248: A Guidebook for Thriving Marriages & Sustainable Disability Parenting | Dr. Todd & Kristin Evans, Authors, Speakers, & Disability Parents
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
Release Date: 09/12/2024
266: Passion vs. Purpose: Driving Change for Individuals with Disabilities
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
Supporting the special needs community is crucial for creating an inclusive and welcoming world for individuals with disabilities. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I talk about the importance of intentional planning to support the special needs community and ease the anxiety that often weighs on individuals with disabilities and their caregivers. I share my experiences and how thoughtful accommodations can make all the difference as a parent. Passion is important, but real change comes from purposeful actions and planning. It’s about creating a world where everyone feels...
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265: The Ultimate Checklist for Updating Your Estate Plan
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
In the ever-evolving landscape of personal and financial circumstances, regularly updating your estate plan cannot be overstated. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I talk about why it’s so important to keep your estate plan up to date. Life happens—families change, finances shift, and you might buy a new property or start a business in another state. That’s why I recommend reviewing your plan every year and doing a deeper dive every three years, or whenever a big life event happens. From my own experience, I’ve seen how essential it is to adapt your plan so it truly reflects...
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264: Avoid the Scarcity Trap: How the Disability Community Can Thrive Together
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
Individuals with disabilities often encounter significant hurdles in accessing quality healthcare due to limited accessibility options and a scarcity of available services. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I address the challenges individuals with disabilities face in accessing quality healthcare, including limited services and barriers like Medicaid restrictions. I advocate for policy changes to enhance resources and emphasize the importance of building community to share experiences and solutions. By shifting from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance, focusing on strengths, and...
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263: Building Letters of Intent: Your Guide To Safeguarding The Future of Your Children
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
The process of planning for the future of disabled children is often overwhelming. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I share how planning for the future of disabled children is a daunting yet essential task for their well-being and security. I talk about setting big goals for their future, including where they will live and work, who will support them, and the importance of creating a letter of intent to document their needs, routines, and preferences. I also highlight choosing trusted guardians and trustees who understand disabilities and complex systems like benefits and...
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262: Patient vs. Profit: The Shooting That Exposed a Broken Healthcare System
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
The healthcare system is a battleground where profits often triumph over patient needs. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I take a closer look at our profit-driven healthcare system after the assassination of UnitedHealthcare CEO Brian Thompson. Financial goals often outweigh patient care, with rising denials for essential treatments and CEO compensation tied to profits—creating a troubling conflict of interest. As a mom who fought tirelessly for my daughter’s Medicaid support, I know firsthand how broken this system is for families just trying to get the care they need. It...
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261: Ending the Year Strong: Securing a Well-Managed Financial Future
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
As the calendar year draws to a close, end-of-year planning becomes essential for individuals seeking to secure their personal and financial futures. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I dive into the importance of taking control of your finances with a proactive mindset. Instead of getting stuck on setbacks, I encourage you to focus on celebrating your wins and using them as a foundation to move forward. I share practical tips on keeping your asset lists and important documents, like letters of intent, up to date—not just to avoid legal issues but to simplify life for you and your...
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260: The Impact of Authentic Representation of Disabilities in Hollywood | Jay Silverman, Filmmaker, Director, & Producer
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
Filmmaking celebrates human connection and inclusiveness, with on-set moments of support and camaraderie often shining through on screen. Hollywood’s push to include actors with disabilities is opening doors to fresh stories and perspectives, making the industry more inclusive and inspiring. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines speaks with filmmaker Jay Silverman about his latest film, . Inspired by his journey as a parent to a child with disabilities, the poignant story follows a young mute child in a fishing village. Through its use of the camera as a metaphor for...
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259: Healing After Heartbreak: A Guide to Coping with Grief During the Holidays
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
Grief is an unpredictable force that reshapes life, much like crashing waves. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I open up about my journey through grief and coping with the profound loss of my daughter, Elizabeth. There is no "right" way to grieve—it’s a deeply personal journey, and being gentle with yourself is important as you work through the pain. During the holidays, grief can feel especially heavy. Finding ways to incorporate your loved one’s presence into your celebrations can bring a sense of connection and help you find moments of joy and peace amidst the sorrow. By...
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258: A Guide to Trustee Selection & Protectors
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
Special needs trusts are an essential tool for families who want to ensure the long-term financial security of their loved ones with disabilities. However, I know firsthand how overwhelming and confusing navigating the world of trusts can be. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I break down the essentials of special needs trusts in an accessible way. I share practical tips for choosing the right trustee and explain their responsibilities. Trustee’s are important—not just in managing the trust, but in making sure the beneficiary continues to receive the care and services they need. My...
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257: Why Caregiving Moms Deserve Community & Care | Jessica Patay, Author, Founder, & Executive Director at We Are Brave Together
Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast
Being a caregiver can be tough and sometimes lonely. For caregiving moms, having a sense of community and connection is essential. Whether it's sharing tips on managing hectic schedules or simply lending an empathetic ear, having a supportive network of fellow moms can make all the difference in navigating the challenges of motherhood. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines sits down with Jessica Patay, founder of We Are Brave Together. Inspired by her journey as a special needs mom, Jessica established the nonprofit in 2017 to create a safe, judgment-free space where...
info_outlineParenting is a tough job and when you have a child with special needs, the challenges can be even more complex. From advocating for your child in school to finding the right therapy options, there are so many aspects of parenting a child with special needs that require extra care and attention. Amidst these pressures, marriages can face significant strain.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines, Todd Evans PhD, MA, and Kristin Evans MA, MS, LMSW explore the challenges of raising a child with special needs. Todd and Kristin, authors of “How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities,” share insights on balancing their dreams, their child's needs, and their marriage. They highlight the importance of parents prioritizing mental health and self-care to better support their children. Clear communication, emotional connection, and time management remain essential for effective care. Parents of children with special needs are encouraged to take time for themselves—self-care is crucial for caring for others.
In this episode, you will hear:
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Why effective communication is important for parents of children with special needs
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How parents of children with special needs can prioritize their own well-being
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Healthy ways to recognize the address challenges in caregiving marriages
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Why it is crucial to have a supportive partner during challenging times
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How parents can effectively advocate for their child with special needs in school and medical settings
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