When Believers Look Just Like the World | Judges 19:4-9

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Our text today is Judges 19:4-9.

“And his father-in-law, the girl’s father, made him stay, and he remained with him three days. So they ate and drank and spent the night there. And on the fourth day they arose early in the morning, and he prepared to go, but the girl’s father said to his son-in-law, ‘Strengthen your heart with a morsel of bread, and after that you may go.’ So the two of them sat and ate and drank together. And the girl’s father said to the man, ‘Be pleased to spend the night, and let your heart be merry.’” — Judges 19:4-9

This scene feels harmless—two men eating, drinking, laughing, and delaying their journey. But beneath the surface, the nation reveals itself to be completely desensitized to holiness.

The Levite and his father-in-law are Israelites, descendants of Abraham, men who should know the covenant and honor the Lord. Yet there’s no mention of prayer, no reflection on repentance, no concern for God’s will. Only indulgence. Self-gratification. Endless feasting and comfort.

They look like men at peace—but it’s not. It’s the peace of distraction, not devotion. The peace of full bellies and empty hearts.

And notice where they are—Bethlehem, “the house of bread.” A place that should symbolize God’s provision has become a house of pleasure. These are supposed to be God’s people, yet you can’t tell them apart from the world around them. Today, the same confusion fills our culture. Christians binge what the world watches, laugh at what the world listens to, and chase the same comforts and conveniences. The line between the sacred and the secular has blurred so much that many can’t tell the difference.

But Jesus never called us to blend in—He called us to stand out. To live holy. To look different. To love differently. To lead homes that don’t reflect the world, but reflect Christ.

Bethlehem may have been filled with Israelites, but their hearts were filled with idolatrous activities. And if we’re not careful, our homes can become just as spiritually hollow.

Stop living like the culture and expecting God’s continued approval. Your Godliness begins with you at home. If you want the world to see the difference, they need to see it first in you.

ASK THIS:

1. Where has comfort made you spiritually lazy?
2. Can others tell by your life that you belong to Christ?
3. How does your home reflect holiness—or worldly habits?
4. What’s one way you can lead your family to live differently this week?

DO THIS:

• Lead your family in one act of obedience—read Scripture together, serve a neighbor, or repent together in prayer.
• Ask God to make your home a holy contrast to the culture.

PRAY THIS:

Lord, open my eyes to the ways I’ve looked like the world. Strip away my comfort and awaken my conviction. Make my home distinct, my faith courageous, and my heart devoted fully to You. Amen.

PLAY THIS:

“Set Apart.”