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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

Release Date: 10/13/2023

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

Dating for potential can mean looking for someone who could potentially be a good match, but not yet is. The goal of dating is to identify potential, explore it, and confirm it.  It can lead to people choosing for incompatible relationships, ignoring red flags, and giving too much time to someone who isn't right for them. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing it!  This week, I'm talking about dating for potential.  Which is not only a sabotage but can really hurt you and your relationships. SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A...

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

New podcast is up and it is so juicy with good info that this a two parter! If you missed part one go listen first. Self-sabotaging in relationships involves engaging in behaviors, either consciously or unconsciously, that lead to the end of a relationship. This might involve pushing the other person away or finding reasons to get out of the relationship. Such behavior often stems from trust issues, past experiences, and poor relationship skills. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing!  So I created a list of 10 Anti-Sabotage...

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

New episode is up and it is so juicy with good info there is going to be a part 2 next week! Self-sabotaging in relationships involves engaging in behaviors, either consciously or unconsciously, that lead to the end of a relationship. This might involve pushing the other person away or finding reasons to get out of the relationship. Such behavior often stems from trust issues, past experiences, and poor relationship skills. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing!  So I created a list of 10 Anti-Sabotage Guidelines to make sure...

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

This week I am sharing the intro episode of my brand new podcast Rom-com Rescue!  A smart & fun podcast from Couples Therapist, Dr. Isabelle Morley & myself  where we teach life lessons from your favorite rom-coms. We are kicking off the podcast with an intro episode to let you know who we are, our own personal love stories, & why we are doing this podcast. Check out the show, transcriptions, shownotes, resources, & more episodes at

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

Check out my NEW "Date Like You F*cking Mean It" Group Workshop for $99!  We are at the tenth (and final) episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." and I am talking about the immature beliefs and mindsets we can get stuck on and keeps us single. Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown: Basic helpful mindsets when you are meeting new people My 3 tier approach to getting back out & meeting people easily & safely. My favorite ways for people to meet other singles right now. ...

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

Check out my NEW "Date Like You F*cking Mean It" Group Workshop for $99! We are at the tenth (and final) episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." and I am talking about the immature beliefs and mindsets we can get stuck on and keeps us single. Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown: Why where is not the best question to ask & what is Real statistics on how singles are meeting currently  Things that may be holding you back that you might not be thinking about. SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A...

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

Short answer: Probably  We are at the ninth episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." and I am talking about the immature beliefs and mindsets we can get stuck on and keeps us single. Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown: The former BS that I believed that kept me single and  The problem with crushes in dating My wake-up call moment that switched my thinking Signs of Immaturity in Dating & Relationships SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a...

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

We are at the eighth episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown:  Can Men and Women Be Friends?  Breaking Gender Stereotypes in Relationships Immature Views on Dating and Relationships Unrealistic Relationship Expectations Challenging Traditional Views on Love The Battle to Educate on Love  SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on...

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

You guys...this one's a doozie. This week, I went down the rabbit hole and I watched/listened to ALL 50 Videos from Reesa M Teesa on   And woah...this one is a wild ride. I will be spoiling it all over the place, but today I talk about: *What this series is about and what happened *What we can learn from this story *How we can watch out for people who are manipulators and aren't really ready for a relationship *Three things we can do that to prevent something like this happening to us. Want to dig in deeper? Check out my new How to Spot People Who Are Not Ready for A Relationship Workshop...

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Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin

Get bonus episodes, a private podcast community, access to Kira, & submit Q and A questions when you SUBSCRIBE to the RD Podcast Membership.  Sign-up at learn.reinventingdating.com We are at the seventh episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." Today I'm breaking down: What I see going on with dating and what we can do about it. Articles I referenced:

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Books Referenced:

Love 2.0 by Dr Barbra Frederickson

Stroke of Insight by Dr Jill Bolte Taylor

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