Why Is Finishing So Hard? Helping Neurodivergent Kids Cross the Finish Line
Release Date: 10/08/2025
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info_outlineLet’s be honest: if your kiddos leave a trail of half-finished projects, open browser tabs, and idea explosions in their wake, you are SO not alone. Neurodivergent kids (and their amazing, multitasking moms!) can struggle with seeing things through—not because they’re lazy or unmotivated, but because the finish line often feels fuzzy, overwhelming, or just plain boring.
In this week’s episode, we're unpacking:
- Why finishing is tough for neurodivergent kiddos, whether it’s next-step anxiety, perfectionism, time blindness, or working memory hurdles.
- The power of “done statements”—specific, clear criteria for what finished actually looks like. (Think: “This is done when you’ve done 10 math problems with all steps shown” or “Laundry is done when it’s in the drawer and the basket is empty.”)
- Works-in-progress (WIP) limits – One “now” and one “next,” with everything else safely parked and waiting. (Idea overload, be gone!)
- Quick wins and tiny products: Get something DONE in a day with a postcard summary, a 3-slide deck, or a 60-second voice memo.
- Saving progress rituals: So nothing gets lost, and future-you can jump right back in—next steps, photos, and all.
- Keeping motivation up: Dopamine logs, gallery walls, and flexible closure routines—because DONE is more important than PERFECT.
Lots of love for all our creative, innovative kids (gifted, 2e, ADHD, autistic, and more). Remember—these strategies are for real families, with real kids, and I promise you, they WORK.
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