Episode 356 – Abby Davisson: How to Make Decisions About Money and Love
Release Date: 05/08/2025
Episode 371: Banks Sell Products, Not Advice
The Rational Reminder Podcast
In this episode, Ben Felix and Cameron Passmore take a critical look at the Canadian banking system’s mutual fund advice model. A newly released study by the Ontario Securities Commission (OSC) and the Canadian Investment Regulatory Organization (CIRO) confirms what many already suspected: Canadian bank branches aren't in the business of giving impartial advice—they're selling financial products. Ben breaks down the implications of this study, which surveyed nearly 3,000 bank-affiliated mutual fund representatives, uncovering troubling statistics about sales pressure, lack of credentials,...
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Episode 370: Dave Chilton (The Wealthy Barber): Timeless Financial Advice
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What if the most impactful financial advice isn’t about picking the right investment—but about understanding human behaviour, simplifying your life, and laughing along the way? In this episode of the Rational Reminder podcast, we’re joined by none other than David Chilton, author of the legendary personal finance book The Wealthy Barber. David shares insights from decades of experience helping Canadians improve their financial well-being through simplicity, frugality, and clarity. We dig into the enduring lessons of his 1989 classic, why the new edition took even longer to write, and...
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Episode 369: The Most Important Quotes in Investing
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In this episode of the Rational Reminder Podcast, Ben Felix and Dan Bortolotti celebrate the show’s 7th anniversary with a conversation centered around timeless investing wisdom. Drawing from a vibrant thread in the Rational Reminder community, they unpack dozens of quotes that distill decades of financial insight into actionable mantras. What begins as a curated list of one-liners quickly evolves into a masterclass on the behavioral and practical realities of long-term investing. From “pay yourself first” to “diversification is the only free lunch,” Ben and Dan explore how...
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Episode 368: Jim Rowley & Andy Maack - Implementing Index Funds at Vanguard
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What if index funds weren’t as “passive” as you think? In this episode of the Rational Reminder, we are joined by Jim Rowley, Global Head of Investment Implementation Research, and Andy Mack, Head of US Equity Portfolio Management at Vanguard. These two experts offer a rare, behind-the-scenes look into what it really takes to run some of the world’s largest index funds—and it’s far from “set it and forget it.” From real-time trading decisions to managing $7 trillion globally, Jim and Andy walk us through how Vanguard implements index strategies with a precision that rivals any...
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Episode 367: AMA #8 + Insurance Needs Analysis with Louai Bibi
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What if early RRSP withdrawals aren’t always the tax-smart move they’re made out to be? In this special AMA edition of the Rational Reminder podcast, Ben and Cameron are joined by PWL Financial Planner Louai Bibi for a wide-ranging discussion on RRSP decumulation strategies, insurance planning, and the practical complexities that real clients face when theory meets reality. Ben walks through a listener’s case study and shares insights from colleague Melissa on why early RRSP withdrawals (a.k.a. “meltdown” strategies) are not always beneficial—especially when viewed through a...
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Episode 366 - Avoiding Investment Scams
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What happens when your favourite financial educator’s identity is hijacked by scammers? In this episode, Ben and Cameron pull back the curtain on a disturbing but increasingly common reality: sophisticated scammers using Ben’s name, voice, and online content to steal from unsuspecting investors. Ben breaks down exactly how these scams work—everything from fake WhatsApp investment groups and cloned emails to AI-generated voice notes and “pig butchering” scams that promise guaranteed returns. You’ll hear about pump-and-dump operations, shady PDFs full of financial nonsense, and how...
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Episode 365 – Rob Carrick's Eight Lessons Learned in 27 Years of Covering Personal Finance
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In this episode, we welcome back Rob Carrick—one of Canada’s most trusted personal finance journalists—for his third appearance on the Rational Reminder podcast. Rob recently retired after an incredible 27-year career at The Globe and Mail, where he shaped how millions of Canadians think about investing, advice, and their money habits. Rob joins Ben, Cameron, and Dan to reflect on the biggest lessons from his decades-long career, the state of Canadian financial advice today, and why young Canadians face headwinds unlike any previous generation. From the shift from mutual funds to ETFs...
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Episode 364 – Martijn Cremers: Is the Conventional Wisdom on Active Management Wrong?
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In this episode, we’re joined by Martijn Cremers, Dean of the Mendoza College of Business at the University of Notre Dame and co-author of the groundbreaking 2009 paper that introduced the concept of Active Share. Martijn brings fresh nuance to the long-standing debate over active versus passive management, challenging decades of conventional wisdom built on the foundational 1997 Carhart paper. With his comprehensive research, Martijn argues that dismissing active management may be overly simplistic—especially in less efficient markets like bonds, small-cap equities, or emerging markets....
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Episode 363 - The (Underappreciated) Risk of Individual Stocks
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Episode 362 – AMA #7
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What if the hardest part of investing isn’t building a portfolio—but sticking to it? In this AMA edition of the Rational Reminder podcast, Ben Felix and Dan Bortolotti tackle listener questions ranging from sustainable retirement withdrawals to the dangers of structured products, with plenty of philosophical insights on risk, behavior, and financial planning. The episode opens with a deep dive into the 4% rule, exploring how time horizon, asset allocation, and global data can shift the definition of “safe.” They also explore the behavioral challenges of the “boring...
info_outlineHow do we make the most important decisions in life with intention rather than impulse? In this episode, we are joined by Abby Davisson to unpack her practical framework for better decision-making. Abby is a Yale and Stanford alumnus, a former executive at Gap Inc., and the co-author of Money and Love. She is also the founder of the Money and Love Institute, which is dedicated to helping individuals and professionals navigate life’s most significant decisions. In today’s conversation, Abby unpacks her practical, research-backed “5Cs Framework” for decision-making and demonstrates how it can guide all the decisions couples need to make through life. We explore the idea of financial transparency, progressive pooling of finances, equitable division of housework, deciding when to outsource help, and navigating career pauses or transitions. Abby also shares how she applied the framework in her own life and offers an honest perspective for individuals navigating change. Join us to learn how to approach choices and the “life stuff” that doesn’t always show up in spreadsheets with Abby Davisson. Tune in now!
Key Points From This Episode:
(0:04:16) Myra Strober’s Work and Family course and how it led to writing Money and Love.
(0:07:21) The drivers of poor decisions and the five Cs in Abby’s decision-making framework.
(0:11:15) Discover the four big topics every couple should discuss and how to approach them.
(0:15:09) Learn the fundamentals of how couples should handle and combine money.
(0:17:49) Why division of housework is vital, how to approach it, and the role of gender norms.
(0:21:49) Outsourcing tasks and the impacts of not taking the division of housework seriously.
(0:24:27) How to decide where to live as a couple, and whether to rent or buy a house.
(0:29:08) A real-life example of how to apply to 5C Framework for decision-making.
(0:33:34) Navigating career ambitions, division of childcare, and stay-at-home parenting.
(0:37:16) Hear how the 5C Framework helps deal with separation and family dynamics.
(0:40:31) Ways the concept of retirement has changed and why families should discuss it.
(0:44:12) Find out how involved adult children should be in their parents' retirement planning.
(0:47:02) Advice for finding the right life partner and how to stress-test a relationship.
(0:52:05) What to consider before getting married and having children, and why.
(0:55:37) Abby’s biggest lessons from writing the book and her definition of success.
Links From Today’s Episode:
Meet with PWL Capital: https://calendly.com/d/3vm-t2j-h3p
Rational Reminder on iTunes — https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-rational-reminder-podcast/id1426530582.
Rational Reminder Website — https://rationalreminder.ca/
Rational Reminder on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/rationalreminder/
Rational Reminder on X — https://x.com/RationalRemind
Rational Reminder on TikTok — www.tiktok.com/@rationalreminder
Rational Reminder on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/channel/
Rational Reminder Email — [email protected]
Benjamin Felix — https://pwlcapital.com/our-team/
Benjamin on X — https://x.com/benjaminwfelix
Benjamin on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminwfelix/
Cameron Passmore — https://pwlcapital.com/our-team/
Cameron on X — https://x.com/CameronPassmore
Cameron on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/cameronpassmore/
Abby Davisson — https://www.abbydavisson.com/
Abby Davisson — https://linkedin.com/in/abbydavisson/
Money and Love Institute — https://moneyloveinstitute.com/
Practically Deliberate Newsletter — https://abbydavisson.substack.com/
Gap Inc. — https://www.gapinc.com
Myra Strober on LinkedIn — https://linkedin.com/in/myra-strober-a8b2846a/
Eve Rodsky — https://www.everodsky.com/
Carefull — https://getcarefull.com/
Baba Shiv — https://linkedin.com/in/baba-shiv-a859882/
Books From Today’s Episode:
Money and Love — https://www.moneylovebook.com/