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095- When Life Gets Messy: Shamanic Field Notes on Fear, Fatigue, and Finding Center Again

Practical Shamanism

Release Date: 07/10/2025

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In this episode, I’m sharing some personal field notes from a season when life has been undeniably complex.  From navigating my mom’s cancer diagnosis and treatments to unexpected travel hiccups, tech crises, and the temptation to argue with customer service reps, I’ve been reminded how fear, fatigue, and old patterns can surface — even for those of us deeply rooted in spiritual practice.

I talk candidly about leaning on shamanic tools, managing energy as an empath, honoring boundaries, and finding unexpected resilience. I also explore the subtle art of not trying to fix someone else’s experience and the seductive pull of righteous indignation when life feels out of control.

If you’re moving through a challenging time — or simply curious about how shamanic practice weaves into real-life chaos — I hope these reflections offer insight, companionship, and encouragement.

Thanks for listening, and may you find your center, even when life gets messy.

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Sound editing by Kev Young.  You can reach them at [email protected]

DISCLAIMER: The suggestions and information provided here are intended for personal growth and exploration. The content of this podcast is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice or psychological treatment. Please seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical or mental health condition.  

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