Facing Pain: The Road to True Redemption | Dr. Linda Seiler on the Dr. J Show episode 273
Release Date: 03/12/2025
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info_outlineBorn gay is a narrative that severely inhibits anyone dealing with same-sex attraction or gender dysphoria. Dr. Linda Seiler talks about both the qualitative research that she did regarding same sex attraction as well as the transformation she went through after she reoriented her life towards God.
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Chapters
00:00 The Journey to Forgiveness and Healing
02:47 Pursuing Intimacy with Jesus
06:01 Facing Pain for Transformation
08:54 Understanding Temptation and Responsibility
12:14 The Cycle of Transformation
15:11 Exploring the Five Streams of LGBTQ Responses
18:09 Condemnation vs. Affirmation
20:59 Accommodation and Identity
23:53 Mortification and the Fall
27:14 Understanding Temptation and Sin
30:36 The Complexity of Concupiscence
33:25 Celibacy: A Gift or a Burden?
37:43 Holistic Transformation: Body, Soul, and Spirit
41:03 The Role of Prayer in Transformation
43:08 Identifying the Root of Desires
44:05 Advice for Parents of LGBTQ Individuals
46:20 The Importance of Language in Identity
50:23 Resources for Further Learning
Dr. Linda Seiler is a trailblazer in understanding gender identity and sexuality. Born and raised in a conservative environment, Linda faced internal conflicts regarding her gender identity from a young age. Despite these challenges, she pursued her education with determination, eventually earning a PhD from the Assemblies of God Theological Seminary. Her academic journey was marked by a deep exploration of gender and sexuality, culminating in a dissertation that examined the experiences of individuals who have undergone significant personal transformations. As an ordained minister, Linda has dedicated her life to ministry and education, leading initiatives like Chi Alpha at Purdue University and serving as a National XA Field Specialist. Her book, "Trans-Formation," reflects her personal journey and academic insights, offering guidance to those navigating similar paths. Through her work, Linda continues to inspire and educate, contributing significantly to the discourse on identity and transformation.
Linda’s website:
https://lindaseiler.com/
Get the 5 streams document here: https://lindaseiler.com/resources/
Buy her book, “TRANSformation” https://www.amazon.com/dp/1625862601
Linda shares her story with Focus on the Family: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W4WxPhWdU60
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ReStory Ministries: https://restoryministries.org/
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