#31 - Solocast: SMART Goals, Time Matters Today Recap
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Release Date: 08/31/2022
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Stop saying yes to things you really don’t want to do, to make time for the ones that really matter. AKA: How to say “No!” ARRIVAL FALLACY: Is this all there is? When will the tasks/to do list ever end? They won’t. ABSOLUTELY YES or NO! Figure out your priorities based on your values…your calendar should directly reflect this. What does it look like to be a good enough wife, mom, doctor, friend? How can we stop saying yes to what we think we SHOULD do based on others expectations and choose to prioritize what’s truly the most imp to us. Have to really look downstream to figure out...
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@consciouspediatrician Show Notes: Dr. Yajnik shares authentic awareness about parenting and mindset including: Real life struggles of working moms, The need for support that we don't ask for. Recognizing mom guilt and how to overcome that Recognizing that it is hard, and we don't have to pretend that it's not. "Your childs emotional health begins with you." We don’t realize how important our own mental health is when it comes to raising children, and why that's so important for pediatricians to help parents understand. ...
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by Dr. Martha Kenney, creator of Time Matters Today We are half-way through 2022, and, I have a quick question for you. Have you achieved your New Year’s resolutions? My guess is that most of you would say "no," because research shows that 80% of people abandon their New Year’s resolutions by the beginning of February. Why? Because although New Year’s resolutions may be the closest that most people will get to planning their goals in life, resolutions are more an expression of desires rather than "true goals." Vaguely stated goals that lack relevance to your values and are...
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Tune in with Dr. Martha Kenney who knows how much your time matters. Time management isn’t just about productivity, not is it about doing MORE things. It's about freeing up your time and energy to do the RIGHT things. And “the right things” are those things that line up with your personal values. Martha references Alice in Wonderland: If you don’t know where you’re going then why should it matter which path you take? Any one will do if you don’t have a true “destination” in mind. BIO: Dr. Martha Kenney is a board certified pediatrician and pediatric anesthesiologist, wife and...
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Dinner with adolescents: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JzmReRnWJ04_PANtpxe-cS6DibF28a4cG5l1INHdbgQ/edit#heading=h.96phn4gm8y38 Reducing conflict at the table: https://thefamilydinnerproject.org/food-for-thought/how-to-beat-tension-and-conflict-from-your-family-dinner/ The Family Dinner Project: thefamilydinnerproject.org
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@thefamilydinnerproject (Harper Collins, 2015) (Familius, 2019). WHY THE FAMILY DINNER PROJECT? Research shows most think eating family dinner is a good idea, but fewer than 1/2 of American families do so. 70% of meals are eaten outside of the home and 20% in the car! The Family Dinner Project is all about the not perfect but “good enough” meal to inspire families to get back to the diner table. Bottom line: studies show regular family dinners reduce high-risk teenage behaviors such as: substance abuse, smoking, eating disorders, behavioral...
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Epic Failures Revealed! 7 Things to Keep You Going Strong on a Path to Becoming a Doctor Bio/Show Notes: Barbara Hamilton, MD is an interventional radiologist, leader, and the author of Save Lives, Enjoy Your Own: Finding Your Place in Medicine. She helps aspiring & early career doctors succeed in the surgically-oriented and traditionally male-dominated fields by pulling back the curtain on what it looks like to be a woman and parent in medicine. Ultimately, she strives to be an example of what is possible for those who would follow in her footsteps.Through her writing, speaking,...
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by Dr. Martha Kenney, creator of Time Matters Today
We are half-way through 2022, and, I have a quick question for you. Have you achieved your New Year’s resolutions? My guess is that most of you would say "no," because research shows that 80% of people abandon their New Year’s resolutions by the beginning of February. Why? Because although New Year’s resolutions may be the closest that most people will get to planning their goals in life, resolutions are more an expression of desires rather than "true goals."
Vaguely stated goals that lack relevance to your values and are not informed by the habits that you need to achieve them are not goals but wishful thinking.
Therefore, it is not surprising that 80% of people abandon their resolutions by February.
So, how can you make realistic and attainable goals in life? I encourage you to use the SMART goals template. SMART is an acronym that stands for specific, measurable, achievable, relevant and time bound. Setting SMART goals allows you to know exactly where you want to go, how quickly you want to get there, and how many steps it will take to get there.” - Dr. Martha Kenney, Time Matters Today
Click here https://www.timematterstoday.com/blog/achievingyourgoalsinlife for Dr. Kenney’s FREE downloadable template that provides specific and detailed questions for each SMART component and a goal planner that can help you clearly define your goals in life.
Understanding SMART Goals
S – Specific
A goal that is specific answers the 5-Ws: “who, what, where, when, and why.”
M – Measurable
You need criteria to determine when you have successfully achieved your SMART goal. You also should have milestones or benchmarks that can track your progress.
For instance, “I want to exercise for 30 minutes daily at least 5 times per week,” is measurable compared to “I want to exercise more.”
A – Achievable and [Audacious]
Audacious is not part of the SMART acronym but I believe it should be. Often, we think that if a goal is achievable, it shouldn’t be bold. However, a goal can be both bold and achievable. I believe that part of the purpose of making goals is to push yourself to step outside of your comfort zone and attain something that you don’t already have.
So, you don’t have to play it safe. Be bold. However, if you don’t have the resources or skills to achieve your goal, identify how you can acquire those skills and resources. Or are there mentors or colleagues or friends who can fill in the gap and provide what you are lacking in skills?
R – Relevant
Your goal should be important to you. Each goal should really be a component of the bigger picture of who you want to be and where you want to go either personally or professionally. And, if it is a professional goal, it should align with the bigger mission of your organization.
T – Time-bound
Time is finite. Therefore, we don’t have endless amount of time to achieve our goals. Therefore, your goal should have an associated deadline or timeframe that motivates you to action.
Now that you understand the SMART goals template, let me share with you some principles that can help you maximize the usefulness of SMART goals.
Tune in as we review 7 Steps to put the SMART goals template to use and achieve your goals in life