121. Pain is a signal; pain is feedback - Kute Blackson
Release Date: 05/25/2022
Peace and Possibilities
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info_outlineHow many places have you lived? In how many different cities?
My guest this week has lived in Ghana, London, and Los Angeles, to name a few. Talk about variety!
But as a young child, he also lived and felt others' pain.
At 8, he was speaking in church, along side his father.
At 14, he'd often speak to an empty church, practicing for some day.
But after many years of trying to figure out what he wanted, he finally realized: he's not entitled to anything.
As an adult he wanted to be free and have freedom, as well as inspire people.
Since then, his mission has been to un-coach and un-train us from our bad habits.
So many good nuggets in our conversation.
- Kute knew, deep down: everything is possible!
- Lies = stuck = fear
- Pain is a signal; pain is feedback
Listen in to get a deeper understanding of these valuable lessons.
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KUTE BLACKSON is a beloved inspirational speaker and transformational teacher. He speaks at countless events he organizes around the world as well as at outside events including A-Fest, YPO (Young Presidents’ Organization), and EO (Entrepreneurs’ Organization). He is a member of the Transformational Leadership Council, a select group of one hundred of the world’s foremost authorities in the personal development industry. Winner of the 2019 Unity New Thought Walden Award, Blackson is widely considered a next generation leader in the field of personal development. His mission is simple: To awaken and inspire people across the planet to access inner freedom, live authentically and fulfill their true life’s purpose.
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Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective:
8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career