1337: How to Shut Down Excuses in the Moment — Even When They Feel True
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ou’ve read the books. You’ve listened to the podcasts. You know exactly what to do to reach your goals. So why… are you still not doing it? If you’ve ever found yourself saying: “It’s just one little thing — it won’t matter.” “I’ll start again Monday.” “I don’t have the time right now.” …this episode is for you. Today, we’re digging into: The hidden lies behind your most convincing excuses — and how to call them out in real time. Why “just a little” always makes a difference (and how to prove it to yourself). The simple debate-club trick...
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1336: The Toxic Fantasy of Doing It “Right”
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Your ego will demand a 10… when a consistent 3 would’ve changed your life. We glorify the grind. We chase the ideal. We obsess over the best way, the most extreme plan, the perfect strategy — and in doing so, we reject the one thing that actually works: consistency at a realistic level. This episode is a deep dive into the lie that’s been holding you back — the toxic fantasy that you have to “do it right” or not at all. It’s the all-or-nothing trap, dressed up in perfectionism and powered by ego. And it’s keeping you sick, stuck, and afraid. You think you need a total...
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1335: Stop Slipping in the Same Spot: How to Fortify Your Weak Points
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You’ve got a plan. You’ve got your motivation. You even start strong. And then… life happens. Work runs late. Stress spikes. Travel throws you off. A single “bad day” turns into a lost week. Sound familiar? Here’s the truth: most people have an offense for their goals — the plan, the schedule, the structure — but no defense for when things go sideways. And that’s why you keep tripping over the same obstacles again and again. In this episode, I’m going to show you: Why your goals collapse when the unexpected happens (and why “try harder” isn’t the answer) How you...
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1334: Ozempic, Self-Doubt, and the Weight of Frustration
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Today’s episode was inspired by a message from a listener who’s done it all — Weight Watchers, lap band surgery, Ozempic — and still feels like lasting change is slipping through her fingers. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Will I ever get there?” — this one is for you. We’re unpacking: Why your past does not get to define your future How the “just eat less” mindset is sabotaging real progress Why chasing “normal” eating might be the wrong goal What to do when your tools (like Ozempic) feel like they’re slipping away If you're feeling stuck or...
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1333: Why Your Plan Always Falls Apart (And How to Fix It)
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What if the reason you haven’t reached your goal… has nothing to do with the plan? What if you’re stuck because your goal — like a boat — has a hole in it? Or no rudder? Or no defense when the storms hit? In this powerful episode, I’m breaking down 3 major reasons people stall out, give up, or spin in circles despite trying really hard: 💥 The 3 Hidden Goal Killers: No Rudder – You’re jumping from one thing to the next, chasing what’s new, what’s urgent, or what feels exciting — but you’re not steering toward anything. Holes in the Boat – You’ve got a plan,...
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1332: The Book That Blew My Mind: Why Independence Might Be Hurting You
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What if one of the qualities you’ve always taken pride in—your independence—is actually keeping you stuck, isolated, and fragile? In this episode, I’m sharing how the book by Rory Groves completely reframed my understanding of strength, success, relationships, and even coaching. I open up about the way I was raised to value self-reliance, how I wore it as a badge of honor for years, and why I now see it as a form of quiet fragility. You’ll hear why dependence—when built intentionally—is not weakness, but a deeper kind of strength. One that stabilizes marriages, empowers...
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1331: Fix This First — or Your Goals Will Keep Falling Apart
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Why Your Plan Keeps Failing & What to Do Instead 💥 Applications for “Defense” open Monday, exclusively to the waitlist. We start the week of September 8th. Only 20 spots. This is not a public launch. 🎯 (It’s the only way to be notified when applications open.) Episode Summary: You’ve got goals. Big ones. You’ve probably got a plan, too. Maybe even a brand-new one you’re excited about. But here’s the question no one’s asking: Are you so focused on where the boat is going…that you’ve forgotten to fix the holes in the boat? In this episode, Elizabeth breaks down...
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1330: Motivation Is Not a Strategy - The 5 Things You Need Instead
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💥 JOIN THE WAITLIST for DEFENSE My brand-new 8-week program is coming soon! DEFENSE is for those who want to get ahead of the spiral — before the binge, the drift, or the regret even begins. Because the best offense? It’s a great defense. ➡️ If you’ve ever said, “I want this so badly — why can’t I just follow through?” — this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, we’re breaking down why motivation will never be enough to create consistency — and what actually works instead. From personalized systems and smart structure to emotional discipline and strategic...
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1329: A Tool For the Tipping Point - Pleasure Vs. Regret
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💥 JOIN THE WAITLIST for DEFENSE My brand-new 8-week program is coming soon! DEFENSE is for those who want to get ahead of the spiral — before the binge, the drift, or the regret even begins. Because the best offense? It’s a great defense. ➡️ Have you ever had a meal or treat that tasted amazing… but left you feeling bloated, tired, or regretful afterward? You're not alone — and today's episode is going to give you a powerful shift in perspective. This concept comes up all the time in my weekly check-ins with members of The Consistency Course: 👉 We often focus only on taste,...
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1328: It’s Supposed to Be Hard (And That’s the Point)
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🔥 Episode Summary: We live in a world where nearly everything has gotten easier—instant access, on-demand answers, next-day delivery. And while that’s convenient, it’s come at a cost: we’ve lost our tolerance—and even our appreciation—for doing hard things. In this episode, Elizabeth explores how we’ve subtly begun to expect ease, resent effort, and resist anything that feels difficult. But what if hard isn’t bad? What if it’s exactly what we need to grow, build pride, and take our lives to the next level? This isn’t an anti-social media rant. It’s a call to build...
info_outline🎙️ Episode 1323: Are You Stuck in Insight Mode?
Ever feel like you’re doing the work — reading the books, listening to the podcasts, journaling your heart out — but your life hasn’t actually changed?
You might be in Insight Mode.
In today’s episode, we’re unpacking what Insight Mode is, why it feels productive (but isn’t), and how to shift out of it — with small, real-life actions that actually move the needle.
We’ll cover:
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What Insight Mode looks like (with some real-life signs you’ll recognize immediately)
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Why this mental loop is one of the biggest traps in personal development
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The difference between self-awareness and self-discipline
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How to shift from “aha” moments to follow-through
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The exact question to ask yourself when you’re stuck in learning but not changing
💡 Plus: I’ll share a client story that kicked off this conversation — and a quick Bluey reference for all the parents and grandparents listening.
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The Consistency Course: For those ready to shift from knowing to doing. Message me “TCC” if this episode hit home.
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📌 If this resonated…
Don’t just nod along — do something with it.
Message me on Instagram @elizabethbenton and tell me one shift you’re making today.