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“Lending an ear is one of the most powerful gifts we can give to another person. And what we're giving to them is … power. So often it's another person who’s defining us. But when we can choose the words and share with the world who we are, what we've been through, at our own pace and in our own tone, we reclaim a sense of agency and power.”
And telling our own stories helps us gain perspective and shape our internal narrative.
Kate Jetmore from The Listen Podcast has an enduring love of storytelling - both as a performer and listener. After making her living as a singer and actress in New York for many years, she settled in Spain in 2002 and has worked since then as a translator and voiceover artist. In today’s interview, Kate shares the importance of this artform for humans in general and expats in particular.
RESOURCES mentioned in the episode:
Join The Listen Podcast Community (Facebook group) for more of Kate’s stories and story prompts.
The Listen Podcast is an exploration of Americans abroad and how they got there.
Mosaics activity for processing life events and intentionally shaping our narratives
expats.together. weekly live chat for diving into interesting & relevant topics, finding connection and social support
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ABOUT TODAY’S GUEST:
A native of Richmond, Indiana, Kate Jetmore graduated with a degree in performing arts from New York University. She made her living as an actress and singer, both in NYC, and touring around the US, until moving to Spain in 2002. Since that time, she has focused on her career as a translator, teacher and voiceover artist, serving such notable clients as the Guggenheim Bilbao, the Thyssen-Bornemisza Museum in Madrid, Disney España, Cambridge English and Amazon Prime, to name just a few. In November 2019 she launched The Listen podcast, featuring long-form interviews with international guests, and in 2021 further re-defined the show’s mission to be an exploration of Americans abroad and how they got there. If there is a single through line in her life, it is a love of storytelling – both as performer and listener – and she has come to recognize the importance of this art form with every passing year.
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Kim Adams is an American raising three daughters along with her math-teaching husband of 20 years. She loves photography, reading, thunderstorms, walking on the beach, camping where there are no bugs, and has a weakness for mint chocolate chip ice cream.
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