How to heal your 'inner healer's' fear of judgement and rejection so you can share your gifts authentically
The Secret Witch Show
On the Secret Witch Show today, Nicole explores the juicy topic of one of the most common fears of becoming a healer, teacher or guide: the fear of ‘judgement’ and ‘rejection - and how to heal it so you can share your gifts authentically. She explores the Archetypal Remedy that you can harness to begin to unconditionally love and approve of yourself enough to not need approval, sharing a vulnerable story about her own experience of rejection and how going *into* the experience of rejection helped her heal her fear. In this episode we explore the 3 stages of reclamation...
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Where to begin in your journey of opening to becoming a healer - how to work with our Starter Pack and Illumination Workbook - BONUS EPISODE
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On the Secret Witch Show today, Nicole is exploring the sense of ‘overwhelm’ that can often be felt in knowing ‘where to start’ in the journey of opening to becoming a healer - especially with the amount of ‘quick fix’ false promises on offer, that can leave us disheartened. She explores how you might know you are feeling the call to be a healer (even amidst the fears) - and how to get clarity on your next tender steps in your journey, helping you answering the question: “where do I begin?” In this episode Nicole explores the most potent ‘Archetypal Apothecary’...
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How to heal hidden emotions with somatic movement
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On the Secret Witch Show today our guest is Loren Cellentani. Loren used to feel like a victim to her body and emotions sabotaging her dreams. It led her to deeply listen and work with the body to uncover how to harness life force energy, process emotions & alchemise her pain into power - all through breathwork, somatic movement and visualization. Her mission is to help lightworkers get out of their heads and into their bodies so they can fulfil their purpose and potential in this lifetime. Loren guides women to own their power, rule their reality and live their purpose in her group...
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How to be a 'healer' as a sensitive soul who 'absorbs others' energy' - without burning out?
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On the Secret Witch Show today, Nicole is speaking to one of the common fears that comes up for aspiring healers: the deep fears of ‘absorbing other’s energy’ and ‘burning out’ that often stop women from fully stepping into the journey of becoming a healer - thinking that they’re ‘too sensitive’ for it. In this episode Nicole discusses how women born to be ‘healers’ are born with a deep natural sensitivity, and what this really means for them, exploring the birth constitution (or make up) of a ‘healer’. She explores a way of working with...
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How to deconstruct blame, shame and guilt for deeper self-trust
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On the Secret Witch Show today our guest is Shanti Zimmerman. Shanti described herself as “a human, just like you”. She has learned how to navigate being human with deep integrity, clarity, and a focus on growth and real life. She has complex and compound trauma from her childhood that, for a portion of her life, made it hard to be alive. The work that she facilitates is based on how she found her way to a life worth living. She had a whole lot to unlearn and a ton of adult skill-sets she had to develop and practice and she shares everything she knows from her lived experience....
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How to step off the Drama Triangle to embody your power as a healer
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In this unique, ‘experiential’ episode, Nicole mixes up the format, sharing the signs we are being called into our power as a healer, hosting a little bit of a ‘workshop’ around the ‘Drama Triangle’ to help you illuminate the 3 ways you might be leaking your power (because Secret Witches often innocently misuse their power to create drama). She explores how Archetypal Aurum (the essence of ‘Gold’, and universal symbol of ‘power’) can help, guiding you in a ritualistic and ceremonial journey with Aurum’s Archetypal Remedy to help you begin to activate and reclaim...
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How to parent powerfully when you're a sensitive mum with ‘sensitive’ or ‘challenging’ (or ‘neurodivergent’) children
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On the Secret Witch Show today our guest is Lian Brook-Tyler. Lian is one of my own long-standing, trusted guides - she’s a shamanic healer, teacher of wild magic, podcaster and co-founder of Waking The Wild. Her mythical journey truly began when she was ruptured open to Spirit with the sudden death of her father – which led to her mysteriously recovering from 15 years of chronic pain, panic attacks and anxiety. That inexplicable transformation inspired her to leave a leadership role in the corporate world to immerse herself in discovering what creates pain and struggle, and conversely,...
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How to stop people-pleasing in relationships so you can open to your gifts as a healer
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On the Secret Witch Show today, Nicole is speaking to one of the common patterns of the many sensitive souls who were born here with healing gifts: people-pleasing. Exploring how people-pleasing is almost a ‘sign’ of being a healer, she dives into the fears and patterns beyond people-pleasing, and how self-illumination is a powerful tool to help women begin to heal themselves of this wound. In this episode Nicole explores how and why our culture has had us learn to run around looking after everyone else first, along with the importance of self-healing inner work around...
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How to attune to your Feminine body and hormones to receive your highest-level abundance
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On the Secret Witch Show today our guest is Dr. Stephania Sciamano. Stephania is a doctor, metaphysical specialist, and awakening mentor to high-achieving women. She specialises in helping successful women open wide to receive at their highest potential, but in a way that is good for the feminine body. Stephania’s protocols are simple, elegant, and powerful. Her clients lose the anxiety and the body dips, create a more spacious life, begin a love affair with their Divinity, become sexy again to their partners and themselves, and watch life come to them like a ravenous lover. In this...
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How to rise tenderly into adult womanhood and become a confident, powerful healer - with Archetypal Gold
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On the Secret Witch Show today, Nicole is exploring the commonly missed initiation into ‘womanhood’ that so many sensitive women, who were born to be ‘healers,’ often experience - and how this can leave them feeling ‘powerless’ and ‘unconfident’, and fearing that the path of becoming a healer isn’t for them (when in fact it is). In this episode Nicole dives into the rites of passage into adulthood that we often miss in today’s busy, chaotic culture - which often sees the true heart-led ‘softpower’ of the Feminine as ‘weak,’ ‘lazy’ and ‘shameful’, and...
info_outlineOn the Secret Witch Show today our guest is Jade Scarfone. Jade is a tech and systems witch on a mission to support those who are drawn to working in the spiritual business realms but don't necessarily want to be coaches or facilitators - and she also connects spiritual entrepreneurs with those who have trained as Tech WItches so they can have more support in their Queendom. Having supported many spiritual entrepreneurs with their systems, launches, social media, and content over the last 5 years Jade has now founded a school for Tech Witches to do just that. She’s a great example of a woman who has learned how to own her ‘weird’ in business.
In this episode we explore her journey with the Witch Wound, and how she journeyed some of the blocks of owning the label ‘witch’ - including the ‘Good Girl’ wound and her fear of dis-approval and judgment, the fear of her Feminine power, the fear of trusting magic, and being her fullest truthful expression. We talked religious deconditioning, embodiment and sexuality - and how owning your full expression is magnetic - and a healing Archetypal Remedy for those who need your gift.
What You’ll Learn from this Episode:
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When owning our ‘weird,’ some of the fears that come up are fear of losing love and approval - and we have to learn to hold ourselves through the transition from Good Girl - and Rebel! - until we arrive at a place of our true self-expression
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There’s often a deep fear of owning our power - because if we do, we can be burned at the stake for saying stuff that will have people talk about us
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Community is important in owning your inner witch - if we are surrounded by other witches, it doesn’t seem so weird anymore.
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Grounding and being embodied is important in helping us trust our full expression - we can’t know ourselves without being embodied.
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Magical practice is real, and we have to trust it to reveal more of ourselves - it’s different to working in the logical lens we are used to in our culture - for Jade, sex magic is a core practice that helps her get into a trance state - to get out of her head and into her body to know what business wants to be birthed through her and into the world
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Even when our tools don’t look like they are ‘healing’, when we remember we are the medicine, we can see what a gift we offer.
Resources and Things that We Spoke About:
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Instagram: @iamnicolebarton
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Instagram: @archetypalapothecary
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TikTok: @teamsecretwitch
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Facebook: Nicole Barton
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Private Facebook Group: Secret Witch Society
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Website: www.secretwitch.co.uk - check out our other episodes
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Jade’s Website: https://www.techwitchschool.com/
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Find out your Tech Witch Archetype at: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/6381f8b02146c50016ecda0a
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jademareescarfone/
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jmscarfone
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Thank you,
Nicole and Team Secret Witch xox