Peace Talk Episode 293: How to Question a Thought in Under 5 Minutes | The Work of Byron Katie
Peace Talk: Question Your Thoughts Change Your World with Grace Bell & Friends
Release Date: 12/15/2025
Peace Talk: Question Your Thoughts Change Your World with Grace Bell & Friends
Beautiful work today with questioning beliefs about tax amendments, invasive people, those who are getting away with something, personal needs, mates. Listen and follow along with your own self-inquiry. Who are you without your story? π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Tools for working with thoughts from the place of awareness Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/starter-kit-first-response-guide-to-thought-storms/ CONNECT: π Website: workwithgrace.com π§ Email: gracewithwork@gmail.com #Awareness #Consciousness #MichaelSinger #AnthonyDeMello #Byron Katie...
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Beautiful work today with questioning beliefs about unexpected guests, estranged daughters, getting laid off, co-workers who waste our time, no reply from a text. What happens when we believe stories that feel painful and stressful? Who are we without our stories? π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Tools for working with thoughts from the place of awareness Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/starter-kit-first-response-guide-to-thought-storms/ CONNECT: π Website: workwithgrace.com π§ Email: gracewithwork@gmail.com #Awareness #Consciousness...
info_outlinePeace Talk: Question Your Thoughts Change Your World with Grace Bell & Friends
Beautiful work today with questioning beliefs about government, body ailments, unexpected tasks, teachers, self-judgment about talking too much. What happens when we believe stories that feel painful and stressful? Who are we without our stories? Perhaps people with more love, contact, acceptance than ever before. π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Tools for working with thoughts from the place of awareness Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/starter-kit-first-response-guide-to-thought-storms/ CONNECT: π Website: workwithgrace.com π§ Email:...
info_outlinePeace Talk: Question Your Thoughts Change Your World with Grace Bell & Friends
Who are we without our stories of whatever those other people need to do, in order for us to be happy? π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Tools for working with thoughts from the place of awareness Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/starter-kit-first-response-guide-to-thought-storms/ CONNECT: π Website: workwithgrace.com π§ Email: gracewithwork@gmail.com #Awareness #Consciousness #MichaelSinger #AnthonyDeMello #SelfInquiry #TheWitness #Mindfulness #MentalHealth #InnerPeace #Meditation #SpiritualWisdom #TherapyTools #PersonalGrowth #QuestionYourThoughts...
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A group of sincere inquirers do The Work together. π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Tools for working with thoughts from the place of awareness Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/starter-kit-first-response-guide-to-thought-storms/ CONNECT: π Website: workwithgrace.com
info_outlinePeace Talk: Question Your Thoughts Change Your World with Grace Bell & Friends
Who are we without our stories of whatever those other people need to do, in order for us to be happy? π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Tools for working with thoughts from the place of awareness Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/starter-kit-first-response-guide-to-thought-storms/ CONNECT: π Website: workwithgrace.com π§ Email: gracewithwork@gmail.com #Awareness #Consciousness #MichaelSinger #AnthonyDeMello #SelfInquiry #TheWitness #Mindfulness #MentalHealth #InnerPeace #Meditation #SpiritualWisdom #TherapyTools #PersonalGrowth #QuestionYourThoughts...
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Today's Grace Note is about making inquiry accessibleβbecause you don't need perfect conditions to question your thoughts. Someone once asked me: "How long does The Work take? I don't have time to journal for an hour every time I'm upset." Here's the truth: you can question a thought in under five minutes. In the car. While making coffee. While your kid is getting their shoes on. The point isn't to do it perfectly. The point is to do it. π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Includes the 4 Questions laid out step-by-step for quick inquiry Download:...
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"I Can't Stop" - Is It True? | Client Story Using The Work "I can't stop eating." or I can't stop drinking or I can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend. If you've ever thought this and felt completely defeated by it, this video is for you. Today I'm sharing a common client story about what happens when we question this thought using Byron Katie's inquiry process. π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Includes the 4 Questions framework for questioning any stressful thought Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/start... In this video: Why "I can't stop" is not...
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I started Grace Notes, my newsletter to readers, in 2011. My first note began with "LIVE! From the New Year's Cleanse!" In 2011, about 6 years into using The Work of Byron Katie to question my stressful stories, I was amazed to realize how much calmer and more peaceful I was in my life in general. I felt nothing like I once had felt. It was like a door had opened....permanently for the better. π **FREE GUIDE: Starter Kit--First Response Guide for Thought Storms Download here: Includes The Work's 4 Questions framework *In this video:* Peace is possible with The Work of Byron Katie in...
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What if the part of you that does crazy or unwanted behaviors, like emotionally eating, isn't your enemy? What if it's actually trying to protect you? In this video, I share the way I love to work with compulsions: first, to bring curiosity to the conversation. The Internal Family Systems (IFS) perspective on binge eating and emotional eating is one modality that holds this view. You can completely changed how you view your compulsive behaviors. Instead of fighting the urge, what if you listened to it? π FREE GUIDE: Starter Kit--First Response Guide for Thought Storms Download here:...
info_outlineToday's Grace Note is about making inquiry accessibleβbecause you don't need perfect conditions to question your thoughts.
Someone once asked me: "How long does The Work take? I don't have time to journal for an hour every time I'm upset."
Here's the truth: you can question a thought in under five minutes. In the car. While making coffee. While your kid is getting their shoes on.
The point isn't to do it perfectly. The point is to do it.
π FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms
Includes the 4 Questions laid out step-by-step for quick inquiry
Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/starter-kit-first-response-guide-to-thought-storms/
In this video:
The 5-minute speed version of Byron Katie's inquiry process
Why waiting for "perfect conditions" keeps you stuck
Step-by-step breakdown: 6 steps in 5 minutes
Byron Katie's Four Questions:
Is it true?
Can you absolutely know that it's true?
How do you react when you believe that thought?
Who would you be without that thought?
Turn the thought to the opposite, to yourself, switch places with the other
This week's practice: Set a timer for 5 minutes. Pick one recurring stressful thought. Question it using the steps in this video.
This is part of my series: Grace Notes + The Work of Byron Katie.
Grace Notes are excerpts from my newsletter (2011-present) where I documented my inquiry journey. At the end of each week I share one concept from a Grace Note and then dive into a practice from The Work.
New to The Work? Visit thework.com for free resources and worksheets.
New videos 3x/week:
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Mondays - How minds work, therapy insights, wisdom teachings
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Wednesdays - Inquiry for compulsive eating & addiction
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Fridays - The Work of Byron Katie + Grace Note readings
CONNECT:
π Website: workwithgrace.com
π§ Email: gracewithwork@gmail.com
π¬ What's your biggest barrier to doing inquiry? Let me know in the comments.