1428: The Stalling Period (When It Feels Like It's Not Working)
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Release Date: 07/06/2026
1440: You Meant It When You Made the Plan
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You Meant It When You Made the Plan You really did mean it when you made the plan. You were motivated. The goal felt urgent. You were clear about what you wanted and what you were willing to do to get there. But the person who makes the plan and the person who has to negotiate with that plan later often have very different priorities. In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when the version of you who wants the long-term outcome runs into the version of you who wants something else right now—the extra hour of sleep, the thing that’s on sale, the relief, the exception. I’ll...
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1439: Nobody Quits On Purpose
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Tuesday, September 1st. 7pm Eastern. Two hours, live with me. A comprehensive DEFENSE workshop to find your specific vulnerabilities: the exact places your follow-through breaks down, why it breaks there, and what to do about it. Plus the DEFENSE Master Playbook, eighty-plus pages, yours to keep. $47. No free replay. → There was never a moment you decided to quit. That's what nobody says about this. You didn't wake up one day and choose to abandon the thing. There was no dramatic collapse, no rock bottom, no decision at all. It just got quieter. And then it was gone. And you couldn't tell...
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1438: Because Comfort Has Gone Too Far
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What if the enemy's greatest weapon isn't pain... but comfort? We've been taught to put ourselves first, protect our peace, and give ourselves what we want. While much of that started from a healthy place, I wonder if we've swung too far. What if, in the pursuit of self-care, we've confused care with comfort? In this episode, I explore how our desire to avoid discomfort may be quietly costing us the very things we want most—from our health and finances to our relationships and resilience. I also share a simple practice I use with my kids (and now with myself) called strategic disappointment...
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1437: Why You Keep Drifting & Disengaging + What Needs to Change
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Successful people ask for help. So why is it so hard to do? A client of Amy Porterfield's said something that stopped me: though she was resistant to asking for help, staying stuck finally felt worse than asking. If I had a drinking game with my clients, they'd have to drink every time I say successful people ask for help. I teach it constantly. And still, so many people try to do it all by themselves. They hide. They withdraw. They don't leverage the resources available to them. And they struggle. So today I'm going through what actually keeps us from asking. In this episode: Why "I've...
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1436: A Big Announcement & Major Changes
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Listen for the biggest change I've made in my business since we started in 2014. I'm excited and I hope you are! Thanks for being here for the last 12 years! Here's to the next great chapter!
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1435: Here's Why You Should Ditch Consistency (For Real)
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I'm being 100% serious: maybe you should throw away the word consistency entirely, and the pursuit of it, and in this episode I'm going to tell you exactly why this might be the breakthrough you didn't know you needed. The August cohort of DEFENSE Foundations starts today. This is the last chance to join us. If this episode landed, . This is the final chance ever for pay what you can pricing!
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1434: 3 Clients, 3 Vulnerabilities, 1 Move
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In this episode I walk you through three real examples of what defense actually looks like — two from clients, one from my own life — and the single move underneath all three. You'll hear why the frozen-pizza night is never really about the pizza, how to stop freezing when "I should already know better" keeps you stuck, and the exact question I stopped asking myself so I'd quit pushing work to "tomorrow" forever. Here's the theme: the goal is never to try harder or be more disciplined. It's to find your specific vulnerability — the place things fall apart — and build a defensive...
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1433: You're Running Out Your Own Clock
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Enrollment is open for the August DEFENSE cohort — and this is your last chance for pay-what-you-can pricing before the cart closes July 31. Grab your spot: elizabethbenton.com/defense/ Nothing has cost me more than the choices that felt completely reasonable. That's this whole episode. The choices that don't feel like choices — I'll start Monday, it's just this once, we only do this once a year. None of them feel like a weapon. That's exactly why they work. One of the best weapons we use against ourselves is holding the ball until time runs out. Not with big, dramatic failures — with...
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1432: When The Truth Steers You Wrong
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When something is true, you don't question it. Why would you? And that is exactly how you end up doing all the right things for years and still not getting anywhere near where you actually want to go. This one answers the question so many of you emailed after the last episode. How do you know when "you're doing so much better than you used to be" is true and worth celebrating, versus when it's the exact thing keeping you stuck? The answer starts with something almost nobody says out loud. An honest voice can steer you wrong. Not because it lies to you, but because it only ever answers the...
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1431: I Just Stopped Hiding From the Truth
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Show Notes Get on the DEFENSE waitlist: For four years I could have told you, honestly, every right thing I was doing with my health. Ate well. Ate protein. Didn't binge eat. Didn't drink. Worked out. Active. Slept. Every word of it true. And nothing was getting worse. My weight was stable. My habits were consistent. No crisis. Nothing going wrong. Which turned out to be part of the problem. Because when nothing is going wrong, you don't stop to check anything. You just keep going. And I'd been just keeping going for four years without actually asking whether going was the same thing as...
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My kids planted zinnias, and then they stopped growing. They came through the dirt and just sat there, day after day, doing nothing. I was ready to take a chainsaw to a tree over it.
Turns out the zinnias weren't broken. They were in the root stage. All the energy was going underground, where I couldn't see it, building the system that lets a plant shoot up later. The part that looked like failure was actually the most important work the plant would ever do.
This episode is about what that root stage exposes in us.
We want results to show up in tandem with our effort, and they don't. There is almost always a gap between when you put the work in and when you get to see it. That gap is where most people quit their debt payoff, their nutrition, their training, and go looking for a different plan that isn't actually the problem.
So I'm asking you the honest question. Have you been consistent over time, through a stretch where you weren't seeing results? And if your answer is "kinda," I'll save you the suspense. Kinda is a no. If it's not a hell yes, it's a no.
We also get into the apple tree, and why I have to pick the blossoms off mine this year on purpose. You have a finite amount of energy, and you cannot fruit in every area of your life at once. Not everything has to fruit this season. The trick is choosing where the energy goes instead of thinning it across everything and panicking when nothing blooms.
Here's the thing underneath all of it. The stalling period is a predictable vulnerability. You will hit it every single time, in every pursuit that matters. It's the exact moment the negotiation starts and the standard begins to bend. And anything you can see coming, you can build defense against.
That's what DEFENSE Foundations is. It's the structure that gets you through the root stage without bending, so you stop negotiating against the woman you could be in the moment it counts. You already know where you quit last time. Let's build the thing that gets you through it.
You can't have a fruit system without a root system. Stop reaching for the chainsaw.
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