65. What do Bullies Want?
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The other day I was wondering about the phenomenon of bullying and started contemplating about what bullies really want. And this quote streamed into my consciousness. “He bullied his friends to get their attention, because receiving hate filled the emptiness of love he felt.” Certainly, I had my share of being bullied in my life, more than I’d like to - but I never thought about what bullies really wanted from me when they were putting me down and mocking me. Did they want my attention? Did they feel threatened by me? Did they want to engage or have an interaction? After all, maybe...
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64. Thanksgiving Tips for Emotional Sanity
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How do you prepare yourself emotionally for a social gathering that you’re anxious about? How can you stay centered and grounded against all potential family drama, especially these times over the holidays? What can you do to break free from the negative experiences that you had faced in previous years? Please join me in this episode as we explore together some practical answers to these questions. Arda
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63. What are the Levels of Consciousness?
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In this Episode 63 “Levels of Consciousness, Stairway to Happiness”, I’d love to introduce you to the levels of consciousness and how you can use this knowledge to live a happier life? First of all, did you know that your consciousness level is 100% correlated to how happy you are and how smoothly your life flows? If you’d like to get to those high-flowing, you better start climbing up the stairs of consciousness. Well, if you decide to do so, you have to rise through 3 very distinct levels of consciousness. I’m sure you know the first one. Most of us are pretty...
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62. Easing Pain with Breathwork
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In this episode, I’m sharing a guided meditation to help you Ease Pain using Breathwork called, 3 by 3. Over the last 15 years, I watched hundreds of my clients reduce the intensity of their pain and stay calm and relaxed by using this breath technique. Some of them even felt a sense of power and control over their body. I hope you can achieve similar results.
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61. Grieving the Loss of my Father
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The death of Arda’s father was not a surprise, as he had been very ill over the past 3 years, experiencing a slow decline. Nevertheless, the loss of a father or a mother, whatever the relationship, evokes feelings, emotions, and reminiscing about what was and what could have been. Join Arda on his trip to Turkiye and listen in on his thoughts on life, death, yearning, loss, and accepting the inevitable fate awaiting us all. Reflecting on these most recent experiences, Arda has returned with a renewed commitment to live life even more consciously, to its fullest potential, where harmony,...
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60. Square Breathing Practice
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Arda is guiding you how to quiet your mind, and calm your thoughts with a simple breathing technique, called Square Breathing. In this technique, you'll draw an imaginative square with every movement of your breath. Every time you inhale, you’ll count to 5. Then, you’ll hold your breath for 5. Next, you’ll exhale slowly while counting to 5, and finally, you’ll hold your breath out for a count 5 to complete the cycle. Let’s do a few cycles of Square Breathing together.
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59. Are Emotional Reactions Good or Bad?
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Even though an emotional reaction is neither good nor bad, at the end of the day, it is an energy drainer, leaving you feeling depleted afterward. Worse yet, these situations often lead to conflict with others, leaving you even more exhausted and drained. Negative thoughts rush into your head and occupy your mind for hours, for days—maybe even for weeks. Sometimes you can’t easily shake them off or let them go, and with little energy left for anyone or anything else, you feel stuck and lost, blaming the situation and other people for your unhappiness. Upon closer look, though, these...
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58. Identifying What Makes Us Feel Stuck
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Our brand-new episode, no. 58, opens up with an interesting discussion about two monks, Ekido and Tanzan, having a debate about whether helping a girl to cross a muddy road is a noble thing to do or is to be avoided, because it's against their sacred oath of "thou shall not near women!" How did Tanzan move on so quickly, without being bothered by either Ekido’s judgment or his own violation of a sacred rule, while Ekido got all jumbled up in his mind and couldn’t let go of what he saw? Is it because, as an older monk, Tanzan is more trained in...
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57. What is your Limiting Life Pattern?
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Do you realize that we all live life according to restrictive and limiting patterns stemming from thoughts and beliefs we hold true about ourselves and the world around us? Check it out: As children, we register and conform to the attitudes, mindsets, and ideologies of our parents, teachers, friends, family, and society. As we age, we are replete with messages about ourselves that simply aren’t true, but we believe them to be true. As adults, these old ways of thinking no longer serve us. Still, we continue to act and react using an outdated script, responding to a cast of obsolete...
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56. The Art of Becoming Unstuck - The Book
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Are you feeling stuck? Confused? Lost? Not sure if you are coming or going? Maybe you should read Arda’s book, The Art of Becoming Unstuck. In this exclusive interview, Arda explains why he wrote a life skills training guide, a manual to live your best life right now. As you listen, you will learn how to identify and become aware of self-defeating belief systems and patterns acting like sandbags, weighing you down, and keeping you in the doldrums. No matter how stuck you feel today, the key to fulfillment is within you. Learn to rise above challenging situations, difficult...
info_outlineAre you feeling overwhelmed? Too many thoughts in your mind? Use this incredibly effective tool, Square Breathing, whenever you want to quiet your mind and create a peace of mind.