Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast

Welcome to Parenting Impossible, the podcast dedicated to empowering and supporting the disability community. Hosted by Annette Hines, this podcast was born out of a mission to combat the scattered and sometimes inaccurate information that parents and caregivers of disabled adult children often face.

In each episode, we delve into the pressing questions and concerns that weigh on the minds of the entire special needs community including those with autism, intellectual disabilities, physical disabilities, mental health issues and more. From navigating the complexities of special needs trusts and planning for the future to addressing the fundamental question of "How will my child be okay when I cannot do this anymore?"—we leave no stone unturned.

Attorney Annette Hines is a special needs mom, author of the best-selling book Butterflies and Second Chances, national expert speaker, writer and contributor to publications, and founder of the Special Needs Law Group based In Massachusetts. She shares personal insights and her guests (parents, siblings, and experts and sometimes parents who are experts!) discuss many issues facing the special needs community including raising children with different abilities, transitioning into adulthood, sibling challenges and how to effectively navigate the complex systems in our world. We're not just here to talk; we're here to make a difference.

In a society where the disabled and their caregivers are often devalued, Parenting Impossible stands as a beacon of advocacy and support dedicated to giving compassionate advice for all stages of life. Join us as we tackle the challenges, break down barriers, and strive to create a more informed and compassionate world for the disability community. Because when it comes to parenting in the face of impossibility, you're not alone—we're here with you.

226: CrossFit for Our Community with Karen Hurley 04/18/2024

226: CrossFit for Our Community with Karen Hurley It can be difficult for families to find fitness classes oriented toward individuals with different abilities, whether neurodivergence or physical. However, an emerging fitness category is designed for those who need adaptive and inclusive therapy. On this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette sits down with guest Karen Hurley, a physical therapist and strength and condition specialist with more than 20 years of experience. Karen received a bachelor’s degree in educational studies from Brown University, where she was a varsity athlete and captain of the women’s gymnastics team. She then received a master's degree in physical therapy from Boston University. Karen has worked in various settings and spent the past eight years as a districtwide physical therapist for a local school district. Karen is the founder and president of A.I.M. Therapy located in Needham, Massachusetts, which offers adaptive inclusive movement therapy, including CrossFit and functional fitness sessions for kids, teens, and adults with autism, ADHD, processing challenges, and anxiety. Annette and Karen explore Karen’s background as a physical therapist, creating connections with students, and how that ultimately led to her establishing her business, A.I.M. Therapy. You’ll also hear what makes CrossFit an inclusive and adaptable activity, who she works with, and what Unified Sports is. Karen explains how the goals of her business have changed since founding it, what makes A.I.M. unique, and why CrossFit benefits neurodiverse athletes. Finally, she outlines how A.I.M. meets clients where they’re at, her encouragement for someone hesitant to attend these classes, and what you can do to get started with adaptive and inclusive therapy in your community. Adaptive and inclusive therapy can tremendously impact communities where it’s offered. Karen Hurley is excited to share the difference it can make for individuals with different abilities. In this episode, you will hear: Karen Hurley’s background working as a physical therapist with students, creating meaningful connections with them, and how that led to teaching CrossFit CrossFit as a scalable, inclusive, and adaptable activity Why Karen works primarily with individuals with disabilities and how it led her to open her own business An explanation of Unified Sports and the Special Olympics How the goals of Karen’s business have changed over time because of the importance of community A.I.M. (Adaptive Inclusive Movement) Therapy and what makes it unique from other adaptive and inclusive classes A typical day at A.I.M. Therapy What differentiates adaptive and inclusive CrossFit from traditional physical therapy CrossFit’s variability and how that benefits athletes with neurodiversity Relative high intensity scaled to meet you where you’re at, which is functional fitness The encouragement Karen gives to those who are hesitant to attend her classes Her advice for those who would like to start their own adaptive and inclusive therapy in their communities Resources from this Episode Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on . Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at Let them know we sent you. /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30863943

225: Highlighting the Year Ahead 01/18/2024

225: Highlighting the Year Ahead Navigating the complexities of the special needs community is fraught with challenges, and the current workforce crisis in the disability sector is a cliff we're all facing together. Annette has seen firsthand how the pandemic has eroded the support program landscape as a special needs mom, attorney, and author. It's time we discuss the dire statistics and what they mean for our loved ones. The scarcity of direct support professionals (DSPs) is at a critical point. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, we're pulling back the curtain on the harsh realities service providers are grappling with, from program cuts to the tough competition for attracting dedicated workers. Yet, amidst the stark outlook, there's a glimmer of hope on the horizon. Annette is excited to share the recent settlement poised to relieve SSI beneficiaries and the proactive steps the Social Security Administration is taking to rectify overpayment issues. But let's not lose sight of the impending expiry of federal funding that could spell a reduction in community-based services. It's a heartfelt plea for awareness and action—we must bolster the ranks of DSPs and ensure the support structures our community relies on don't crumble. Your involvement is critical, and by sharing your thoughts and spreading the word, you can help ignite the changes we so desperately need. Join me in this crucial conversation, and let's pave the way toward a more supportive future for those with special needs. In this episode, you will hear: The critical workforce crisis in the disability sector post-pandemic Some personal insights from Annette An examination of the direct support professional (DSP) shortage and service program cutbacks Recent settlements benefiting SSI beneficiaries and SSA's resolution of overpayment issues The implications of expiring federal funding from the American Rescue Plan on community-based services The need for legislative action to stabilize the DSP workforce and ensure sustainable disability support Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on . Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. *** Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at Let them know I sent you. Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563013

224: Embracing the New Year with Advocacy, Empowerment, and Support 01/10/2024

224: Embracing the New Year with Advocacy, Empowerment, and Support As the clock struck midnight, marking the start of a new year, Annette found herself immersed in a flood of memories and significant events. On this episode of Parenting Impossible, carrying the weight of sorrow from the loss of her beloved daughter Elizabeth but strengthened by ten years of affection and the development of the Special Needs Law Group, Annette extends an invitation to you to partake in a personal journey of transformation and the intricate process of decision-making that defines our lives. Annette shares a cherished story from her childhood, in which setting a butterfly free symbolized the infinite potential of wishes. This experience profoundly shaped her perception of influence and purpose in her life and career. Annette communicates her hope for the coming year—a desire for empowerment and the capability to navigate the often stormy seas of social support systems. Eager to improve this process, she is excited to announce the launch of new group coaching programs designed to offer a guiding light of support, consultation, and advice beyond the scope of traditional legal services. You will sense this podcast's renewed vigor, infused with the energy to spark change and foster connections through these shared coaching experiences. Annette welcomes everyone to join her as they confront the challenges and celebrate the victories in creating significant legacies for themselves and those they advocate for in the disability community. In this episode, you will hear: Reflections on a decade of personal milestones: the loss of Annette’s daughter Elizabeth, her marriage, and the growth of the Special Needs Law Group The importance of transformation and the power of choices in personal and professional life A heartfelt letter from one of Annette’s clients and the profound impact of the Special Needs Law Group on the lives of those in the disability community Annette’s New Year's wish for empowerment and enabling individuals to navigate social support systems and take control of their futures New group coaching programs offering support, consultation, and guidance to those seeking to create a secure and fulfilling plan for their lives Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on . Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: Sign up for the Special Needs Advocacy and Planning Masterclass AND Coaching Program: *** Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563018

223: Embracing a Sabbatical Year: Reflections on Change, Growth, and Finding True Joy 11/23/2023

223: Embracing a Sabbatical Year: Reflections on Change, Growth, and Finding True Joy Sometimes, it’s essential to step back and assess the path we're on - that's exactly what I did this year. After years of fighting the impacts of a global crisis on both my personal and professional life, I made the radical decision to take a sabbatical year. A year to disconnect from “extracurriculars” and focus on my business, my team, and myself. A year to reflect on what truly brings me joy, and rediscover the activities and people I truly missed. Join me as I recount the unanticipated benefits of this self-imposed sabbatical. Listen to how I navigated the process of refocusing my energy, honing my business, and fostering team cohesion. I'll share how this radical change led to the acquisition of new skills and realizations about my membership community. As I look back at the past year, I'll discuss my plans to gradually reintroduce aspects of my life, emphasizing only those that truly bring me joy. I'll also share my plans to revamp this podcast and my community outreach. This episode is a must-listen if you've ever considered a sabbatical or a reset in your life. In this episode, you will hear: Why I decided to take a sabbatical year to refocus on my business, team, and personal growth. The impacts of the global crisis on my personal and professional life led me to the decision of a sabbatical year. Exploring new hobbies and skills, such as baking bread and playing golf. How I decided to revamp my podcast and community outreach based on the insights I gained during my sabbatical. Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on . Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563023

Advocating for Universal Changing Tables: Changing Spaces Campaign 10/11/2023

Advocating for Universal Changing Tables: Changing Spaces Campaign Ever felt the pangs of frustration trying to navigate public spaces with a disability or care for someone who does? This frustration fueled the journey of an extraordinary parent advocating for change, Jayme Betts who serves as the . She shares an illuminating exploration of her mission to make public spaces more accessible for people with disabilities, inspired by her own experiences with her daughter, Sophia, who has Soto Syndrome. Jayme’s story is one of determination and resilience, as she used her personal struggle to fuel her advocacy for universally accessible changing tables. With the lack of adequate facilities, she was compelled to start a chapter of Changing Spaces in Massachusetts, a national organization dedicated to enhancing accessibility in public areas. She shares her experience with the transformative impact of using a universal changing table for the first time, adding a powerful, personalized perspective that only a parent facing these challenges could offer. Additionally, we delved into a potential solution that Jayme has championed – height-adjustable, secured changing tables with a significant support capacity. This innovation, which is set to be included in the International Building Code for 2024, could revolutionize the lives of individuals with disabilities. Jayme gives listeners a glimpse into her world of advocacy as she recounts her experience testifying before a joint committee, providing a firsthand understanding of the battles and triumphs on the road to making public spaces more accessible. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who seeks to understand more about the need for inclusivity and accessibility in our everyday spaces. Learn more about the Changing Spaces Campaign in Massachusetts: Website: Link Tree with Resources: Instagram: Facebook: Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563033

Housing for Adults with Disabilities: Shared Living Solutions 09/27/2023

Housing for Adults with Disabilities: Shared Living Solutions What's one of the biggest issues most special needs families worry about? Housing. This episode unlocks the complexities of the intricate world of housing for those with some form of intellectual or developmental disability or (IDD) with the help of special guest, , founder and CEO of . Tune in to discover how Partners4Housing is changing the lives of families in Washington state by empowering families to create housing solutions that meet the unique needs of their loved ones with IDD and create a real solution for the future. Hear about 's unique roommate matching pool and shared living development services, and also dive into the challenges and strategies of a family-driven housing model. The figure of the caregiver stands central to our discussion as we unpack the various aspects of caregiver supports available and the importance of making the right choice. Housing issues can often feel daunting, but we've got you covered with discussions on Medicaid waivers and housing vouchers, serving up practical solutions for families in need. To cap it all off, we take a deep look into shared living for families and how to navigate through the legalities of setting up a home for a loved one with special needs. From landlord-tenant law to caregiver agreements and household budgets, we've got it all covered. And don't miss out on learning about our Circle of Care on Mighty Networks - a refreshing platform for our disability community to connect, learn, and share experiences. This episode holds key insights for anyone looking to understand better the housing landscape for adults with disabilities, so sit back, relax and let's get the conversation started. Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563043

The Power of a Picture: Special Needs Portraiture 09/21/2023

Transition Planning for a Special Needs Student: A Mom and Son's Successful Journey 09/12/2023

Transition Planning for a Special Needs Student: A Mom and Son's Successful Journey Could you imagine being a mom and an Assistive Technology Specialist, honeycombing through multiple strategies to craft tools that best support your special needs child? Well, meet Cheryl Farley. A passionate mother and a specialist who's spent years perfecting this very craft. She's graced us with her story, detailing the educational journey of her son, Liam, and the unique challenges they faced in his smaller classroom setting. Listen in as she shares the creative routes they took to find job opportunities for Liam, and the delicate balance they needed to maintain - allowing him to tackle challenges head-on, yet knowing when to pause and reassess. Now, ever wondered how to navigate through disability resources and support confidently? Cheryl explains her journey working directly with Annette Hines through the and coaching program. She walks us through her experience in applying for SSI for Liam, and setting up a - a support system beyond the immediate family. Hear from Cheryl herself how the online application process can be tackled, and the importance of having a strong Circle of Care. This isn't just about learning the ropes, it's about gaining confidence, building relationships, and ultimately finding balance in a sometimes turbulent sea. Don't miss a moment of this enlightening conversation with Cheryl. It's a testament to the strength of love, persistence, and creativity in the face of adversity. Learn more about the SNAP course on a previous episode, "" Check out the Special Needs Academy SNAP masterclass online, which is applicable for anyone with special needs transitioning their services or caregivers: If you have questions about the course or coaching programs, we invite you to schedule a call with our team here: Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563053

National Suicide Prevention Month: The Healing Power of Kindness 09/07/2023

Demystifying Sensory Processing Disorder: Tips to Help from Harkla 08/31/2023

Demystifying Sensory Processing Disorder: Tips to Help from Harkla Are you ready to uncover the mysteries of Sensory Processing Disorder? We're elated to have certified occupational therapist assistants, Rachel Harrington and Jessica Hill, founders of , on our show today. These remarkable women have recently become Certified Primitive Reflex Clinical Specialists, demonstrating their relentless pursuit of knowledge in the field of primitive reflexes. They're here to share insightful perspectives on what it means to be a COTA (Certified Occupational Therapist Assistant) and the significance of a synchronized treatment team. Pull up a chair as shed light on the intricate process of how our bodies and brains decipher eight senses, and the challenges that surface when this process hits a snag, a condition known as sensory processing disorder. They've got practical tips in their arsenal to recognize and manage this issue. As the conversation flows into the realm of sensory diets and advocacy, Rachel and Jessica offer invaluable suggestions for parents and educators to create an environment that nurtures learning for children grappling with sensory processing disorder. Wrapping it all up, we delve into the crucial topic of supporting children with sensory needs. Our guests emphasize the need for open, clear communication between parents, educators, and professionals to ensure successful execution of sensory diet plans. They share wisdom on connecting with your child and setting an exemplary standard in emotional regulation. They prompt listeners to embark on this journey with a sensory checklist, a tool that aids in comprehending a child's sensory preferences. Remember, it's about taking one step at a time. So why wait? Tune in and make use of the treasure trove of resources available at . Connect with at Harkla: Website: Facebook: Instagram: YouTube: Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563063

Growing Up as a Special Needs Sibling 08/29/2023

Growing Up as a Special Needs Sibling Have you ever wondered about the unique life experiences of siblings of special needs children? We promise to enlighten you on this rarely discussed topic, as we welcome two individuals who've lived this reality -- , a senior attorney at the Disability Law Center in Boston, and , a special needs financial planning specialist. Through a candid conversation, they share their personal journeys growing up alongside a special needs sibling, deciphering the balance of their own needs with those of their sibling, and the importance of a robust support network. This is a re-release of one of our earliest episodes. Our dialogue evolves to discuss the unique dynamics that exist within a family having a child with special needs. Hillary and Alex delve into their childhood memories, talking about their siblings' pervasive medical challenges and the emotional impact it had on them. They shed light on how open communication within the family unit is pivotal and explain how they often had to play multiple roles, including the unexpected one of a quasi-parent. Wrapping up our conversation, we share some practical advice for parents to ensure their typically developing children also have positive experiences. Focusing on tailored approaches, addressing potential feelings of jealousy, and promoting healthy relationships outside the family, we offer a comprehensive guide to managing these unique situations. Hillary and Alex reveal their fears of predeceasing a sibling with special needs and the hurdles of long-distance caregiving, while striving to maintain a balance with their personal lives. Come, join us for a heartfelt conversation on this compelling and unique subject. You can find https://www.masiblingsupport.org/ Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563068

Building a Supportive Community: The Power of Connection in Special Needs Parenting 08/24/2023

Building a Supportive Community: The Power of Connection in Special Needs Parenting In an emotionally charged conversation with Eric Jorgensen of we venture deep into the heart of community and its indispensable role in special needs parenting. Through recounting her own journey with her daughter Elizabeth, born with a mitochondrial defect, unveils how community acted as their family lifeline, providing a shared belief system and collective elasticity to push forward. Eric, embodying his Navy ethos, emphasizes the value of a supportive community, a nurturing fixture that provides control and personalization, strikingly different from social media's impersonal landscape. to learn about his own special needs parenting journey. Driven by our shared experiences, we're excited to introduce our latest venture - a membership-based community platform. This is more than just a gathering spot; it's a space designed to bring resources together, fostering inclusivity and support. In our discussion, we dissect the potential of a community-based platform and how it allows users to personalize their experience, connect on a more profound level, and access vital resources. We invite service representatives to engage in sincere Q&As, moving beyond sales pitches to provide meaningful insights to the community. To conclude, we extend an invitation to continue this enlightening conversation on Mighty Networks, our newly launched platform. It's a safe space to learn, share, and express ourselves as we navigate the challenging journey of special needs parenting together. As we embark on this transformative journey, we ask, "What does community mean to you?" We're eager to hear your thoughts, experiences, and insights as we work together to build a community that serves us all. Share your thoughts with us on our website: Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563073

Your Autism Game Plan with Joya Van Der Laan 08/22/2023

Your Autism Game Plan with Joya Van Der Laan Navigating the unknown waters of parenting a child with autism can feel like being adrift without a compass. In this dynamic conversation, we had the privilege of speaking with Joya Vandalan, a mother of three and a family nurse practitioner, who found her North Star in the midst of her own experiences raising a child with autism. Joya not only breathes life into the challenges she faced as a first-time mother and healthcare professional, but also shares her journey of creating Autsim Game Plan - a business born out of necessity, resilience, and unyielding love for her children. Joya's perspective is enlightening, as she weaves tales of her personal experiences with integrative and functional medicine, and how it has shaped her approach to managing her daughter's autism. You'll hear her discuss food allergies, medication allergies and the hurdles she jumped over to establish her functional medicine practice, which she firmly believes can help others navigate their unique health challenges. There's an authenticity in her voice that resonates when she talks about her struggles and victories in starting her own practice, juggling her family life, and the invaluable lessons she's learnt along the way. We also get into the nitty-gritty of healthcare options for children with special needs, a topic that often leaves parents feeling overwhelmed and uncertain. Joya sheds light on how to make informed decisions, offering her insights and experiences in a way that's tangible and actionable. We round off this conversation by underscoring the importance of sleep for both parents and children - something that's often overlooked but is paramount for everyone's wellbeing. Join us for this enlightening conversation that's sure to leave you feeling informed and inspired - whether you're a parent of a child with special needs or a healthcare professional seeking to understand more about functional medicine. Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563078

Where to Start with Special Needs Estate Planning: Steps to Success 08/17/2023

Back-to-School Checklist for Families with Disabilities 08/09/2023

Remembering Elizabeth and the Joyful Moments 08/08/2023

Raja Marhaba: A Mother's Fight for Special Education Justice 08/02/2023

Raja Marhaba: A Mother's Fight for Special Education Justice Hold your breath as you plunge into an awe-inspiring journey with Raja Marhaba, Special Education Advocate, Author (UNSTOPPABLE), and . Embark on a monumental David and Goliath journey that showcases a mother's determination in the face of adversity. Raja's struggles with a broken special education system and her relentless pursuit of justice for her children are nothing short of extraordinary. Hear her riveting story as she fearlessly battled her way to the Ninth Circuit Federal Court and bear witness to the sacrifices she made for her children's rights. She documents her experience and what she learned in her book, . Travel further down Marhaba's 26-year journey as she highlights the pitfalls and power dynamics of a faulty special education system. Feel the weight of the financial costs and the resilience required for navigating these murky waters. This episode unfolds the strength of a parent's love, shedding light on the lengths one will go to ensure their child's right to a free and appropriate education. Marhaba's compelling narrative serves as a beacon of hope for those embarking on a similar path. Her tireless community service has been recognized through awards including The 2021 The Diane Lipton Award, The Daily Point of Light Award, and the Prestigious Marquis Who's Who Biographical Registry. Finally, you'll be privy to her transformative journey from middle-class living to becoming a relentless advocate for education. Learn about the faith that kept her going, her pro bono work, and involvement in the fight against child trafficking. Join us to revel in the power of advocacy and resilience. This is an episode that is bound to leave you inspired and educated. Connect with Raja Marhaba: Website: and Facebook: Instagram: LinkedIn: Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563103

Fighting for Meaningful Inclusion with Tamara Taggart 07/27/2023

Fighting for Meaningful Inclusion with Tamara Taggart As a broadcaster, radio host, and digital media veteran, is no stranger to the spotlight. But it's her role as a mother and advocate for her son Beckett, diagnosed with Down syndrome at birth, that propels this episode into an insightful and heartfelt journey. Tamara candidly shares the battles she's faced, from the negativity of medical professionals to fighting for Beckett's education in a system not designed to accommodate his needs. This story of resilience, love, and the power of advocacy aired originally in November 2020, and is being re-released to encourage others to fight for meaningful inclusion for those in the disability world. When her son Beckett was born, Tamara Taggart was thrust into a world she hadn't anticipated. Shocking diagnoses, disheartening attitudes, and daunting educational challenges became her reality. Yet, through it all, Tamara stood firm, demanding dignity, respect, and meaningful inclusion for Beckett. She confronted a culture of low expectations and fought to change the narrative for her son and others like him. This episode sheds light on the reality of raising a child with Down syndrome, the struggles families face, and the relentless pursuit of equality. Language matters. This is a reality Tamara knows all too well. From a distressing diagnosis about her daughter to the language used in disability advocacy, words have a profound impact. had a similar experience with her daughter, Elizabeth. During an appointment with a neurologist early in Elizabeth’s life, he likened Elizabeth’s brain to “Swiss Cheese.” For a young mom watching her child fight for her life, those words cut deep, similar to how Tamara felt hearing the words Beckett’s doctors used to describe his condition. Tamara's resilience, courage, and unyielding commitment to her son Beckett's well-being will inspire and move you. This isn't just about Down syndrome; it's about humanity, empathy, and the way we treat each other. You can learn more about Tamara on her and connect with her on , and . Join Annette’s Facebook Group, “” to be a part of a group of parents sharing encouragement and resources for children with disabilities. Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563108

How to Be Your Best Advocate with State Agencies When Fighting for Services 07/25/2023

Bringing Behavioral Tactics From the Clinic to the House with Jessica Guzman 07/25/2023

Bringing Behavioral Tactics From the Clinic to the House with Jessica Guzman Who doesn't seek the comfort of familiar surroundings when dealing with life’s complex challenges? This sentiment rang true for during this heart-to-heart with Jessica Guzman, an extraordinary ABA (Applied Behavioral Analysis) therapist and behavioral consultant. They unravel the profound sense of solace found in the natural environment and Annette's own personal experiences with her late daughter, Elizabeth. They delve into the thrilling world of ABA therapy in autism, offering insights into the journey of becoming a BCBA, modifying environments to influence behavior, and diverse approaches to ABA. They also take a unique dive into the world of Behavior Analysis, highlighting the distinct roles of a BCBA and a behavior consultant. Jessica gracefully details her role of empowering parents and caregivers to take up her job, and the ultimate goal of clinicians to reach a point of termination and transition towards natural support. She elevates the conversation with her goal of making applied behavior analysis more accessible, providing caregivers with the tools to avoid challenging behaviors and a gentle reminder to be kind to themselves. The final segment takes a reflective turn as we share our thoughts on life's imperfections, the comfort of familiar connections, and the shared joys and challenges of parenting. Jessica and Annette discuss the joy of witnessing parents teaching their children, the immense pride it brings, and the necessity for compassion in the time of a pandemic. They wrap up with a fun conversation about traveling woes, the pressures of portraying perfect lives on social media, and the simple pleasure of sharing a homemade apple pie. We promise you an episode filled with laughter, poignant moments, and enlightening discussions. Tune in as they navigate the intricate maze of autism, behavior analysis, and above all, parenting. This episode was originally recorded in September 2020, yet the recommendations from Jessica still apply to parents of autistic children today. Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563118

Transforming Reading Techniques: A Conversation with Susan Kahn 07/20/2023

Transforming Reading Techniques: A Conversation with Susan Kahn Have you ever wondered how a powerful support system can change the life of someone with a disability? Join in this passionate conversation with , the brains behind , as we take a deep-dive into the significance of community for those navigating life with disabilities. They explore the trials and tribulations of Annette's personal journey within this community, and share . Susan Kahn, a revolutionary reading specialist, shares her captivating journey to transform how we approach reading in schools. Drawing from her experience with her third son who was born with learning disabilities, she shines a light on the power of phonics. Making a second career out of her passion, she entered private practice and has written ; ; and to share her knowledge. They delve into her unique system of teaching children to learn flashcards and syllabicate words in just “five minutes a day”, her “two rules of syllabication,” and the importance of bringing this instruction to higher education. In a society where reading is often the gateway to success, Susan discusses the profound impact reading difficulties can have on self-esteem and life outcomes. She talks about her innovative five-step process that utilizes phonemic awareness and memory strategies to help children learn to read, including those with learning disabilities. They discuss the urgent need for change in our education system and the potential implications of passing two bills now in the Massachusetts state legislature: , “An Act to promote high quality comprehensive literacy instruction in all Massachusetts schools" that would require schools to use the science of reading. Be sure not to miss out on this conversation about revolutionizing education, the power of community, and much more. Connect with Susan Kahn: Website: Reddit: Facebook: Twitter: LinkedIn: YouTube: Blogger: Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563123

How to Fully Fund Your Estate Plan: You’ve Got Questions, We’ve Got Answers 07/13/2023

Designing a Disability Support Plan for Independent Living 07/05/2023

Designing a Disability Support Plan for Independent Living Are you ready to untangle the complexities of transition planning and become an effective advocate for your disabled person? , founder of and brings you an episode that can be a beacon to guide you through the maze of supports and resource systems. Whether you're a young disabled person stepping into adulthood, a caregiver stepping in for a sibling, or a professional wanting to offer the best for your clients, this episode promises to be a haven of insights. Let's begin by exploring person-centered planning. Identifying key questions, making sure the disabled person's voice is at the center of the life plan, and putting together an appropriate support team are all vital. But that's not all! We move forward into the unknown terrain of flexibility in planning and the pivotal role of evaluations and assessments in making transition as smooth as possible. There's also a discussion about how to navigate public benefits, housing, and state agencies, and even the legal decision-making process including understanding guardianship, supported decision-making agreements, power of attorney, and healthcare. Lastly, we invite you to check out and enroll in our exciting online transition planning course, the . Designed for parents, caregivers, professionals, or disabled adults, this on-demand course offers the ability to design a personalized disability support and life plan through video modules, a course and workbook. With the optional group coaching sessions, participants receive an individualized support network and a platform to discuss and learn from others embarking on the same transition journey. We look forward to welcoming you on this journey to become an empowered advocate! You can check out the course online and even get a free Disability Support Plan Worksheet: If you have questions about the course or coaching programs, we invite you to schedule a call with our team here: Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/30563133

Helping Autistic Students Find Their Voice with ABA SPEECH 06/29/2023

Avoiding Burnout with Lisa Candera The Autism Mom Coach 06/22/2023

Avoiding Burnout with Lisa Candera The Autism Mom Coach Host Annette Hines of Parenting Impossible welcomes Lisa Candera, The Autism Mom Coach in a discussion about the burnout cycle and how she helps coach parents to get out of this cycle to live healthier. She calls her one-on-one coaching program, "Be the Solid Object," which she explains is "specifically designed for Type A mothers raising children with ASD." Candera works in one-hour Zoom coaching sessions during which she helps her clients engage in self-examination and radical acts of self-love. She also works as an attorney. Hines and Candera discuss the differences between the roles of "therapy" and "coaching." Unlike therapy in which decisions are based as a clinician, past experiences and beliefs are explored, and diagnoses are made for individuals, coaching is a focus on the present to identify what thoughts are causing issues in our feelings and actions so that an interrupt or pause can happen before negative emotions and actions occur. While coaching can work well with therapy, Candera explains that coaching focuses on questions like: Where are you right now? What are your pain points? Where do you want to be? How can we get you there? Candera uses a self-coaching method based on the think-feel-act cycle: How we're thinking impacts how we're feeling which drives our actions. Candera's blog post, The ABCs of Living in Survival Mode (link: ), which Hines asks about in the episode, really helps to outline how our thoughts are often externally created based on societal norms or expectations about women or family or lifestyle that are unrealistic. For special needs parents, the three points Candera highlights for surviving during difficult times: 1) Allow it to be messy, 2) Basics only, 3) Commit to your essentials, are countercultural to the American societal messaging that many parents receive or Type A personalities believe in that they have to be successful super-achievers in every aspect of life, all the time. Candera's goal is to help parents, especially those parenting special needs children, learn to interrupt the burnout cycle through awareness, acceptance, mind-management, nervous system regulation, and self-compassion. Connect with Lisa Candera: Website: Get on her mailing list: Instagram: @theautismmomcoach and Facebook: @theautismmomcoach Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/27233796

Empowering Children with Differences and Disabilities with Meg Zucker 06/14/2023

Life Milestones and Getting Ready for Summer 06/07/2023

Celebrating Pride Month and Advocating for the Transgender Community 06/01/2023

Celebrating Pride Month and Advocating for the Transgender Community We're re-releasing a previous podcast episode from June 2021 that features an interview with and their mother, , regarding gender identity issues in celebratration of LGBTQ+ Pride month in June. Pride Month is a time to recognize the issues, challenges, and discrimination the LGBTQ+ community has faced and to celebrate the triumphs. and Él discuss the use of pronouns, labels, and terminology in both the LGBTQ+ community and in the disability community. Honoring each individual and their preferences in how they refer to themselves is essential. For example, people may have strong feelings about the use of terms like "special needs" or "disabled" and instead choose to use terms like "different" or "extrodinary." Él explains how the use of pronouns (He/She/They) can be difficult and challenging for friends, family, teachers, and acquaintances to use correctly. Below are the definitions for various gender terms for those unfamiliar that they shares during the episode: (Biological) Sex – assigned to a child at birth, most often based on external anatomy. Gender Identity – the term(s) someone uses to define their gender, ex: male, non-binary, woman, fluid. Gender Expression – the manifestation of someone’s gender through their appearance. Transgender – a term used to describe someone who does not identify with the label/biological sex they were assigned at birth. Cisgender – a term used to describe someone who identifies with the label they were assigned at birth. Él shares the message of acceptance at the end of the podcast. For youth: “You’re perfect just the way you are; it’s ok to explore; it’s ok to change how you identify.” To parents, Él says to have patience. Kids may not have the answers to the questions you are asking. Kids are still learning about themselves and to just listen to them and their needs and accept them as they are. If you or someone you know needs assistance, please check out your local GSA () and/or local LGBTQ+ center or group. Other resources include , which supports LGBTQ+ students in K-12 education, and Learn more about the advocacy work of on their website: Let Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/27014400

Grit: Honoring the Legacies of Rick Hoyt and Elizabeth 05/24/2023

Grit: Honoring the Legacies of Rick Hoyt and Elizabeth In this episode, honors the legacies of Boston Marathon competitor and her daughter, Elizabeth, through a tribute to author and previous Parenting Impossible guest, , and her use of the word "grit" to mean a will to persevere amidst the challenges of living as a special needs family. Rick Hoyt and his father, Dick Hoyt, showed continual grit as Team Hoyt as they entered as dual Boston Marathon participants for the first time in 2012 with Dick pushing Rick in his wheelchair during the course. The marathon administration had to develop a new classification for their participation because no one before them had ever entered to run as a team. Rick Hoyt's cerebral palsy left him as a quadriplegic, and he recently passed away on May 22 due to complications in his respiratory system. Team Hoyt persevered with grit to complete the Boston Marathon course 32 times as well as over 1,000 other races, and their courage, determination, and indomitable spirit stand as a model to others that Yes You Can set goals, challenge yourself, and accomplish the difficult. Hines also recounts the grit of her daughter, Elizabeth, who passed away 10 years ago in November of 2013. That same year in April, the occurred right at the same time as Elizabeth's entrance into hospice and gradual ultimate decline. Each May, which is Elizabeth's birth month, Hines retells the legacy of her daughter and how Elizabeth fueled Hines' passion and desire to provide the resources families with disabilities need to protect themselves and their loved ones. Hines reminds listeners that despite the hardships and difficult moments that families and individuals with disabilities encounter, it's essential to cherish life and live in the present with grit. Let us know what you think of this episode! Leave a comment on our website: Have you been searching for a law firm that understands the unique challenges of your family? We can help you at put legal planning in place to protect you and your loved ones now and in the future. today with our team or contact us via our website: . /episode/index/show/parentingimpossible/id/26940633

Maximizing Resources for a Stable and Independent Future 05/18/2023

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