Understanding Impulse Control in Gifted and Neurodivergent Kids

Release Date: 03/27/2025

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We're diving into an essential topic in this week's podcast episode that's sure to resonate with many of you—developing impulse control in our neurodivergent kids.

As we know, impulse control can be particularly challenging for gifted, twice-exceptional, and neurodivergent kiddos. Let's break down why our unique learners face these challenges and talk practical strategies to support them in everyday scenarios.

Key Takeaways:

Create a Flexible Learning Environment: Shorter lessons with frequent breaks help cater to brains seeking novelty.
Role-Playing Social Situations: Practice different responses to improve social impulse control.
Calm Down Spaces: Designate a quiet corner with sensory tools for emotional regulation.
Gamify Focus: Turn attention skills into a fun challenge to encourage progress.

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Don’t forget, The Learner’s Lab is also a fantastic resource for in-depth strategies, activities, and group coaching sessions that can further aid your journey in supporting your child’s development.

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For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don’t forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It’s a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators.

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