Episode 3 - Creating Direction in Your Life to Parent through Purpose
Release Date: 06/23/2018
Parent to Prosper: Thriving as a Parent by Leading the Growth and Success of your High School and College Aged Children
In this episode, I help you to see and explore your interests from a different standpoint - not just as being 'optional' and 'entertaining', but as an important source of your passion and energy in life. I also examine the topic of 'interests' from your children's point of view, as well as the role interests play for you as a parent.
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In this episode, I help you to determine 1) what you should be focusing on as a parent - called Life Focus areas - informed in a way so that you are being true to what your faith and principles call you to focus on and to prioritize, and 2) why those areas matter in your life to create a source of motivation and inspiration to be successful in that area. I have a very helpful FREE resource for you - The Life Focus Area Matrix - which you can request to download at www.parenttoprosper.com/episode4.
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In this episode, I go into a significant aspect of what creates Joy in both your life and the life of your children - and that is Purpose. The objectives of the episode are for you to understand both the role Purpose plays in your life, and what you need to define for your to be a clear, inspirational and actionable statement.
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In this episode, I introduce a simple model for the legacies we create as parents when we choose to lead our children by choosing to Inspire, Guide, and Support them. The objectives are for parents to develop an understanding of the 3 legacy areas, and to create the belief that they possess the stories and insights from their own life to pass along these legacies to their own children.
info_outlineParent to Prosper: Thriving as a Parent by Leading the Growth and Success of your High School and College Aged Children
In this episode, I offer my thoughts on living a prosperous life and provide some background on myself and the show. My goal is to stimulate beginning a journey to understand yourself at a deeper level, identifying more as a leader in your role as a parent, and to understand the higher level means to prosper as a parent.
info_outlineEpisode Overview -
In this episode, I go into a significant aspect of what creates Joy in both your life and the life of your children - and that is Purpose. You can choose to approach this episode like small training class. I have a very helpful FREE resource for you - The Purpose Statement Builder - which you can request below. This template will help to guide you through defining a meaningful purpose statement for yourself, or improving upon a purpose statement if you have one already.
The objectives of the episode are for you to:
- Understand the role of a Purpose in our life, and what you need to define to clarify your purpose into a clear, inspirational and actionable statement
Key Takeaways in the Episode -
- If you call me Coach Schulz, I have been called it plenty of times before - I am just used to hearing it from about a 10 year old on a playing field.
- I have a lot of gratitude for my former leader at Toyota - Cathy Decker. Cathy believed in me and made personal development investments in me like no other person in my life, and she triggered my journey to discover and live a life of purpose.
- I introduce the concept of 'purpose', which creates direction in our lives by providing answers to these three specific questions:
1) Who or What is important in your life that you want to have an impact on
2) What is the Impact we want to make for those people or causes
3) How will you make this impact that is based on your natural personality and strengths?
- A lighthouse becomes a metaphor for 'Purpose' in this story. Also, I explain howe purpose can get our life back on track when our ego is sending our life in another direction.
- I walk through the crafting of my own purpose statement, using the Purpose Statement Builder and my own examples along the way, to support and guide your own use of the tool to create your purpose statement.
- I put forth two common objections regarding purpose statements: 1) Purpose statements never get used after a while, and 2) Purpose statements become out of date after a while. I discuss some truth of these objections, but offer how you and your children can get past these challenges through systems and habits.
- In summary, by crafting a purpose that answers the questions of who or what you want to impact, the impact you want to make, and how you will make that impact, you create a practical resource that provides direction for a meaningful and Joyful life. Just as important, your children in the high school and college stage of life can get the same benefits from having a purpose, which will enable them to lead themselves through their purpose more effectively as they grow through adulthood.
- I truly believe that our Purpose is the cornerstone of our Joy, Growth and Success in life, and hope that you experience that as well!