1321: Becoming Harder to Offend: The Truth About Judgment
CONSISTENT by Primal Potential
Release Date: 06/28/2025
CONSISTENT by Primal Potential
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n this episode, we’re diving deep into something that holds so many of us back: the fear of being judged. Maybe you don’t avoid walking in your neighborhood, but maybe you’ve skipped going to the gym, avoided putting on a swimsuit, or stayed silent in a room because you were worried what someone might think. 👉 Here’s the truth: we all judge. We all get judged. And what matters is what we do with that reality. Today I’m sharing: A client’s honest and beautiful reflection on how fear of judgment kept her from walking outside — and how she’s working to break free of that. ...
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info_outlinen this episode, we’re diving deep into something that holds so many of us back: the fear of being judged.
Maybe you don’t avoid walking in your neighborhood, but maybe you’ve skipped going to the gym, avoided putting on a swimsuit, or stayed silent in a room because you were worried what someone might think.
👉 Here’s the truth: we all judge. We all get judged. And what matters is what we do with that reality.
Today I’m sharing:
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A client’s honest and beautiful reflection on how fear of judgment kept her from walking outside — and how she’s working to break free of that.
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How recognizing our own judgment can help soften the sting when we feel judged by others.
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The critical difference between judgment (observation) and mistreatment (unkindness or discrimination).
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Why becoming harder to offend is one of the most powerful choices you can make.
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Tools and mindset shifts you can start practicing today so that fear of judgment doesn’t cost you your joy, your memories, or your goals.
💡 Key takeaway:
Recognizing our own judgment softens our offense at others’. The next time you feel judged, pause. Remember: you’ve judged too — and that’s part of being human. What matters is how you show up for your life anyway.
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Join me in The Consistency Course! Let's work together to set you free from the patterns that are keeping your life small.
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