The Journey of a Queer Disabled Advocate with Andrew Gurza
Release Date: 07/27/2025
Butt Sex, Baptism, and the Divine with Rev. Alba Onofrio
Queer Theology Podcast
In this episode, Brian is joined by the inimitable Reverend Sex @reverand_sex (Alba Onofrio), executive director of Soulforce (@souforceorg), for a conversation about queer faith, spiritual violence, and the liberative possibilities of sex-positive theology. Rev. Alba Onofrio is a theologian and spiritual activist rooted in the U.S. South, engaged in human rights work for over two decades throughout the U.S. and Latin America. As a queer, feminist Christian pastor, their ministry moves at the intersections of religion, gender, and sexuality to heal the wounds of spiritual violence and...
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Lesbian Nuns, Punk Rock, and God with Margot Douaihy
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Fr. Shannon is joined this week by author Margot Douaihy (@NeonMargot), and this is very exciting for him since he is a huge fan of her Sister Holiday series! Margot is a professor of creative writing at Emerson College as well as the author of the award-winning, nationally bestselling Sister Holiday series, as well as the poetry collections “Bandit/Queen: The Runaway Story of Belle Starr, Scranton Lace, and Girls Like You.” Her debut mystery, “Scorched Grace,” won The Pinckley Prize in Crime Fiction and was named a Best Crime Novel of the Year by the New York Times, Guardian, and...
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Reclaiming the Wisdom That Christian Patriarchy Tried to Bury with Angela Herrington
Queer Theology Podcast
We’re excited to welcome @angelajherrington back to the podcast to talk about her new book and overcoming Christian patriarchy. For over a decade, Angela has helped women break free from the grip of Christian patriarchy and reconnect with the wisdom they were taught to silence. She is a trauma-informed coach, strategist, and author, who has walked alongside thousands through deconstruction, spiritual burnout, and the messy, beautiful work of building a life that feels whole and true. Her work brings together spiritual insight, nervous system awareness, and grounded practices that create...
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Building Routines That Actually Serve Us
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It’s a New Year 🎉and in this first episode of 2026, we reflect on highlights from 2025. From book releases and big life transitions, to moves, new jobs, and shifting rhythms. What has kept us grounded has been our approach to goals and intentions that have evolved as needed. It’s why we keep saying rituals and intentions are important, y’all! Going into this year we feel that community matters more than ever. We also feel that it’s important to build more meaningful lives and one of the ways to start doing that is by naming our longings and goals. If you want some help with that,...
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Queering the 10 Commandments
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In this episode, we respond to a listener question about how to challenge harmful uses of the Hebrew Scriptures without falling into anti-Semitism or Christian supersessionism. As Christians, we can’t rely on the New Testament to “fix” or dismiss the Old Testament and we unpack common misunderstandings about Judaism and the Hebrew Bible. We also queer the Ten Commandments by reading this foundational text through lenses of justice, liberation, and community rather than control or exclusion. Despite how we have been taught, the commandments can function as a framework for loving God and...
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The Lamp the Light the Path, Psalms 119:105-112
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This week, we respond to a thoughtful listener question from Tumblr about whether progressive Christians can understand the Bible as uniquely authoritative, or whether it should be treated as inspired work alongside other great works of literature and poetry. We look at how different Christian traditions approach scripture, why “authority” depends on community and context, and how revelation can be understood without requiring inerrancy or literalism. We have to have a more nuanced engagement with scripture that challenges false dichotomies between taking the Bible seriously and reading it...
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Queering Hanukkah
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As we come to the beginning of Hanukkah, Brian invites us to reimagine the Festival of Lights as a celebration of resistance, resilience, and the sacred spark within every queer body. When queering Hanukkah, we can explore how the Hanukkah story itself is rooted in defiance against erasure, and how its rituals can be reclaimed as affirming practices that honor queer joy, creativity, and survival. Resources: Learn more about Join us and be part of Queering Advent! .
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Moving Past Terrible Theology
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In this episode we dig into why leaving harmful churches isn’t enough, you also have to unlearn the bad theology you absorbed along the way. We talk about how lingering fear, shame, reactivity, or discomfort around sex, Scripture, or Christian community can reveal where old beliefs are still running the show, even for folks who’ve left evangelicalism, Catholicism, or grew up in progressive spaces without learning how to engage the Bible for themselves. We get into what unlearning actually looks like and why arguing on evangelical terms keeps you stuck. You gotta be able to rebuild...
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Preview: Queering Advent
Queer Theology Podcast
A guided audio experience for this time of waiting, dreaming, and preparing as we hope for and work toward liberation and salvation. Rituals and liturgical seasons like Advent are invitations for us to re-center on what is most important to us. This winter, journey with us through Advent to deepen your awareness of and commitment to the connections between queerness and faith. Learn more and register at An Advent practices that enriches your December, rather than stresses you out Brian & Shannon will offer a deeper reflection each Sunday of Advent—a mix of teaching, queer...
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An Advent Reflection for Uncertain Times
Queer Theology Podcast
Father Shannon kicks off the Advent season with a solo episode where he reflects on the meaning of Advent as both a spiritual and practical season of preparation. During this time of rising threats for trans, non-binary folks, and immigrants, uncertainty and fear hangs over us. Fr. Shannon offers some grounding reflections about community, care, safety, resistance, and showing up for one another. You’re encouraged to bring your journal to this one! The Christian story calls us to co-create a more just and compassionate world, and we encourage listeners not only to reflect, but to take action...
info_outlineAndrew Gurza (@andrewgurza) joins Brian this week on the podcast to talk about sex, disability, and his new book, “Notes From a Queer Cripple.” Andrew is an award winning Disability Awareness Consultant and the Chief Disability Officer and Co-founder of Bump’n, a sex toy company for and by disabled people. Andrew uses they/he pro-nouns and identifies proudly as disabled. He is also the host of Disability After Dark: The Podcast Shining a Bright Light on Disability Stories. In this conversation, Andrew shares their journey as a queer disabled person, discussing their experiences with sexuality, disability advocacy, and the importance of creating inclusive spaces. They delve into their work as a speaker and author, emphasizing the need for open discussions about sex and disability. The conversation highlights the challenges faced in the community, the impact of critiques, and the joy of connecting with others through shared experiences.
Takeaways
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Andrew has been a disability consultant for 14 years.
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They emphasize the importance of discussing sex and disability openly.
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Andrew's book is a love letter to queer disabled people.
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They advocate for the inclusion of disabled sexuality in mainstream conversations.
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Andrew's experiences with sex work have transformed their relationship with intimacy.
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They believe that disabled people deserve to explore their sexuality freely.
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Andrew's journey includes creating a sex-positive community for disabled individuals.
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They highlight the need for more accessible spaces for disabled people to express their sexuality.
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Andrew's work aims to challenge societal norms around disability and sexuality.
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They encourage others to see the beauty in their bodies and desires.
Chapters
(02:40) Talking About Sex and Disability
(05:37) The Journey to Disability Advocacy
(08:29) The Book: Notes from a Queer Cripple
(11:19) Sex Work and Intimacy
(14:09) The Importance of Connection
(17:01) Embracing Sexuality and Body Positivity
(19:50) The Power of Humor in Disability Advocacy
(22:52) The Influence of Queer Media
(25:10) Creating Inclusive Spaces for Disabled Queer People
(28:32) The Impact of the Deliciously Disabled Party
(31:07) Navigating Critiques and Misunderstandings
(34:35) The Complexity of Disability and Sexuality
(37:21) The Importance of Community and Support
(40:19) Final Thoughts on Sexuality and Disability
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Notes From a Queer Cripple by Andrew Gurza
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Learn more about Andrew Gurza https://www.andrewgurza.com/about
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Join our online community at Sanctuary Collective Community
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