neuroplasticity can unlock human potential. As a pioneer in brainwave entertainment since the 1980s, Dr. Porter saw possibilities where...
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In this episode, Marsha reframes the narrative around resilience, challenging the notion that it is merely a badge of honour or a sign of strength. Instead, she posits that true resilience is about maintaining emotional regulation and resourcefulness in the face of life's inevitable challenges. Throughout the episode, Marsha shares her insights on how to shift perspectives, using a recent example of a client who expressed self-doubt. By flipping the narrative to highlight the client's belief in herself, Marsha illustrates the power of reframing one's story. She emphasizes that resilience is...
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In this episode, I am thrilled to share my reflections following the Outspoken Master Practitioner immersion, a transformative six-day experience where we practiced and experienced the tools of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). This was my first time leading such an intensive program, and while it came with its challenges, I emerged with invaluable insights about myself and my coaching practice. I also touch on the subconscious mind's inclination to cling to familiar patterns, even if they lead to exhaustion. I highlight the significance of pausing and integrating our experiences rather than...
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In this episode, Speaker | Reinvention Strategist | 4x Bestselling Author, Julie Condliffe. In her latest book, Unbreakable: A Roadmap for Turning Adversity into Advantage, is both a memoir and a manifesto — a raw, insightful guide for anyone who’s lost a title, a platform, or a sense of self, and is ready to rebuild with purpose. Julie doesn’t offer polished platitudes; she speaks from lived experience, having rebuilt her life after a systemic and unjust attempt to silence her voice. Now, Julie supports others in their reinvention journeys — from senior professionals navigating...
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In this episode, Marsha emphasizes the necessity of inner safety, explaining that our bodies are wired to seek safety and familiarity, often leading to self-sabotage when faced with new challenges. She encourages listeners to recognize their body's responses to goal setting and to cultivate a sense of safety that allows for expansion and growth. Marsha introduces practical strategies such as NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), and subconscious reprogramming techniques to help listeners address limiting beliefs and create a supportive environment for their...
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In this episode, Marsha reflects on her personal health journey, particularly as she marks the five-year anniversary of her back surgery. She begins by discussing the concept that our bodies inherently know and remember our experiences, referencing the book "The Body Keeps the Score." Marsha reflects on the idea that manifesting is not just about dreaming big but also about speaking life into one's health and well-being. She encourages listeners to recognize that their words, thoughts, and actions are interconnected and that they have the power to shape their health outcomes. By sharing her...
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In this episode, we speak with Keynote Speaker | Former Fighter Pilot | Leadership Coach | Founder of Upside Down Moments™, Michelle Curran. Michelle is a former U.S. Air Force fighter pilot, renowned for being the only female solo pilot with the elite Thunderbirds demonstration team from 2019 to 2021. She flew more than 150 airshows and served as a symbol of excellence, leadership, and grit. After completing her military service, Michelle founded Upside Down Moments™, where she delivers impactful keynotes that encourage audiences to push past fear and live boldly. As a speaker, author,...
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In this episode, Marsha invites listeners to explore the transformative power of stepping into new "rooms"—whether they be physical events, virtual spaces, or intimate conversations. As she prepares for her upcoming event, The Heartwired CEO, at the picturesque Langdon Hall in Ontario, Marsha reflects on the significance of nervous system regulation and subconscious reprogramming in personal and professional growth. Marsha emphasizes that the journey of self-expansion often requires stepping outside of one's comfort zone, a concept that many coaches advocate. However, she acknowledges the...
info_outlineIn this episode, I am speaking with Carly Ottaway. Carly is the author of COMING HOME, creator of The Mirror Effect, and founder of the award-winning boutique marketing agency Web of Words. She’s currently celebrating 10 years in business and the release of her debut book.
Through her work and writing, Carly leads by going first; she shows up in vulnerability and truth to give others permission to do the same. Carly believes that when we share our stories and step into our favourite versions of self, we unlock a ripple effect of courage, connection, and possibility that can’t be stopped.
After losing her home in a fire in the midst of the pandemic, while leading a multi-six-figure business and raising two young kids, Carly learned firsthand what it takes to do the hard inner work and turn the breakdown into the becoming. Now, she helps others see the truth of who they really are and believe in what’s possible when they come home to themselves.
Connect with Carly:
Website: https://www.carlyottaway.com/
Coming Home Website: https://www.carlyottaway.com/book
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itscarlyottaway
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlyottaway/
Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
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