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09. The Proximity Effect

Release Date: 05/07/2025

Courageous Dreamers Win

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09. The Proximity Effect

Courageous Dreamers Win

Your growth will never outpace your environment. In this episode, Nesha Pai breaks down why proximity is power, and how the people you spend time with are quietly shaping your mindset, energy, and success. If you’ve ever felt stuck, uninspired, or like your dreams are “too much” for the people around you, it might be time to audit your circle. From redefining her own champion circle to building a business rooted in aligned relationships, Nesha shares personal stories and practical steps for finding the right rooms and protecting your energy. You’ll learn how to shift your...

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Courageous Dreamers Win

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Courageous Dreamers Win

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04. Make Gratitude A Habit

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03. How My Part Time Paris Living Dream Became A Reality

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Courageous Dreamers Win

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Courageous Dreamers Win

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Your growth will never outpace your environment.

In this episode, Nesha Pai breaks down why proximity is power, and how the people you spend time with are quietly shaping your mindset, energy, and success. If you’ve ever felt stuck, uninspired, or like your dreams are “too much” for the people around you, it might be time to audit your circle.

From redefining her own champion circle to building a business rooted in aligned relationships, Nesha shares personal stories and practical steps for finding the right rooms and protecting your energy. You’ll learn how to shift your digital environment, join communities that reflect where you’re headed, and let go of guilt when it’s time to outgrow old patterns.

This is your reminder that confidence grows in proximity to courage, and your next breakthrough might just be one bold connection away.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Introduction

00:44 What Proximity Is Power Really Means

02:03 How Your Inner Circle Shapes You

03:09 Self-Inventory: Who’s in Your Circle?

04:37 Shifting Your Champion Circle

06:27 You Rise to the Level of Your Environment

07:14 Three Ways to Build a Stronger Circle

09:16 Final Thoughts on Confidence and Proximity

10:23 Closing and Sponsor Acknowledgment

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