Getting Ghosted? Build a Follow-Up Cadence That Converts Without Feeling Pushy
Release Date: 06/24/2025
The Market Isn’t Too Small. Your Strategy Might Be
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What if you’ve already talked to every LO in your market? What if the pool feels saturated, picked over, or just plain stuck? In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I’ll show you how to shift your mindset, redefine your opportunity, and build a rhythm that creates traction—even when your list is short. Whether you're in a small town or a crowded metro, this strategy will help you go deeper, not just wider. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – When your market feels small, what do you do? The answer isn’t volume. It’s clarity [01:00] You’re Not Stuck. You’re Just...
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Small Market, Big Wins: When It Makes Sense to Hire a Recruiter in a Limited Territory
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What if your entire market has fewer than 100 LOs? Is hiring a recruiter still worth it? In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk through the exact framework for determining whether a recruiter is the right move in a small market. I cover the systems, mindset, math, and sequencing that make it work, and share a real-world story of one leader who turned 85 LOs into 9 hires in 12 months. This isn’t about headcount. It’s about mastery, clarity, and building a system that multiplies your time. Episode Breakdown [00:00] The Question – Is it worth hiring a recruiter if I only...
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Recruiting the Inner Circle: How to Win When Outside Voices Influence the Decision
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You’ve been there. The recruit is engaged, the vision is aligned, and then silence. Or worse, hesitation that comes from a spouse, a current manager, or a friend. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I unpack one of the most common and misunderstood challenges in recruiting: how to lead when someone else is influencing your recruit behind the scenes. This is the framework I teach leaders to help them stay calm, coach through fear, and win trust without becoming defensive or pushy. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The silent deal-breaker: recruits influenced by voices...
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How to Build Certainty When Recruits Feel Stuck
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Ever had a recruiting conversation stall, not because of your offer, but because the recruit says, “I don’t know”? In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I break down the exact framework I use to move people from fog to clarity. You’ll learn how to coach through indecision, lead with belief, and help recruits see a future they can say yes to. Because the best recruiters aren’t just closers. They’re clarity coaches. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The most common stall in recruiting isn’t about money. It’s about uncertainty [01:00] Why Recruits Say...
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Let Them See It: How to Show Recruits What It’s Like to Be on Your Team
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Telling recruits what your team is like isn’t enough anymore. You have to show them. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk through how to build a content and conversation strategy that gives prospective hires a window into your team, before they ever commit to a call. When done right, this approach creates trust, builds belief, and positions you as the kind of leader worth following. I break it down step by step. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why trust has to be felt, not just pitched [01:00] Visibility and Believability – The new standard in recruiting is...
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They Don’t Need a Pitch. They Need a Pause. The New Recruiting Strategy for Overwhelmed LOs
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Most recruiters are showing up with features, hype, and opportunity. But what burned out producers actually need is relief. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I break down how to lead with empathy instead of solutions, how to identify real burnout, and how to open up high-trust conversations with people who are struggling. If you’ve ever felt like you’re talking to a wall when someone is clearly checked out or exhausted, this episode will help you connect instead of convince. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why this isn’t just a recruiting question, it’s a...
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From Rookies to Rainmakers: How to Start Attracting Experienced LOs Without Losing Your Culture
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You’ve built from the ground up. You’ve onboarded rookies, coached them, created a strong culture. But now you’re ready to level up. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk you through the shift from building internally to attracting experienced Loan Officers—and how to do it without sacrificing the heart of your leadership. This isn’t just a strategy change. It’s an identity shift. And done right, it can unlock faster growth, deeper impact, and a higher-performing team. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The moment many leaders face: is it time to pivot from...
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Mine the Gold: Your Best Recruiting Tools Are Already in Your Meetings
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You don’t need more ideas. You just need to capture the ones you’re already saying. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk through how to turn transcripts, meeting notes, and Zoom recordings into usable content, coaching tools, and recruiting systems. If you’re already leading, already coaching, already solving problems—your best recruiting content is already being created. This episode gives you the step-by-step process for turning those raw conversations into repeatable resources that scale. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The question: How do I convert Zoom...
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Don’t Say There’s No One Left: The Market Isn’t Too Small. Your Strategy Is
Recruiting Conversations
Feel like you've already talked to everyone in your market? Think again. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk you through how to build a solid recruiting list even when your territory feels tapped out. You’ll learn how to segment by pain, not just production, and uncover five overlooked talent pools hiding in plain sight. Most leaders are working from the same spreadsheet. But the best recruiters think differently. They segment. They personalize. They win. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why small-market recruiting isn’t a numbers problem, it’s a perspective...
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Don’t Drift, Design: A Framework for Creating the Outcomes You Actually Want
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Too many leaders wake up one day successful on paper but disconnected from their purpose. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk you through how to reverse engineer your business and personal life to create outcomes that actually matter to you. This isn’t about hustle. It’s about building with clarity, protecting what matters, and creating rhythms that align with your vision. If you’ve ever felt like you’re moving fast but not sure where it’s taking you, this episode is your reset. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why reverse engineering is the antidote to...
info_outlineWhat do you do after a great message… and then silence? Most leaders lose momentum not because they don’t know who to call, but because they don’t know how to follow up when they don’t get a response.
In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I break down my 7x7 follow-up framework, seven meaningful touches over seven weeks, and how to build a system that helps you stay consistent without ever feeling pushy. If you want to win at recruiting, you’ve got to stop chasing and start building trust over time.
Episode Breakdown
[00:00] Introduction – Why most recruiting efforts stall out after the first unanswered message.
[01:00] Prospect Every Week – Block protected time to research and build your short list of 10–20 candidates.
[02:00] Focus on Depth, Not Volume – Personalization wins. Transactional messages don’t.
[03:00] The 7x7 Framework – One value-based touch per week for seven weeks:
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Week 1: Affirmation message
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Week 2: No-pressure email introduction
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Week 3: 60-second video with perspective
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Week 4: Share a valuable resource
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Week 5: Silent call (register as a missed call)
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Week 6: Friendly text follow-up
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Week 7: Creative personal touch (e.g. voice memo, handwritten note, small gift)
[06:00] Move to Nurture Mode – After week 7, slow the cadence but stay on the radar with light, regular touches.
[07:00] Use a Tracking System – Don’t manage follow-up in your head. Use a CRM, spreadsheet, or board to keep cadence consistent.
[08:00] Train the Right Mindset – Recruiting isn’t a sales cycle. It’s a trust cycle, and trust takes time.
Key Takeaways
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Follow-Up Is Where You Win – Great recruiting isn’t about who you reach out to first. It’s about how you show up after silence.
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Use a 7x7 Cadence – Seven weeks, seven touches, each adding value, not pressure.
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Be the Consistent One – When their world shifts, they’ll remember who stayed in front of them without selling.
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Build the System – Set it and stay with it. A tracker turns good intention into real execution.
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Lead Your Team Into This – Coach your recruiters to play the long game, not the instant results game.
The leaders who win at recruiting aren’t sending more messages. They’re sending better messages, on purpose, over time, with value.
Want help building a personalized recruiting follow-up system for you or your team? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a session at bookrichardnow.com. Let’s build your cadence, and your confidence.